What Is The Hardest Thing For You To Say...

[jetpilot_88]

the hardest has always been the truth...

[iskha]

i know it's stupid but yes...i'd be willing to give him a second chance

 

 

yes, i guess it's because i love him so much.

[miguelandal]

the latter is much harder for me.

 

i wasn't brought up in a family that said those three words often.

[Pantasya]

I love you... as in mean it

[Ibleedforyou]

I LOVE YOU ....

 

pero sa Taong Ngongo... Mahirap pareho :upside:

[Ibleedforyou]

:thumbsdownsmiley:

 

( enough is enough )

[jman2k]

both.

[bronzegoddess]

once a cheater always a cheater

[guyed]

It's crazy but yes......everybody needs and deserves a second chance....who are we not to forgive.....nobody's perfect in this world...

[guyed]

It's crazy but yes......everybody needs and deserves a second chance....who are we not to forgive.....nobody's perfect in this world...

[13thwitch]

i'd stay...and give him hell for doing it...to make things even...(grrr)

[Guest JuicyCowgurl]

non cheaters are for saints.

 

and he is not a saint.

 

so am i.

 

[wOwShakes]

TAO naman hinahanap ko eh

 

hindi SANTO

[PLAYSPORT01]

Just want to keep the record straight here, i opened this topic

but it doesn't mean that this is my personal case ha... some people

here have already met my partner and i don't want them to think

something else

 

I just want to know the ideas of the members on this issue.

 

Ok, let's move on.

 

My opinion is that if you know that you still love her, i'll still keep the relationship, give her the full trust again, and as much as possible, i will not dwell the issue anymore with her.

 

Instead, what i'm going to do is to identify the causes of why she has done that, then tingnan ko ang mga ways or ung mga dapat kong gawin para hindi na niya ulitin ulit yun.

 

hi! im actually a female. i jst indicated that im a male bcoz ive been posting some messages which are supposed to be directed to all males. u know, men wouldn't take advices from a female seriously right?

 

ur response caught my attention. i have a boyfriend for seven years. he loves me alright.

but lately, a different side of him surfaces.. nhihilig sya mag men's KTV. everytime i would find out, he apologizes. he used to tell me that he's not that kind of person really.. that it was just a bad indiscretion.

he did it thrice this year.

i know what ur saying.. "there is nothing wrong with that." yes, i know.

but that doesn't go for us, i gues.

let me say, he hadn't been true to me about that other side of him.

its not like i wont let him be his true person.

but the problm is, i was misled. all these years..

how do i deal with this?

in bed, i'd say, he's very satisfied with me. im pretty sure about that.

i just cant stand that he lied to me about his true self.

in a man's point of view, could it be na nagsasawa na siya sa kin & yet he still loves me?

i tried asking for a cool off pero ayaw niya.

he wud just say, "i didnt mean to hurt you and ayoko mawala ka. please help me get through this."

but everytime the "situation" arises and some peers would invite him to a "night" out, he'd simply give in.

ano ba yun? dapat ko ba tanggapin na ganun na siya and let him be? or does he really mean it when he says he wanted to change?

im confused.

[bundatbundat]

If I was a girl dating a cheater guy... I'd give him a second chance.

Or more, depending on the circumstances of the relationship.

 

But as me now, a guy dating a girl, if she cheats on me, I don't think I'll give her a second chance.

No, I definitely wouldn't give her a second chance.

 

Because guys are easily tempted physically.

Even the most loyal guys out there would get an urge to look when a hot girl in skimpy clothing passes by.

Most wouldn't do anything about it, but when a hot girl is right up in your face, breathing onto your mouth, with her boobs right in front of you, legs touching yours, her soft ass sitting on your lap... even if she is a stranger, as long as she has relatively some level of hotness, it is VERY hard to resist.

I can't blame someone who ends up cheating when put into circumstances beyond his control.

 

While as for girls, it's a completely different ballgame.

While some like "hot guys" with 6-pack abs, they aren't exactly ones to be completely aroused just visually.

And while physical contact with them works wonders for arousal, it depends also on their mindset.

 

A girl with slight interest will easily be aroused by touches with escalating sexual tension, but someone with only loyalty in mind will usually shy away immediately, feel awkward, annoyed, and at extremes even disgusted.

Whilst guys can't help but be aroused by female touch no matter how much they mentally resist.

 

So basically... a guy can easily end up cheating if he is cornered by a hot girl, but a girl will not do so unless she is mentally perceptive to flirting attempts (i.e. malandi or nagpapalandi)

And that's much harder to forgive, since it shows that she allowed it to happen.

(the guy did so to, but he really has no easy way out short of punching the girl, or using other means of brute force)