Fling Relationship! Yes Or No, Why?

[Eddy Syet]

Syet, yes!

 

Just make sure that you know how to handle this kind of relationship and both parties understand that it's JUST A FLING. I believe that a man or a woman can have flings even if they really love their "legit" or "legal" partners. Also, make sure that you don't get caught so that no one will get hurt in the process.

[Rhonda Tate]

No.

[Il pirata]

As a married guy, I don't see any reason to have one. Single, maybe. But right now I don't seethe point of wasting time with someone if the relationship will go nowhere.

As a married guy, I don't see any reason to have one. Single, maybe. But right now I don't see the point of wasting time with someone if the relationship will go nowhere.

[BeautifulBitch]

Sure, flings are harmless. It's okay as long as you're both honest to each other that you can't expect anything more. Flings are fun because it gives you butterflies in your stomach, a smile when you wake up and a motivation to work out. Flings will satiate your need for something new and exciting without requiring commitments. It will also give you more choices for different kinds of activities because you can get different kinds of partners. Flings are all fun and games for adults.

[john5791]

Yes.,rather than hv a serious relationship and both will be hurt in the end..

[hocojoc]

yes basta pareho kayo single haha!

[letmelickyou]

It depends. Some girls are for playtime only

[Sabsab]

Nope.. Pero kung single ka nmn pwde nmn.. Hahaha

[djsinple]

Agree with salute!

[anobatalaga]

No, mahirap pag na fall (either of the party)

[SneakyJ]

As long as clear sa both parties na landian lang to even if may mga nangyayari na.

[hideki2001]

If you're single a good fling is better than a relationship that goes bad.

[SneakyJ]

As long as clear sa both parties na landian lang to even if may mga nangyayari na.

[sensible33]

been there. done that.

dati, cool ako dun since it was me rin who doesnt want to be in a serious relationship that time...(nagrerebelde after a breakup pa fyi).

i made it very clear rin naman na we cant fall for each other.

so yeah everything was just a game...

but after almost a year i got tired

coz i started to care rin naman....

mahirap... kala mo lang... hehehe

 

actually nasa tao na un if mas masaya sila na fling lang kesa to be in a relationship.

and we can even blame them, ung iba kasi pra maka multiple partners lang sila with no strings attached; while others, takot lang na masaktan ulit pagmagseryoso sila.

 

but thank God, grad nako dito;)

[Trey150]

#1 Don’t Get Attached

The golden rule of any Fling relationship is “not to get attached.” its easier said than done..

 

#2 No feelings involved

Sex is sex, and if you’re just going to have sex then you cannot talk about your feelings with each other. No sharing how bad your day was at work. or how happy you are because your team won in a basketball game. No meaningful conversations, no intimate evenings, and no crying on your shoulder. And lastly do not mistake sex with intimacy…

 

#3 Do not bring her home

With Fling relationships you should never bring her to your house or condo it sends wrong signals.. Do it somewhere else.

 

#4 What she does when she is not with you is none of your business.

Her love life is none of your business. Whoever she goes out with is none of your business because you and her are not an item. Remember that, because you have no right to be jealous. the only business you have with her is monkey business

 

#5 Don’t ask her to buy you anything.

Because it’s a fling relationship, you can’t ask her to buy you underwear or shirt because that’s what a girlfriend does… the only thing you can ask her to buy are condoms.. and may be some lube.. when you meet for your noontime or night time tryst..note: always practice safe sex... its going to be a big problem if you get her pregnant.

 

#6 Engage only in small talk No long Conversations

This goes back to the “feelings” rule, but a little more detailed. It’s difficult not to feel something for someone you sleep with, But when you talk about your interests likes and dislikes and things you have in common (besides the porn style sex) you are threading on dangerous grounds boy, you’re only making things hard on yourself. Don’t make more out of it than it really is.

 

#7 Don’t go out for coffee or dinner.

_{The best way to avoid those lengthy conversations and misplaced feelings, don’t “hang out.” In fact, don’t see each other often. You can also include phonecalls or Goodmorning texts If you really want a fling relationship, you’re going to have to make sure your life does not connect with hers.}

 

#8 Rules and guidelines must be set from the start

Before you develop a fling relationship both of you must set ground rules for each other. It’s not enough that you stick to these rules; you have to have specific rules for your individual relationship. Make sure both understand what you are getting into..

 

#9 Letting Go… be ready..

Let it go. If it gets too real or you start to care then end it. If you are not enjoying anymore end it

 

#10 Make sure to follow your rules

believe me, when you say Fling ..its almost never a fling. The both of you would have to try hard in order to not keep on crossing the boundaries you both have set…

 

#11 Do not be friends in facebook, twitter , instagram…etc.. etc.. because if you do your fling relationship wouldn’t last a week…

 

to answer TS question : if i can abide by these things i wrote then the answer would be a big yes... problem is i cant ... i like giving gifts... i like long conversations... i like going out on dinner dates...and most of all i like intimacy..

Edited October 18, 2015 by trey150