slimguyph Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 I cheated on my wife... It damaged the relationship Pero now things are getting back to normal, and better... The sex, th works, everything is better... Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 I know captain_barbell22 however sometimes if you do the same parang iba ung feeling....Pero I know it's wrong.,, just be careful :-) Quote Link to comment
Guest Riveria Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 just be careful :-) Don't worry I won't do it....Curious lang ako talaga. Quote Link to comment
mhim101 Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 pwede naman na leave the relationship and start a new onethat way di ka nag cheat... kung pwede sa iyo yung ganun... Quote Link to comment
Guest Riveria Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 pag nag cheat na uulit ulitin na un for sure Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 pag nag cheat na uulit ulitin na un for sure I guess it depends on the person. if he/she knows the gravity of their mistake and have calculated what they will lose and the people they hurted true enough magbabago yun pero kung ndi pa din clear sa kanya yung consequences ng actions niya yes gagawa at gagawa pa din yan. it takes grown ups to handle a relationship we can never base eveything on just how we feel because our heart can be deceived over and over again. its wise to think and look at the possible outcome of our actions before we decide to go that path.. Quote Link to comment
Guest Riveria Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 I guess it depends on the person. if he/she knows the gravity of their mistake and have calculated what they will lose and the people they hurted true enough magbabago yun pero kung ndi pa din clear sa kanya yung consequences ng actions niya yes gagawa at gagawa pa din yan. it takes grown ups to handle a relationship we can never base eveything on just how we feel because our heart can be deceived over and over again. its wise to think and look at the possible outcome of our actions before we decide to go that path.. It make sense but its really hard to accept if the person you love cheated on you Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 It make sense but its really hard to accept if the person you love cheated on you It really depends on you. If the relationship is right naman as in walang nasasagasaang ibang tao and there is something in you that still wants to save it why not? then again the trust all that needs to be re-established and that takes time and ofcourse the forgiveness is the hardest. healing takes time and effort from the offended person. the speed of healing is always dependent on you not on people around you. there is always acceptance that somethings can never be changed and we just need to live w/ that fact but you no longer choose to become the victim by moving on this time on the right path. Quote Link to comment
Guest Riveria Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 It really depends on you. If the relationship is right naman as in walang nasasagasaang ibang tao and there is something in you that still wants to save it why not? then again the trust all that needs to be re-established and that takes time and ofcourse the forgiveness is the hardest. healing takes time and effort from the offended person. the speed of healing is always dependent on you not on people around you. there is always acceptance that somethings can never be changed and we just need to live w/ that fact but you no longer choose to become the victim by moving on this time on the right path. Healing....it takes time...mahirap biglain Quote Link to comment
truellusion Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 you can say NO or YES but the truth is it's harder to decide when you get there... Quote Link to comment
Guest Riveria Posted May 31, 2009 Share Posted May 31, 2009 you can say NO or YES but the truth is it's harder to decide when you get there... It make sense I agree Quote Link to comment
chumnoel Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 (edited) hello peepz just wanna share my thoughts on this topic i have learned to forgive and forget despite the gravity of her actions... maybe it's because i love her so much and maybe because i allowed myself to be ruled by my heart and not my mind. It's sad and it's hurting but my love for her prevails. mahal na mahal ko lang talaga siya kaya ko siguro kinaya kong madaling magpatawad. Love endures and love prevails. Stupid as it may seem, i am trying to win her back into my arms. Cguro, sa tagal ng aming pagsasama, i have been accustomed to her presence na hindi ko na kaya pang mawala siya sa buhay ko. have a pleasant evening to one and all :thumbsupsmiley: Edited June 1, 2009 by chumnoel Quote Link to comment
13Nails Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 Hell no!!!... Its goodbye right away!!!! :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
pentax^27 Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 This depends on the confrontation. If the cheating side doesn’t show any feeling of guilt or remorse on what he/she did and doesn’t want to communicate why he/she did it then I guess you have to let the person go. I have watched a show on TV about a cheating wife wherein hubby accidentally found about it. He forced his wife to confess and tell why she did such thing by playing russian roulette. I believe you can do crazy things when you love a person very much. I guess in life and death situation you will realize how you truly love the person. The outcome of the story is a second chance for both of them. They both are guilty, hubby doesn’t show affection and attention. I think when this happens the best thing to do is to feel then think before you decide. Quote Link to comment
ladyinpink44 Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 been there... i wish i've let him go....it truly hurts, but i guess making the right decision will depend on how much you love the person, and how much you're willing to give and sacrifice for him. this is sad and painful but more often than not we choose to forgive (specially girls) because we are blinded by love, and sweet talks from him/her. :sadsmiley02: Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted June 7, 2009 Share Posted June 7, 2009 (edited) Simply NO.. for sure it will occur again. Its same as when he "hurt" you physically and he said sorry... ie... it will happen again.. Edited June 7, 2009 by cadbury007 Quote Link to comment
perriwinkle Posted June 8, 2009 Share Posted June 8, 2009 ...kaasar....pero if he did it to me,i will also cheat...para maramdaman nya ang nararamdaman ko Quote Link to comment
poohbear16 Posted June 9, 2009 Share Posted June 9, 2009 It make sense I agree i believe that only time can tell and can heal the wounds created by it. but of course since may scar na it will always remind u of his infidelity. ... its really up to you what you want pero minsan use your mind over your heart kasi it will save u from further damage ba.... Quote Link to comment
mhim101 Posted June 18, 2009 Share Posted June 18, 2009 minsan po kasi overpowered ng heart ang mind kaya po mahirap mag decide.... sinsabi ng utak mo ganito eto ang tama wag yan mali yan pero once na kaharap mo na yung tao involve lalambot ka lalo na mahal na mahal mo...yung higit pa sa buhay mo tapos niloloko ka lang...masakit kaya. kaya nga po dapat malakas ang will power ng tao na nasa ganito situation wala tao lang talaga... Quote Link to comment
Bano Posted June 19, 2009 Share Posted June 19, 2009 I will speak through my own experience. And this is my conclusion: Once na-try mong magsinungaling sa kahit sino. Uulitin mo magsinungaling kahit pa sa mahal mo.Pareho lang yan sa panloloko sa mahal mo. Na-try mo na syang lokohin. Mauulit pa ito. Isang bagay na nagawa mo na nakaramdam ka ng excitement, thrill, at enjoyment kahit na sa bandang huli may halo itong guilt at inaatake ka ng konsensya mo. Gagawin at gagawin mo eto ulit. Nahuli ka o mahuhuli ka man ulit. Di ba nga, aminin man natin o hindi, madalas tayong nagsasabi ng di ka na uulit at last na talaga yun. Pero isang araw ayan ka naman. Hay naku! Lahat nagkakasala at patuloy na nagkakasala. Kaya kung patatawarin mo sya at magbubulag bulagan ka. Ikaw yan eh... Tandaan mo lang, 'PAG NILOKO KA MINSAN, KASALANAN NYA. PERO PAG NILOKO KA ULIT, IKAW NA ANG MAY KASALANAN.' Quote Link to comment
JustInnCase Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 once a cheater, will always be a cheater. Quote Link to comment
Kroniklez Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 I'm not sure if I could keep her. She's cheated on her ex and she got me. If she cheated on me, I wouldn't be too surprised, though I feel she loves me more than her ex. She was going to marry the other guy, and called it off 3 months before marriage to be with me. If she did it to me, like I said, I wouldn't be too surprised and I'd let her go. Goodluck to the next guy hehe. *knock on wood* Quote Link to comment
ink Posted July 5, 2009 Share Posted July 5, 2009 ay! hindi ako ganon kabait, hahaha Quote Link to comment
ladyboy Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 ayoko n pag ganun wag magpakatanga Quote Link to comment
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