connection Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 no second chance Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 hi! im actually a female. i jst indicated that im a male bcoz ive been posting some messages which are supposed to be directed to all males. u know, men wouldn't take advices from a female seriously right? ur response caught my attention. i have a boyfriend for seven years. he loves me alright. but lately, a different side of him surfaces.. nhihilig sya mag men's KTV. everytime i would find out, he apologizes. he used to tell me that he's not that kind of person really.. that it was just a bad indiscretion. he did it thrice this year. i know what ur saying.. "there is nothing wrong with that." yes, i know. but that doesn't go for us, i gues. let me say, he hadn't been true to me about that other side of him.its not like i wont let him be his true person. but the problm is, i was misled. all these years..how do i deal with this? in bed, i'd say, he's very satisfied with me. im pretty sure about that. i just cant stand that he lied to me about his true self. in a man's point of view, could it be na nagsasawa na siya sa kin & yet he still loves me?i tried asking for a cool off pero ayaw niya. he wud just say, "i didnt mean to hurt you and ayoko mawala ka. please help me get through this."but everytime the "situation" arises and some peers would invite him to a "night" out, he'd simply give in. ano ba yun? dapat ko ba tanggapin na ganun na siya and let him be? or does he really mean it when he says he wanted to change?im confused. I didn't get well what's the problem with your boyfriend, are you saying he is a gay? or he's going out with his male friends to look for other "women"? Quote Link to comment
queenamidala1972 Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 hiwalay agad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment
peterparker Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 hmm, this is a tough one.. okay, okay i know this sounds cliche but here goes.. everybody makes mistakes, we are but human.. :hypocritesmiley: if it`s the first offense, you can let it pass.. but not without a warning.. subsequent transgressions will be.. fatal! hehe.. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 my input.. its not bad to give 2nd chance as long as you see sincerity kahit naman ikaw makagawa you would like a second chance hindi naman lahat ng tao once maumpog na at makita ung pwedeng mawala sa kanya eh uulit pa sa kamalian na nagawa nya. depende talaga sa tao pero ang mahalaga you gave the person a chance na magbago. we all need a second chance sometimes.. Quote Link to comment
krisnathan24 Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 its about learning to forgive and forget eh as long as the other person asks for forgiveness and would do something to make it right. Learning experience for both of you since you also learn to forgive past mistakes. Quote Link to comment
jampark72 Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 If she/can do it to you once... he/she can do it again. Quote Link to comment
jonathansantos Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 bahala na. baka kasi di ko kayanin na wala sya eh. Quote Link to comment
willierevillame69 Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 this picture was taken in paradise club in q.avenue sumbong neo 2 kay micki ferrion c archie ngppnnta ng beerhouse hahah Quote Link to comment
Red76 Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 Depende been there done that it just depends talaga if your willing to stay. Quote Link to comment
zezille Posted February 6, 2009 Share Posted February 6, 2009 its easy to say no more second chances...but the reality is, most of us girls tend to forgive once nalambing na tayo. however, cheating can never be forgotten, nakaukit na yan, lamat sa relationship. Quote Link to comment
don_miguel_arkanghel Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 sanayan lng yan. ako manhid na sa panloloko hahaha!!! i just believe that there is someone out there na pag binigyan mo ng second chance magtitino talaga. so far wala pa tumino sa mga binigyan ko ng 2nd chance but everybody deserves 2nd chances right? yun lng yun! :cool: Quote Link to comment
iLOVEpanCAKE Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 learned my girl had other escapades not only one she looks nice d makapagbasag pinggan but everything is bullshit sinungaling lang talaga. kaya i do what i am doing now lost trust in women. was fooled 4 times in my life by women. moral of the story: never trust! sakit lalo na if you love the person fooling you Quote Link to comment
hannabanana Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 sabe nila, everybody deserves a second chance... but, IMHO, unfair as it may seem, pag nagkalokohan na, aba... ibang usapan na yun... y would i bother to keep someone na has broken my trust... we can be ok but, i can never keep the relationship... kase, i know, that i will always have doubts... Quote Link to comment
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