^Tim^ Posted August 30, 2008 Share Posted August 30, 2008 NO, coz once a cheater always a cheater! :grr: big ouch there but can't blame ya... as for me... first reaction would always be inner rage... but after nerves calmed down (woosah! should help :evil:), always believed in two sides to every story and would ask mah lady bout it... but then again... Quote Link to comment
culpritmooncake Posted August 30, 2008 Share Posted August 30, 2008 bin with dis guy for almost 4 yirz. on our 8th month, he started cheating on me. i always caught him txtng dis grl from deyr ofis and his tita told me dat a grl went to deyr haus w/ him. den came 1 grl aftr d ader. i always wanted to break him up den, wenever i caught him, but he was always hesitant and acted lyk he nided me mor dan any1else. poor me,i dont beliv in wat he says but i always had and hav a soft heart for him. den just last 2 yirs ago,he indirectly asked me to settle down w/ him in deyr provins(he went bak home after our major breakup). my hopes wer high dat he is a changed man aftr all. den came a grl hus txtng me dat i hav to let go of his man,telling me dat deyr married blah blah... so i decided not to hav any contact with him,ever! iv bin depresd for yirs. bin with diferent men just to compensate my depression. and just few months bak,he found me. said his nver married and alredi broke up w/ dat grl. d last tym he asked me out, it felt lyk we'r strangers to each ader. it doesnt fil lyk we've slept ryt next to each ader every single nyt of our lives bak den.ryt now, we'r trying to b civil to each ader. he said he is single,i said im not seeing any1 ryt now. but i know in d corners of our eyes dat we'r fooling each ader. i cud always FORGIV,but not easily FORGET! no matter how SAINT he is now! Quote Link to comment
ChemALi Posted August 30, 2008 Share Posted August 30, 2008 If I would be in this horseshit (hopefully not), I wont stay. It's really hard to stay in a relationship with doubts. Though maybe I can forgive but I wont stay. I can't live with someone that I don't trust. And besides if she done it once, she could do it twice. Quote Link to comment
gilghost Posted August 30, 2008 Share Posted August 30, 2008 (edited) give her one more chance after that.... hindi ko na alam Edited August 30, 2008 by gilghost Quote Link to comment
sbc97581 Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 It seems easy to throw the girl out but what if there are kids involve? How much are you willing to endure for the happiness of your kids? Can you live with her under the same roof together with the kids and be civil about whats going on and pretend everything's fine in front of the kids and family and eventually look for a new relationship? At this point it seems simplier if the girl has an accident. What do you think ? Quote Link to comment
japanese roll Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 Probably not. But then again... Quote Link to comment
Danielle Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 I used to be a forgiving, all-accepting girl who would find all the reasons in the world to give her boy another chance...and then, I grew up and became a woman. Finally, the WOMAN in me found a courageous stand: SECOND CHANCE IS NOT FOR A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. IT IS ONLY FOR FRIENDSHIP. Quote Link to comment
Palakol Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 hey. if truly love her, it doesn't matter. f#&king the whole football team in pairs wouldn't be able to change that, or it wouldn't be love at all in the first place. i'd probably get pissed though, and have anxiety attacks from post-traumatic stress disorder for the rest of my life. Quote Link to comment
Guest dyosalet Posted September 1, 2008 Share Posted September 1, 2008 Mine did. I thought I could deal with it. I think I may have if only he was remorseful, if only he actually wanted to make amends. Unfortunately, he really is a bastard and an assh*le to boot. So its out of the door for the relationship. Quote Link to comment
jetlag143 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 nope, i will never will.... Quote Link to comment
LYCHEE Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 i'm a believer in 2nd chances, strike 2 your out... Quote Link to comment
TsoruEk9 Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 of course not ... dapat tapos agad yung relationship ... and besides nakakahiya sa part ko anu nalang sasabihin ng pamilya ko ??? minahal ko isang babaeng kaladkarin Quote Link to comment
jayr4u69 Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 kakausapin at bibigyan ng huling pagkakataon...pag hindi pa rin nagbago hihiwalayan na lang Quote Link to comment
moaningmonica Posted October 7, 2008 Share Posted October 7, 2008 well lahat nman ngkakamali...kung mahal mo sha then swalow ur pride..move on..forgive mo sha..and forgive mo rin sarili mo ...not easy...madaling sabihin??totoo..but it worked for me..kame pa ngayn at nagbago sha Quote Link to comment
jerpau Posted October 9, 2008 Share Posted October 9, 2008 yung gf ko nahuli na akong may babae..xempre nasaktan sya nung una..tapos ng sorry sorry effect ako..sabi nya ayaw n nya..edi sbi ko cge.wla nmn ako mggwa yun ang gusto nya.after one day ngtext sya sabi nya my babalik daw stang mga gamit ko n binigay ko sa kanya inorder for him to forget and let go of me na.edi pumunta naman ako.akala ko ibibigay lang nya yung nya ung mga gamit then nung pag bgy nya ng gamit bigla nya akong pinigilan at sabi mag usap muna kmi.then ask nya kung mhl ko p daw sya.edi sabi ko oo.then bla bla bla then okay na.pero sb nya iwan ko na yung isa.syempre ako.................secret..ahahaha..yun lang. Quote Link to comment
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