ladyinpink44 Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 been there... i wish i've let him go....it truly hurts, but i guess making the right decision will depend on how much you love the person, and how much you're willing to give and sacrifice for him. this is sad and painful but more often than not we choose to forgive (specially girls) because we are blinded by love, and sweet talks from him/her. :sadsmiley02: Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted June 7, 2009 Share Posted June 7, 2009 (edited) Simply NO.. for sure it will occur again. Its same as when he "hurt" you physically and he said sorry... ie... it will happen again.. Edited June 7, 2009 by cadbury007 Quote Link to comment
perriwinkle Posted June 8, 2009 Share Posted June 8, 2009 ...kaasar....pero if he did it to me,i will also cheat...para maramdaman nya ang nararamdaman ko Quote Link to comment
poohbear16 Posted June 9, 2009 Share Posted June 9, 2009 It make sense I agree i believe that only time can tell and can heal the wounds created by it. but of course since may scar na it will always remind u of his infidelity. ... its really up to you what you want pero minsan use your mind over your heart kasi it will save u from further damage ba.... Quote Link to comment
mhim101 Posted June 18, 2009 Share Posted June 18, 2009 minsan po kasi overpowered ng heart ang mind kaya po mahirap mag decide.... sinsabi ng utak mo ganito eto ang tama wag yan mali yan pero once na kaharap mo na yung tao involve lalambot ka lalo na mahal na mahal mo...yung higit pa sa buhay mo tapos niloloko ka lang...masakit kaya. kaya nga po dapat malakas ang will power ng tao na nasa ganito situation wala tao lang talaga... Quote Link to comment
Bano Posted June 19, 2009 Share Posted June 19, 2009 I will speak through my own experience. And this is my conclusion: Once na-try mong magsinungaling sa kahit sino. Uulitin mo magsinungaling kahit pa sa mahal mo.Pareho lang yan sa panloloko sa mahal mo. Na-try mo na syang lokohin. Mauulit pa ito. Isang bagay na nagawa mo na nakaramdam ka ng excitement, thrill, at enjoyment kahit na sa bandang huli may halo itong guilt at inaatake ka ng konsensya mo. Gagawin at gagawin mo eto ulit. Nahuli ka o mahuhuli ka man ulit. Di ba nga, aminin man natin o hindi, madalas tayong nagsasabi ng di ka na uulit at last na talaga yun. Pero isang araw ayan ka naman. Hay naku! Lahat nagkakasala at patuloy na nagkakasala. Kaya kung patatawarin mo sya at magbubulag bulagan ka. Ikaw yan eh... Tandaan mo lang, 'PAG NILOKO KA MINSAN, KASALANAN NYA. PERO PAG NILOKO KA ULIT, IKAW NA ANG MAY KASALANAN.' Quote Link to comment
JustInnCase Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 once a cheater, will always be a cheater. Quote Link to comment
Kroniklez Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 I'm not sure if I could keep her. She's cheated on her ex and she got me. If she cheated on me, I wouldn't be too surprised, though I feel she loves me more than her ex. She was going to marry the other guy, and called it off 3 months before marriage to be with me. If she did it to me, like I said, I wouldn't be too surprised and I'd let her go. Goodluck to the next guy hehe. *knock on wood* Quote Link to comment
ink Posted July 5, 2009 Share Posted July 5, 2009 ay! hindi ako ganon kabait, hahaha Quote Link to comment
ladyboy Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 ayoko n pag ganun wag magpakatanga Quote Link to comment
77i9 Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 ginawa ko na once........I still regret it Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 7, 2009 Share Posted July 7, 2009 yes, countless times already that i've been cheated but i've moved on and still optimistic about finding the right person if she can prove that she's still one for me and willing to do sacrifices and change for the better then yes.. if not then sorry to say, i'm still a better person for still giving other people the chance to prove themselves Quote Link to comment
vanillaskye Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 i've been cheated on. iniisip ko pa kung kaya ko pa.... or might cheat as well Quote Link to comment
kleptome Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 My stand on this has been FIRM eversince.... Kahit anong rason ng paghihiwalay nyo, kaya pang ayusin yan. PERO If it involves cheating/3rd party..... MOVE ON! IT WILL FOREVER HAUNT YOU & HINDI na maibabalik yung trust ng buo. Quote Link to comment
bluhonda Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 hmm depends.. kung yung girl ba nakipagsex dun sa guy.. syempre bye bye na yun.. kung hindi.. baka pwede pa pagusapan... kung linoko ka naman sa kapwa babae.. edi better yayain mo nalang threesome hehe.. Quote Link to comment
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