asianboy Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 Oh my... its BABYMAKER!!! LOVER BOY?!? Tsk. tsk. Be careful. Some ladies might believe you... Yep. I vouch for babymaker's statement that he is OBSESSED with his girl (BABE talaga 'to). This guy used to travel all the way to Subic (from QC, on a bloody DAILY BASIS) to visit her. And he didn't do this for a short period of time, twas close to a doggone YEAR! The unique thing about babymaker is that he is BOTH obsessed & passionate about his Babe. So he & she took the plunge. Nope. I do not vouch for babymaker's statement about himself being in-love and obsessed with his children... this guy is INSANELY MAD about them. This is pure passion at its best! The best doggone father I know. but u can't say that unless u can't feel the love then u r lying to ur self THINK about it Quote Link to comment
_Honey_ Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 i always was.. when it was still us.. pero hindi naman to the point of stalking on him. i wanted to see him everyday, sulit na sulit ang unlimited text service noon. hehe! nakakasawa din minsan but i never had the chance to get over it kasi before pa ko nasanay, nagkalabuan na kami.. huhu!! nah, weather-weather lang yan.. Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 My suspicion ... tine-telepathy/ginayuma ako. By choice, I really don't like thinking about a person 24/7. Feels like I'll be missing out so much out of life. Quote Link to comment
sweeteenia Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 My suspicion ... tine-telepathy/ginayuma ako. By choice, I really don't like thinking about a person 24/7. Feels like I'll be missing out so much out of life.aRE you sure.. the telepathy thing Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 aRE you sure.. the telepathy thing That was just a guess. Just running out of logical reasons. Quote Link to comment
mark_pogi Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 obsessed kami ng last ex ko sa isat-isa to the point na we always check each-other every minute. :upside: :upside: :upside: Quote Link to comment
munchkins and donuts Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 I'll always be obsessed with her I guess... Quote Link to comment
e-swift Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 the quickest way to escape obsession.......find someone else to be obsessed with. Quote Link to comment
pat123 Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 oo, when i love someone i never think of leaving her...like for my ex now im doing all that i can and im being desperate to get her back.. Quote Link to comment
jojobata Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 I used to be head over heels for someone....I no longer have that problem. It's hard, took me a long time to let it go....but after a while you have to wonder whether it's destructive or productive to your life......and then decide and act and move forward. No looking back. Quote Link to comment
Overseer Posted September 28, 2008 Share Posted September 28, 2008 By definition, obsession means a state wherein a person becomes intensely or abnormally preoccupied with his object of desire. Ob-session relationship - ob-session - object - You treat your partner as an object, a purpose for your fanatical thoughts and actions. That's what obsession is: a person (a couple) having one-track mind being too concerned with his obsession to the point that he (or they) lose touch of who they are as individuals having their own separate subjectivities. This is bad. Just when you thought you're only `in love' dearly, you're behavior turns towards being more and more dependent on the other person and on the relationship in general - The `I can't stop thinking about you' or `I can't leave without you' syndrome - Obsession relationship. Most often, we picture of obsession as a `stalker', a mad lover, a stranger offering, more so shoving, his unrequited love (love without return) ending up either in jail or the asylum. However an obsession relationship could also turn out just as bad since once it ends, the obsessed partner could go just as `mad'. Another comparison that could be made is between lust relationship and obsession relationship. Though a relationship started with a lust, most probably the couple will learn how to really love as they get to know each other better. On the other hand, an obsession relationship turns worse, misleading and destructive, as more and more time and effort is invested in the relationship. "Love can grow out of lust, but obsession kills love every time." So before obsession turns any more intense and therefore damaging, even before it starts, it would be saving to know the signs. Watch your behavior. If all of your time and effort goes into satisfying the needs of another person or in courting or pursuing him; if you're always trying so hard to please the other without him doing the same for you; if you feel that you've lost yourself living your life based on the needs of the other person; or if your relationship is without consideration and compromise yet you won't let go, then you are at risk of obsession. You become caught up believing that someone who doesn't love you really does, and you can't move on. You blind yourself to opportunities of meeting someone who will truly make you happy, and in return. So what should you do? - Stop! Commit yourself to stop. Be a cynic, or be indifferent, whatever it takes. Stop idealizing the object of your obsession. Stop glorifying even sympathizing. Make indifference your approach, the opposite of (too much) love. Remember that real love is nurturing, it helps people grow, but obsession - it weakens, rather taking away from the person trapped in it. Sure you can get lost in love, but don't lose yourself, be happy. Quote Link to comment
Guest takenbyjo Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 I think I have been. Quote Link to comment
Miss Zelda Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 yeah twice, ive been obssessed for 2 years with the nugget of nerdness ive been with! abstaining yeah Quote Link to comment
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