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Nag-enjoy ka ba?

 

Madaling sagutin pag positive pero pag sa nega naman, smile na lang...

 

At least ...you JUST smile, sis.

 

Me ... I outright LIE! ;p

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Asked of me ... more often about WHY I am STILL single. I tend to think that's a SENSITIVE question to ask me. :blink: :unsure: :huh:

 

I ask of the men ... I guess, about HOW big they are. :rolleyes:

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Kinda uncomfortable question to ask the S.O.

 

Here's the scenario: We've been dating for quite some time and we have a pretty solid foundation to begin with, fiends for a long time. She told me she broke up with her ex last june of 2015. We started dating around december. Recently, she accidentally left her tablet with me. For some reason, yes alam ko mali na i-check yung tablet, I saw some screenshots ng convo ng ex nya and her friend. Sabi ng ex nya hindi pa daw sila break nagddate na daw kami and he wishes her all the best etc etc. The guy left PH around august. I checked some of their messages, nag uusap pa sila until around October after that wala na ako nakita.

 

Uncomfortable for me to ask her and confront her about this since we're together na din kasi and so far she's been an amazing girlfriend. Does it matter ba, or hayaan ko na lang and move forward?

 

Thoughts?

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Kinda uncomfortable question to ask the S.O.

 

Here's the scenario: We've been dating for quite some time and we have a pretty solid foundation to begin with, fiends for a long time. She told me she broke up with her ex last june of 2015. We started dating around december. Recently, she accidentally left her tablet with me. For some reason, yes alam ko mali na i-check yung tablet, I saw some screenshots ng convo ng ex nya and her friend. Sabi ng ex nya hindi pa daw sila break nagddate na daw kami and he wishes her all the best etc etc. The guy left PH around august. I checked some of their messages, nag uusap pa sila until around October after that wala na ako nakita.

 

Uncomfortable for me to ask her and confront her about this since we're together na din kasi and so far she's been an amazing girlfriend. Does it matter ba, or hayaan ko na lang and move forward?

 

Thoughts?

Worth ba na mention sa S.O? What if its the other way around? para skin fault mo din naman kasi bakit access mo yung messages ng S.O. mo thats a big NO sa mga babae. Trust issue yan baka maging mitsa pa ng away nyo...

 

Its either deal with it or prepare for the worse....

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Worth ba na mention sa S.O? What if its the other way around? para skin fault mo din naman kasi bakit access mo yung messages ng S.O. mo thats a big NO sa mga babae. Trust issue yan baka maging mitsa pa ng away nyo...

 

Its either deal with it or prepare for the worse....

 

Yun nga din iniisip ko eh baka maging problema pa namin in the long run. Nakakainis lang din makita yung message ineencourage pa nung friend na "if mahal mo talaga ipaglaban mo" etc etc.

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Yun nga din iniisip ko eh baka maging problema pa namin in the long run. Nakakainis lang din makita yung message ineencourage pa nung friend na "if mahal mo talaga ipaglaban mo" etc etc.

 

Tanggapin mo na lang...kasalanan mo naman kasi bakit mo pinakelaman. Pero cautious ka dapat para if ever dumating nde ok relationship nyo pwd ka mag bail-out...

 

Don't ever bring this out sa SO mo na nabasa mo yung messages sa tablet

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Tanggapin mo na lang...kasalanan mo naman kasi bakit mo pinakelaman. Pero cautious ka dapat para if ever dumating nde ok relationship nyo pwd ka mag bail-out...

 

Don't ever bring this out sa SO mo na nabasa mo yung messages sa tablet

 

Looks like i'll do this na lang. technically wala naman ako nakita na ikakasira ng current relationship namin. Although may nagsabi sakin na since open and no secrets naman kami sa isat isa, I should open the topic to her as early as now. Mahirap na daw na dalhin ko pa ng matagal. But yeah, thanks for the advice bro

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