cherrrrypickerrrr Posted October 29, 2008 Share Posted October 29, 2008 get even more....she cheats once u cheat twice... :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
mobidick Posted October 29, 2008 Share Posted October 29, 2008 everyone of us desrve as second chance if you are married and you want to save the relationship then forgive her, but dont make it an excuse para ikaw naman gumawa ng kalokohan be observant dapat lahat ng kilos nya alam mo para di sya makalusot sakali na may gawin uli sya hirap talaga mag asawa pag ang napangasawa mo ay di mo talaga gaano nakikilala mahalaga talaga bago mag asawa kailangan ng long engagement para makilala mo sya ng lubusan otherwise ikaw mag sa suffer in the long run mahirap talaga pag nagkalamat na hirap na ibalik yung trust...para dun sa mga naka first offense kailangan wag na wag nyo na uulitin gawa kayo laht ng paraan na maibalik uli yung dating pagtitiwala....kung sa tingin nyo naman dina mag wo work yung relation might as well na hiwalayan nyo na kesa gawin nya uli yung dati kaya naman nangyayari ito sa iba eh dina nag wo work yung relation meaning gusto na talaga ng girl makipaghiwalay dahil maaaring hinde ka na nya mahal sya na lang gumagawa ng dahilan para magkahiwalay sayo wag nyo na hintayin na paulit ulit ka nya ta taihan sa ulo at baka dumating yung point na pati tayo mawala na respeto sa sarili pag aralan nating harapin ang katotohanan thats it Quote Link to comment
Athelas Posted October 29, 2008 Share Posted October 29, 2008 It depends on the circumstances and kind of cheating.  If it was only a moment's indiscretion for example, it wouldn't be as damaging as a the nth time in a long series of different affairs. I mean, if she was interested in having multiple partners, why did she decide to enter into an exclusive relationship? I wouldn't mind reevaluating and adjusting the parameters of the relationship. What I mind are the lies and secrecy. This undermines the trust that is implicit in the relationship. Quote Link to comment
BallBreaker Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 No. especially when it's the emotional cheating type. the kind that involves an emotional attachment. there's only one word to say when that happens...  TEETH. Quote Link to comment
^Tim^ Posted November 8, 2008 Share Posted November 8, 2008 if he cheats, i cheat too. hey fair game for all  best reply i've seen so far it's all about the game, aight? :boo:  add to that... u still really have to hear 2 sides of the story... most importantly ur partner's side....whatever ur friends or other peeps say about her. :cool: hear her out... Quote Link to comment
King Nothing Posted November 8, 2008 Share Posted November 8, 2008 if he cheats, i cheat too. hey fair game for all   get even more....she cheats once u cheat twice... :thumbsupsmiley:  Yeah samefor me if she cheats i cheat too, if she want to continue the relationship i should be allowed to cheat twice! Quote Link to comment
.... Posted November 8, 2008 Share Posted November 8, 2008 ill stay pero di na mababalik sa dati ang lahat Quote Link to comment
jetlag143 Posted November 8, 2008 Share Posted November 8, 2008 no, i will call it quits.....it's hard Quote Link to comment
zero_kidd2000 Posted November 8, 2008 Share Posted November 8, 2008 nope.. you'll just be wasting your time.. Â been there, done that... learned my lesson... never again Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted November 8, 2008 Share Posted November 8, 2008 and should i cheat too? that would be too......childish, spur-of-the-moment thingy.   i'd look at both sides - his and mine. for all i know there might be that something in me which pushed him to do so. if none, then that's a sign. for me to move on. alone. Quote Link to comment
ReDBaByBuRn Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 i did try to keep the relationship...but then...i realized that i really need to let go of him...for he is hurting me so bad...that im even losing my self respect... Quote Link to comment
BigJuicyLady Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 difficult. if you can learn to trust each other again. (easier said than done) maybe. Quote Link to comment
fra diavalo Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 r u shitting me? of cors not! Quote Link to comment
Guest xerxes Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 even if you try to keep the realtionship....the most difficult part would be the TRUST issue :thumbsdownsmiley:  it will always be at the back of your mind, and it pains more, compared to the hurting you experienced when your leaned your partner cheated on you, thinking that your partner maybe doing it again nakakaloko ang pakiramdam :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
dbzar2 Posted November 12, 2008 Share Posted November 12, 2008 look both sides.. maybe i did something which triggered the incident.. everybody deserves a second chance.. 3rd chance?? now thats a different story Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 i wouldn't blame the partner. just depends what the partner wants to do from this point on. i'm willing to share..... hahahaha Quote Link to comment
toknene Posted November 16, 2008 Share Posted November 16, 2008 "I'm sorry"Â I hate making excuses...... I hate making mistakes (pero I do it a lot hahaha). So if me mistake I have to say sorry. But I can't so I have to make excuses. E 'di ba I hate making excuses. So away na lang hahaha Quote Link to comment
nashty Posted November 16, 2008 Share Posted November 16, 2008 i love you... specially if you don't love the girl deeply YET, and tells you "i love you". afterwards, she'll have this look that seems to wait for you to say "i love you" back. ack! anyone felt this? Quote Link to comment
imogen Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 i love you is harder. Quote Link to comment
Kharnall Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 a call center agent says " Im sorry " on average of about 50 times a day . So i guess Saying " I love you " is the hardest to say . Quote Link to comment
FlavoredBeer Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 Ive been in this situation last week..  When ung couz nya confess about the activity of my gf pag nasa skul.. Meron daw ibang bf, at first yokong maniwala because i really trust my gf a lot.. then, i ask her couz kng bkt nya sinasabi sa akin yun.. her couz just reply, "Alam ko kung gaano mo kamahal pinsan ko, di ko na kasi matake mga gngawa nya sau" then napa iyak na lang ako..  then after that i seek advices sa mga friends ko.. iisa lang sinsabi nla.. at lahat yun is to let go na nga daw.. Oo n lang ako ng Oo.. pero deep inside I still want to give her another chance.. Until naka usap ko ate ko.. and advice me na kung mahal mo pa xa, at sa tingin mong magbabago siya, den go..  2 days after I confronted my gf.. at umamin ngang may iba siyang bf, den sabi ko bkt nya nagawa nya un?! alam mong committed ka.. I was been a good bf to you, kht ang dami pwde kong ma flirt jan sa tabi2 di ko pinapansin just a respect sa relationshp naten.. I was really badly hurt.. tinanong ko n lang siya, kng may sasabhin pa xa.. sabi nya "sorry sa mga nagawa ko" and eaten my pride while i ask her, gus2 mo pa ba ituloy relationshp naten?? sabi nya yes.. I just tell her na madaming magbabago, den if she could accept all the consequences.. aun, after that conversation naging ok na kame.. Last word ko na lang na sinabi sa kanya "I still give you my trust again, It's up to you to prove me na tama nga ang naging desisyon ko.." Quote Link to comment
tagalupa Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Yep if talaga nagsisisi siya pero nde nya ako masisisi na magkaron ng pagbabago.. Quote Link to comment
Pantasya Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 depends why... I forgave him.... and our relationship is still working.... But I'm more wary this time... parang mas madali nang maglet go. Quote Link to comment
Pantasya Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 for me, it's I Love you... Quote Link to comment
bawang Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 mahirap magsabi ng "i'm sorry." Quote Link to comment
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