What Is The Hardest Thing For You To Say...

[SNAKE05]

medyo kuryente ito ehh wag maasar ang mga girl ha pag ako naoko hiwalay na pero sana pag ako nanloko patawarin naman wala ehh boys will be boysssssss

[verynaughty]

What about if he has been secretly cheaating/f#&king other women for more than 10 years - with different women and even sired a child (again secretly)? Or possibly there are more children elsewhere?? I may never know .............. The women he f#&ks around are not all the GROs, CGs, or "paid" ones Most are women willing to sin - - plain fubu, GFs, mistress, kabit, or whatever you call them........... What do you guys and gals think? Should I still forgive and forget and keep the relationship? I have forgiven him once too many, many years ago - but I guess ONCE A PHILANDER ALWAYS A PHILANDER - ONE DOES NOT CHANGE at all no matter what they say - Maybe titigil lang siya pag hindi na gumagana ang totoy niya.

[ron2b1l]

NO!!!!!! :thumbsdownsmiley:

 

 

kc pag ngwa n nya ng isng beses un... kyang kya n nyang ulitin ulit...... no space for forgiveness... :thumbsdownsmiley:

[UglyTruthGuy]

let's put the bar higher. What if the guy cheats but already has kids with you. Now my question is this: Should the girl continue on with the relationship or marriage, just to let the children grow up with a father?

[AutoPimp]

It might be easy to say "no more" and let go than go through with the relationship thinking that it might happen again.

 

However, yeah it might be easier but sometimes the aftermath of the letting go can be so grim that it would really bring you down to depths you've never been before. One might think it's fair to leave, since the gf/bf cheated already and I do believe that being fair is good, but can you be fair when your heart and your brain doesn't want you to?

 

My principle is to gather the facts first before I make a move especially something that could make or brake me. The main reason why she cheated might be me in the first place. If that's the case then I could accept her again and again and again.

 

The catch is that I learn, I learn quick and I do my best not to do the same mistakes again, so that wont give her the same reason as before. This is were the word "limitation" comes in. It might be sky high when you're in-love but sometimes the piles of the facts that were gathered is enough already to reach that.

 

 

 

:mtc:

[kupaloid1]

nagyari sakin to dati ko gf huli ko lagay pa niya pic ng ex niya na magkasama sila sa friendster tapos yun pala lage pa sila uusap,ok lang ang baho naman katawan ex ko na yun amoy beefsteak kili kili kahit bago ligo na hindi kawalan sakin,sana naging sisig nalang amoy mas paborito ko pa kaysa sa beefsteak

[NihonJin]

admittably, pag tayong mga AlphaMales ang na scorned, hindi talaga natin mapapatawad ang mga babae, pero vice versa pag tayo nahuli, we want them to understand why we have done that and obliged them to forgive us..,

 

parang nasa Culture na natin un ganyan eh..,

[ligtasan]

admittably, pag tayong mga AlphaMales ang na scorned, hindi talaga natin mapapatawad ang mga babae, pero vice versa pag tayo nahuli, we want them to understand why we have done that and obliged them to forgive us..,

 

parang nasa Culture na natin un ganyan eh..,

 

True, it's the old double standard. It's been around since before our great-grandfathers. What's gotten stupid is the fact that you have all these "Alpha Male" idiots running around today like a dog in heat expecting any woman he lays eyes on to worship the ground he walks on. Even worse, there are some girls that actually do because they feel they either can't do any better or that "he'll change for me".

 

Ladies, choose your partners wisely. All men are dogs. It's your choice whether you want a faithful hound or a manyak mutt (askal). You know why there's no divorce law in the Phil? How embarrassing would it be for an "Alpha Male" to be served divorce papers by the wife he's been cheating on? For them marriage is just another trophy showing his "success".

 

Guys, we may be dogs but that doesn't mean we have to stay that way. A man is faithful to woman he loves, everybody else is wondow dressing (you can look but you can't touch). An immature child is the one still running to his FUBUs or to an MPA and bragging about how many high school girls he just f*cked in the past week....despite the fact he's married or in a good relationship.

[silentkilla]

kung hindi na-buntis ng other party, i'll save it and try to work out the things i have neglected to make her cheat in the first place.

[ladyinpink44]

True, it's the old double standard. It's been around since before our great-grandfathers. What's gotten stupid is the fact that you have all these "Alpha Male" idiots running around today like a dog in heat expecting any woman he lays eyes on to worship the ground he walks on. Even worse, there are some girls that actually do because they feel they either can't do any better or that "he'll change for me".

 

Ladies, choose your partners wisely. All men are dogs. It's your choice whether you want a faithful hound or a manyak mutt (askal). You know why there's no divorce law in the Phil? How embarrassing would it be for an "Alpha Male" to be served divorce papers by the wife he's been cheating on? For them marriage is just another trophy showing his "success".

 

Guys, we may be dogs but that doesn't mean we have to stay that way. A man is faithful to woman he loves, everybody else is wondow dressing (you can look but you can't touch). An immature child is the one still running to his FUBUs or to an MPA and bragging about how many high school girls he just f*cked in the past week....despite the fact he's married or in a good relationship.

 

nice, very well said.

[ligtasan]

nice, very well said.

 

The funny thing is, a lot of foreign girls praise how Filipino guys are so "romantic"....then they come here and the illusion is shattered. A true measure of a man is how he treats his wife and family or his GF, not how many notches are on the bedpost.

[ligtasan]

Double post...nevermind.

Edited October 14, 2009 by ligtasan

[Miss Zelda]

True, it's the old double standard. It's been around since before our great-grandfathers. What's gotten stupid is the fact that you have all these "Alpha Male" idiots running around today like a dog in heat expecting any woman he lays eyes on to worship the ground he walks on. Even worse, there are some girls that actually do because they feel they either can't do any better or that "he'll change for me".

 

Ladies, choose your partners wisely. All men are dogs. It's your choice whether you want a faithful hound or a manyak mutt (askal). You know why there's no divorce law in the Phil? How embarrassing would it be for an "Alpha Male" to be served divorce papers by the wife he's been cheating on? For them marriage is just another trophy showing his "success".

 

Guys, we may be dogs but that doesn't mean we have to stay that way. A man is faithful to woman he loves, everybody else is wondow dressing (you can look but you can't touch). An immature child is the one still running to his FUBUs or to an MPA and bragging about how many high school girls he just f*cked in the past week....despite the fact he's married or in a good relationship.

 

I'd like to say that this brightened my day! i completely adore you

[kisserfoxygirl]

im sorry

[UncleFrancy]

I'm Sorry ...because if your sorry it's an admission of guilt na nagkamali ka....at isusumbat lang sayo kung evil yung pinag sorry-han mo..