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Be Honest, Have You Hurt Someone?why? How?


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It was his inconsistency, or maybe he was just scared. i dunno.

 

I think it went on to a mutual understanding, but never with a confirmation. And just when things were doing well with me, he suddenly popped and asked me how I was. I told him I'm OK and I got a new guy.

 

What ticked me off was when he replied, "What about us?"

 

I got so irritated, and so I replied, "There was no US in the first place, and you very well know why."

 

He said, "Really? And what's that?"

 

I got hurt all the more, so I told him, "I've always been open to you, hoping it would help for you to open up. I knew of how you felt, but I also need an assurance that what I am sensing is true."

 

The he said, "I'm scared of you."

 

DUH?! So to end it, I replied, "Just stop. I am scared too that's why I wanted an assurance. I'm sorry if that's too much for you, but I do need that. There was no US, because I was the one who kept on giving and you're just there receiving it all. So let's just stop it."

 

He didn't reply and made no communication with me ever.

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I'm not that vocal about my emotions about him thats why he started to be so cold. I was just waiting him to ask me about our relationship, I was so shy to discuss it with him. Kaya ayun nawala na lang na parang bula at naiwan na lang ako sa hangin, 2 months na niya akong di pinapansin or walang paramdam (assumed ko na ...he's not just in to me at may iba na ) . Mahirap din tangapin pero move on move on din ... :(

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It was all wrong anyway. I wasn't really feeling any love for him. But I knew of his feelings and I just knew I had to stop it before it becomes deeper.

 

It was just the two of us that night and he felt my silence. I was unfeeling that night and was trying to find the right words to say.

 

He tried kissing me but I was not responsive so he asked why. And I finally let it all out.

 

I ended whatever was growing and told him I just couldn't return the feeling. He was crying but I had to hard not to fall for those tears.

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Yeah... 2 girls, 1 heart.

 

Girl 1 had run away from home to be with me, but girl 2 found out and confronted girl 1. They made me choose. I made the right decision (still going strong to this day!), but I felt terrible for the girl I let go. One of the worst feelings of guilt I've ever experienced. I think it changed me though. Made me a better person. Stick to one now! :)

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Yes. First was an ex. She was 15 and I'm 19. Took her innocence and broke-up with her after 3 years. Gumanti at nag pagalaw kung kanikanino. Revenge of the ex nga ika nila. Sobrang guilty ako non at di mapakali nung nalaman ko pinag gagagawa nya sa buhay nya. Di na kami friends. Second was also an ex. She broke-up with me kasi ang layo raw namin sa isa't isa. She's from Valenzuela and I'm from Muntinlupa. Ang relasyon raw namin ay parang gutom. Pag gutom raw sya wala sya makain = di nya ako makasama, then pag nandyan naman na ako, lipas na raw ang gutom nya. After 3 months, nakipag balikan sya sakin. Mahal parin nya raw ako at iniwan nya ung pinalit nya sakin. Me, gusto gumanti, sinabi ko wala ako gf nun at pinaasa sya. Then, when it was time na nakikipag balikan na sya, sinabi ko may gf nako at pinakausap ko sa kanya ung gf ko. Oh what a waste, sana 2 nalang sila pinag sabay ko hahaha. Stupid me. :)

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