What Women Want?

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The majority lies in the immaterial Cs such as charm, charisma, character, care, cheers, and arguably the most attractive thing pretty ladies find in even ugly guys, confidence.

 

See, it takes a lot of confidence for an unattractive man to hook up with a pretty girl. You know the drill, I'm sure all of us guys have been there at least once wherein we shied away from the pretty ones, and it takes a lot of guts to step forward. An ordinary safe guy would maybe test the water initially, and would eventually turn cold feet. The thing is, with some guys who know they're not Brad Pitt or Derek Ramsay, a lot of them know how to emphasize and project their other attributes and attitude.

 

In short, a confident man, whatever his appearance, knows how to be a man's man, a take-charge, i-know-what-i-want, take-no-crap-from-no-woman kind of guy, and women know that this will last longer than most physical aspects. Of course it doesn't hurt to have the goods, diba? Bonus na yung magandang lalake ka pa! Pero sa tagal ng paglipas ng panahon, non-factor na actually ang looks…

 

Let's face it, looks account for a lot. That's the first thing women see. It gives them the incentive or push to get to know men better and see his nice and not-so-nice traits. Fortunately, most women are smart enough to look through the facade and see men for what they truly are.

 

Looks can take you far, but only up to a certain point. When we start having our careers, looks isn't the only factor that gets the girl. You still need the personality, the wit, the charm, and the skill to balance them all. A combination of thoughtfulness/kindness, charisma, and style are inevitable. The formula though varies with each girl. The art is in determining how much of each to put in the mix.

 

Bottom line is, learn to play your cards right.

 

As the old saying goes" beauty is in the eye of the beholder". If you get past the good hygiene and overall clean appearance, what women are really looking for is security and connection (another C). Security could mean a number of variables such financially, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. For the most part, most women want to be taken cared of and be treated like a women, better yet a queen. Actions speak louder than words and what a naked eye could see. The way in which the unattractive man treats and connects with his significant other in private and in public transcends any physical appearance.

 

 

At the end of the day, the wise woman picks the man who she knows will love her and accept her for what she is, warts and all. One who would also remain interesting enough to spend the rest of her life with. A man who would protect her and keep her safe from anything that lifes challenges may throw at them.

 

I remember a scene in the full-length animation movie "Who Framed Roger Rabbit?", there was a scene where a character asks Jessica Rabbit what she saw in Roger Rabbit. And Jessica Rabbit says very sexily and throatily, "He makes me laugh". Thats charm and cheers for you.

Edited October 22, 2014 by artedpro

[mike8080]

you hit the mark artedpro

[neville]

The majority lies in the immaterial C’s such as charm, charisma, character, care, cheers, and arguably the most attractive thing pretty ladies find in even ‘ugly’ guys, confidence.

 

See, it takes a lot of confidence for an unattractive man to hook up with a pretty girl. You know the drill, I'm sure all of us guys have been there at least once wherein we shied away from the pretty ones, and it takes a lot of guts to step forward. An ordinary safe guy would maybe test the water initially, and would eventually turn cold feet. The thing is, with some guys who know they're not Brad Pitt or Derek Ramsay, a lot of them know how to emphasize and project their other attributes and ‘attitude.’

 

In short, a confident man, whatever his appearance, knows how to be a man's man, a take-charge, i-know-what-i-want, take-no-crap-from-no-woman kind of guy, and women know that this will last longer than most physical aspects. Of course it doesn't hurt to have the goods, diba? Bonus na yung magandang lalake ka pa! Pero sa tagal ng paglipas ng panahon, non-factor na actually ang looks…

 

Let's face it, looks account for a lot. That's the first thing women see. It gives them the incentive or push to get to know men better and see his nice and not-so-nice traits. Fortunately, most women are smart enough to look through the facade and see men for what they truly are.

 

Looks can take you far, but only up to a certain point. When we start having our careers, looks isn't the only factor that gets the girl. You still need the personality, the wit, the charm, and the skill to balance them all. A combination of thoughtfulness/kindness, charisma, and style are inevitable. The formula ‘though varies with each girl. The art is in determining how much of each to put in the mix.

 

Bottom line is, learn to play your cards right.

 

As the old saying goes" beauty is in the eye of the beholder". If you get past the good hygiene and overall clean appearance, what women are really looking for is security and connection (another C). Security could mean a number of variables such financially, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. For the most part, most women want to be taken cared of and be treated like a women, better yet a queen. Actions speak louder than words and what a naked eye could see. The way in which the unattractive man treats and connects with his significant other in private and in public transcends any physical appearance.

 

 

At the end of the day, the wise woman picks the man who she knows will love her and accept her for what she is, warts and all. One who would also remain interesting enough to spend the rest of her life with. A man who would protect her and keep her safe from anything that life’s challenges may throw at them.

 

I remember a scene in the full-length animation movie "Who Framed Roger Rabbit?", there was a scene where a character asks Jessica Rabbit what she saw in Roger Rabbit. And Jessica Rabbit says very sexily and throatily, "He makes me laugh". That’s charm and cheers for you.

 

 

well said, sir. well said. you hit the nail right on the head. ^_^

[neville]

Giving the woman your time...

 

Time to at least say hello via the phone or social media even when you are very busy (and you are not living in the same place). Trust me, she will find time for you if she is the obscenely busy one.

 

Time to bring her out on a date when you are together...or you plan to be together with her. The attention you give her is her gauge on how much you care and think about her.

 

Time to listen to her rants when she just wants to let off some steam.

 

Time to love her when she wants to express how happy she is to be with you.

 

Time to give her your full attention, because there is nothing more attractive than being on the receiving end of a man's total attention.

 

Time to being there. When a woman senses that she is high on your priority list and she genuinely loves you, it's a definite thing that you will feel and experience how much she loves you for it.

 

[Chocolates]

Giving the woman your time...

 

Time to at least say hello via the phone or social media even when you are very busy (and you are not living in the same place). Trust me, she will find time for you if she is the obscenely busy one.

 

Time to bring her out on a date when you are together...or you plan to be together with her. The attention you give her is her gauge on how much you care and think about her.

 

Time to listen to her rants when she just wants to let off some steam.

 

Time to love her when she wants to express how happy she is to be with you.

 

Time to give her your full attention, because there is nothing more attractive than being on the receiving end of a man's total attention.

 

Time to being there. When a woman senses that she is high on your priority list and she genuinely loves you, it's a definite thing that you will feel and experience how much she loves you for it.

 

 

 

Agree more.

[K E L S Y - G R E Y]

Just honesty

well mhrap

but just dont let us feel were special when its not

be true to wat u want to happen so things are clear

[shhhhhh]

a man of actions and not just sweet words

[Guest Mr Dwayne Sanchez]

someone who can drive.

 

drives a car, automatic or manual

drives me crazy in bed

drives me crazy in all type of conversation

drives me crazy on surprises and sweetness

 

 

just give me a chance to prove it for you.

[BB-8]

your blood and soul, theyre evil in their ways. j/k but true. haha. the j/k i mean.

Edited October 30, 2014 by bigS

[morpheusx_neo]

"What women want?" is a question even the closest women in my life have difficulty answering. Many of them admit it na di nila alam ano gusto nila

 

Sometimes you'll hear a lady say gusto niya ng honest, God-fearing at mabaet but they end up with bad boys. Some will say they don't care about financial status but you never saw them date a poorer guy. Others will say they want to be friends with a guy first bago maging sila, pero lahat ng past bfs started with a fling. Others will say they hate cheesy-ness but eventually bumibigay din.

 

The answer really won't be given to you on a silver platter based on my experience. You have to find it out on your own based on your assessment of the woman's personality and history. It helps to read between the lines.

-Exactly, they say things in the spur of the moment like it was the gospel truth or something, i also notice this odd behaviour myself, you women should really be upfront with what u want, no more second guessing no fuss no muss

[santi101]

Women will always want "Maginoo pero medyo bastos".

[shhhhhh]

Modest in his words but is so loud in his actions.

[pretty mayumi]

stable, responsible, sweet and hot.

[temurlenk]

Depende sa babae and her needs but to name a few:

 

 

Independence

Looks

Positivity

Communication skills

Sociability

Intelligence

Passion

Sense of humor

Ambition

Confidence

[dibdba]

women want someone who can make them feel vulnerable.