TheBlackDahlia Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 no...trust is a very big factor in a relationship...if trust is broken, bye bye na... Quote Link to comment
malambingdxb1 Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 it's similar with the other threads pero i will give na din my comment... kasi kapag cheated sya cheated na kayong pareho kasi gagawin mo din yan so gamitan nalang ganon ang klalabasan nyan ang maliit na butas lumalaki... di lang ako magpapatalo sa mga hayop na nagloko sa akin...ituro pa ako sa mali...sya naman ang maraming babae. Quote Link to comment
Guest simply_tinA Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 I'm willing to keep the relationship tao lan po basta ba valid un rason nya sa pagtataksil baka di ko lam ako pala may problem kea xa nagkaganun wag lan ca magkamali pag pinapili ko xa na pipiliin nya un babae nya kc pag pinili nya un wala nang bawian wala nang tanggapan. Quote Link to comment
m00ncake Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 hell no.. cheaters are cheaters.. anytime pwede maulit kahit anong promise ang sabhin. Quote Link to comment
WrathViper Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 hell no! unless i play around as well... hahahahaha Quote Link to comment
86bangher Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Kapag 'committed', 'One-at-a-time' ako, di tipong kaliwaan. Hence i would rather drop that relation with no regrets. Quote Link to comment
Jonas2085 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 Nope, a trust destroyed can never be repair. There will always be doubt and paranoia on boh sides. Quote Link to comment
malambingdxb1 Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Nope, a trust destroyed can never be repair. There will always be doubt and paranoia on boh sides. i second to that...parehas lang kami nag cheatso why the fuzz renewing the relationshipwhen the love is already doubtful. Quote Link to comment
jakolero2 Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 honestly di ko alam depende siguro sa situation kung bakit niya nagawa yun...pero kung me nangyari na sa kanila sexually di na no! ano ko bale? Quote Link to comment
InfidelChinito Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 ako nakipagbalikan ako with my whore of a gf after cheating on me...in short nagpaka martyr ako..ngayon i relaize isang pagkakamali yun..if i can just turn back time...hay :cry: Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted April 26, 2009 Share Posted April 26, 2009 you really can't tell until you get there. iba kasi ung feeling pag-ayan na eh. its really hard to give a 2nd chance its true, it takes a whole gut feeling and a lot of nerves to give that to a person whom you've trusted a lot. but if the person is willing to change, already gave up the bad habit unfaithful act wouldn't we give them a chance? I mean kung tayo ang may nagawa wouldn't we ask for the same thing? Quote Link to comment
olop Posted April 26, 2009 Share Posted April 26, 2009 worst thing you can do in a relationship is destroy the trust cause it will always be at the back of the mind.hinde na comfortable, so might as well drop it Quote Link to comment
Kharnall Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 (edited) We feel betrayed if our trust was broken and we feel that trusting again will hurt you more. however let me be a devil's advocate . i have betrayed someones trust by sleeping with another , it wasn't anythng emotional its just that we never were officially a couple so technically , i can " cheat " . it wasn't because of revenge cause she broke my heart once. we agreed that at the onset of our " boardmate" relationship that we will not be exclusive to avoid complications. Cheat...is just like playing a loaded dice, taking crib notes in the middle of the exam , or pocketing an ace on a poker game. this things are curable . we are stuck on a dogma that " once someone cheats on you , they will forever cheat and they will never change and they will do it again " . a hard solution to this problem is that you tell your partner that you are hurt everytime you are cheated . or you felt betrayed everytime you are cheated. We Filipinos are generally a forgiving people , our current president cheated last elections, yet she is still our president , Cpl Smith rape a filipina , after 5 years of confinement we just write it off as a spontaneous love affair. if your partner cheats on you and you let them know that you don't like it , if they love you truly . they WILL change . We might not know this or most of us might take this for granted but " LOVE " is a powerful motivator. to emphasize my epilougue let me just finnsh this with a dogma " WE do crazy things for LOVE " , forgiving is one of them . If they still do it, you can always cut his pecker hehehhehe Edited May 11, 2009 by Kharnall Quote Link to comment
MS Posted May 12, 2009 Share Posted May 12, 2009 I used to be forgiving, pero siguro this time, If catch my significant other na nagloloko...... I'll call it quits, no point of staying in the relationship if the trust is no longer there, nakaka praning lang and I hate that feeling... Quote Link to comment
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