Where Are Your Ex's Now? Do They Still Affect You?

[Maykeee]

yes. especially my TOTGA

[VivaForever2005]

Hope he's burning in hell 😆

kidding aside, i don't know where he is...and honestly, i'd care less

ndi ako bitter! i'm very happy with my boyfriend now and i hope he (my ex) is happy, too.

[nelle]

Wala na ata di narin ako naapektuhan

[irreleevant]

Has kids. Not affected at all.

[Mccloud707]

Syempre maiisip mo minsan what could have been. But most of the time, good memories na lang if maayos naman yung hiwalayan or at least wala masyadong hurtful words nasabi. To all the girls I’ve loved before 🤣😂 

[VivaForever2005]

Si Ex? Hindi mo siya kaaway at hindi mo rin siya kaibigan. Siya yung taong nakasama mo sa nakaraan na gumawa ng alaala pero hindi rin siya parte ng buhay mo, kase wala na kayo. 

Maaaring sya ang dahilan kung bakit nasaktan ka ng sobra at maaaring sya rin ang naging rason kung bakit marami kang natutunan sa PAG-IBIG. Kaya kung babalik man siya, It's your choice, basta lagi mong tatandaan "kaya pala lapis ang gamit ng mga bata para ipaalam sa kanila na ang MALI ay pwede pang ITAMA at kaya naman ballpen ang gamit natin para ipaalam sa atin na hindi na tayo bata para ulit ulitin ang pagkakamali na hindi na natin kayang burahin pa.

[HimuraButosay]

On 9/19/2024 at 11:51 PM, martbogard said:

Si Ex? Hindi mo siya kaaway at hindi mo rin siya kaibigan. Siya yung taong nakasama mo sa nakaraan na gumawa ng alaala pero hindi rin siya parte ng buhay mo, kase wala na kayo. 

Maaaring sya ang dahilan kung bakit nasaktan ka ng sobra at maaaring sya rin ang naging rason kung bakit marami kang natutunan sa PAG-IBIG. Kaya kung babalik man siya, It's your choice, basta lagi mong tatandaan "kaya pala lapis ang gamit ng mga bata para ipaalam sa kanila na ang MALI ay pwede pang ITAMA at kaya naman ballpen ang gamit natin para ipaalam sa atin na hindi na tayo bata para ulit ulitin ang pagkakamali na hindi na natin kayang burahin pa.

Quite an analogy.

 

So let's put that in perspective with three relationships that I had:

#1 | My first GF;  who laughed at the idea of us being married & told that I wasn't capable

#2 | My 2nd GF; we were together for 9-years (8years or so of being GF/BF and 1-year almost of being married); it ended when she cheated on me.

#3 : I met this girl online (thru WeChat);  younger than me... we lasted for about 1-year;  it ended when she decided to go with another guy.. our relationship was more of the "Friends with Benefits" type.

#4 : This one, well, this was where I was abused... physically, emotionally, financially... I was glad it had ended; else, I may not be here at all.

 

Which among the three would you think I had no ill feelings?

My answer:  its number three.

Why?  Because even though it was the "Friends with Benefits" type of relationship... It was where I grew the most.

The first, second, and mostly the fourth.. It felt like there was no growth, felt like you were chained... I tried hard to keep the ember of love burning on those.. but I was the one who got burned in the end.

 

I will not have those other three come back at all (#1, #2, and #4)... I will not wish them to burn in hell though.. except for number four I guess. 

 

Its number three that I still think about the most.. well, at least there's a thought that crosses my mind here & there.

 

 

Edited October 13 by HimuraButosay

[Cidex]

Not affected, she is craycray. Goodluck to the new guy

[TunogKalye]

[Holly Golightly]

There was only one who truly mattered; the rest were merely background.

We broke up in 2015, and he married during the pandemic. His wife seems wonderful—a tycoon’s daughter from Forbes' richest list.

I harbor no romantic feelings for him, yet I still cringe when I remember how poorly I treated him while we were together.

[Awesome Account]

Yea I Still miss her a lot

[Daddyfinger]

Part of my life. I still miss her

[socratesaristotle]

Fuck no. Am too good looking for them now!!

[bakedzitiguy]

Sa US.

Doesnt affect me anymore

[TunogKalye]