love What Has Love Taught You Lately?

[SaintPeter5858]

Always listen carefully to the other party

[CharlesOngSy]

Sacrifice is part of loving

[rcwoods]

Nakuha mo pre! ok na ok yung mga side commments mo.

 

mostly Lame quotes from the writer, total manhater!!

 

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. True

 

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. know him better as soon as possible.

3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone. No, talk to him.

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. may hinala(sabi ng isip mo) ka na ayaw mo pang kausapin, kaya lumalaki ang problema.

5. Stop changing yourself for a relationship mag adjust kayo sa relasyon, wag nyo baguhin isat isa.

6. Don't force an attraction.

 

7. Slower is better. ano to foreplay? alamin mo agad.

 

8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. selfish naman!

9. If a relationship ends because the man was not

treating you as you deserve then heck no you

can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. tsk, tsk, tsk, tsk! pinepersonal nyo masyado.

 

10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,

but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order. have faith in your partner. God only guide both of you through all your life. you make your own right decision for your relationship to work.

 

11. Don't settle.- e di walang magandang kasunduang mangyayari.

 

12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. - duda again?!

13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that? f#&k no! manhater ang writer na to. kaya lang naman nagbabago isip ng lalaki dahil sumusunod lang sa kagustuhan ng babae. hindi senyales ng pagkahina ng isang lalaki, babae ba ang lalaki? di ba nga even the wisest man on earth nahihiwagaan sa mga babae dahil napaka complex nyo?

14. Don't stay because you think "it will get

better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for

staying when things are not better. sabi nung writer kasi hindi nya sinubukang mag workout, hindi nagsakripisyo.

 

15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess. what kind of mess do you want him to get involve with? napaaway ka na sa chismiz, dahil wala ka magawa at imbis na relasyon nyo asikasuhin mo? saklaw na niya lahat ng pangangailangan ng pamilya or ng magiging pamilya nyo, hindi pa ba sapat yun syo na financially stable na kayo?

16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. the only thing you can do is to hold on to each other to keep you together, napapag usapan naman lahat eh.

17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you. Di mo lang nakontrol yung guy mo.

 

18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a

bunch of different women. He didn't marry them

when he got them pregnant, why would he treat

you any differently? pero karamihan, babae ang may maraming iba ibang tatay sa pinas.

 

19. You really have to kiss a few frogs before finding your prince LOL!!! ang mr. right/ prince charming, lahat yan nasa mga sasagutin nyong lalaki, kayo nga ang liligawan eh, sa inyo kami lumuluhod dahil sa angking kagandahan nyo, kayo lang nagagawan namin ng maraming awitin/tula, kayo lang . You just need to find out how to control a man ng hindi halatang inaapakan nyo na kami. wala naman kayong wild side, kami lang meron nun. pero kayo lang merong kakayahang mamili at karapat dapat sa inyo.

20. Always put yourself and your happiness first. wag ka na makipag relasyon kung ganito ka kaselfish, hindi makasarili ang pag ibig.

21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. why do you have to isolate your group of friends to him? para may rebound?

22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If

something bothers you , speak up. No.3 palang dapat nag uusap na kayo.

 

23. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested. american style.

 

24. Be honest and upfront. una pa lang dapat na.

25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.

 

26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on)

 

27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will

treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his

family (not just mom). (N.A for the Filipinas)

28. There's more than physical abuse, there's

emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of

them...flee. parang killer ang dating syo ng mga kalalakihan. malamang isa ka sa mga hindi marunong magsakripisyo at iniintindi mo lang sarili mo.

29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within. bakit kailangang baguhin mo yung lalaki, kung ayaw mo wag mo. alipin yata gusto mo sa lalaki.

30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not

willing to follow himself -- double-standard.

 

31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more

important than you are...even if he has more

education or in a better job. Both of you are important if one fails, walang mangyayari. tag team lang dapat.

32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a

man, nothing more nothing less.

 

33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you! one sided, from 1 to 32, what do you call yourself? Only you. Thats why there is no Love in you.

 

34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see EVEN WITH THEIR OWN FAMILY?! that's incest and your insane. Check no. 27 of the writer's guidelines.

 

35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.

Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go.

 

36. Actions speak louder than words. sinong lalaki magtitiis syo kung ganito isip mo sa kalalakihan?

37. Never let a man define who you are. so hindi dapat sya magpapakatotoo? Kasinungalingan pala lahat to.

 

38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to

yourself for that.

 

39. Never borrow someone else's man. isa lang to sa tamang advice mo.

 

40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. ganun wala ng forgiveness? 2nd chance?

41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't

mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean

that you are meant to be with him. work on it!

42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time.

 

43. Know that you deserve to be the number one

person in the life of the #1person in your life. selfish.

44. Love is a verb ...

 

45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to

make someone unavailable-available, someone

ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving. now you're talking!

 

46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. True.

47. All men are NOT dogs. right.

48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two

way street.

 

49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else. i doubted this one..

50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart. true.

51. You need time to heal between

relationships...there is nothing cute about

baggage ...deal with your issues before pursuing a

new relationship. yeah right.

52. You should never look for someone to

COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two

WHOLE individuals...look for someone

complementary...not supplementary. nagbago yata ihip ng hangin.

53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

 

54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.

 

55. Never become your man's "therapist".ikaw nga ang susi sa kagalingan eh.

56. When actions and words conflict, believe the

actions. Respond to the actions.

 

57. A real healthy relationship requires two

people. One person can end it - but it takes two to

make it work.

 

58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (WITHIN REASON) that he wouldn't do for you

 

59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man

always know where you are,

and you're always readily available to him he

takes it for granted. Torturer!!

60. Give him his space...let him go out with his

boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you,

You cant force a man to hang out with you.

 

61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't. pati anak na babae pinagdudahan na.

 

62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. Lame advice. kaya lalung nalilito kababaihan.

 

63. Never move into his mother's house. kasi makikita nya katamaran mo at di mo sya mauutusan ng mauutusan.

64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone. from No.64 to 68 experience ng writer siguro to dahil sa sobrang makasarili.

 

65. Ne ver co-sign for a man.

 

66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.

 

67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.

 

68. Never let a man mess up your credit.

 

69. When it's time to let go; let go.

 

70. Good men should be treated like good men. How can you tell if a good man is good?

71. Don't play games. who does? men?

 

72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. USER/BLACKMAILer!! is this LOVE?

73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. SHERLOCK HOLMES? Is that you?

 

74. Compatibility in terms of educational

attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career

goals, and socioeconomic status, are important. high standard pala tong babae na to!

75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.

 

i hate this writer, hate it with a vengeance!!

 

LOVE isn't selfish, no boundaries and no rules for your own needs. No wonder foreigners love filipinas to be their wife. kung gusto mo magkarelasyon matuto kang mag sakripisyo, magpatawad, maging matatag at mag usap lagi ng walang lihiman.

women are the keeper to hold the family together, men are your guardian.

[UncleFrancy]

Love makes you stick around when you shouldn't even stick

 

Love makes you stick around when you shouldn't even stick

[hottie22]

Sacrifice is part of loving

 

check!

[U.P. AdMU2008]

Love yourself first of all!

[Guest Riveria]

You can never give what you don't have so you have to love yourself first before you can love others.

[chrispt21]

That if you wear your heart on your sleeve don't be surprised if it gets a few stains while you cook.

[U.P. AdMU2008]

I need to sacrifice a lot.

[SaintPeter5858]

Tiyaga? meron ka pa ring nilaga

[clandestinecuddles]

Love is not like a CONDOM wherein you change your partner after use.

[rasco]

To save you from all the headaches and heartaches, trust level between lovers must be unimaginable.

[DonRobertos]

Love is so complicated. You give all: (Honest, Trust, Love, Care, Financial Support, Facing there families and relatives). After everything she break my trust. All I'm asking is LOVE in return. Moral lesson if it is not yours......it is not yours.

[SaintPeter5858]

It's always nice to be in love

[SaintPeter5858]

I have to take seriously always

[iRapedSatan]

Everything about love is never in your hands completely.

[TanglewoodBoy]

Love makes you stick around when you shouldn't even stick

 

Love makes you stick around when you shouldn't even stick

 

 

soo true!!

 

+1,000,000 to this post....

 

[Clrk]

Love (not just the romantic kind) is putting the other person/s interests ahead of yourself.

Edited June 10, 2012 by Clrk

[Inyaki]

a friend of mine sent this to me...just want to share it here

 

Inspiring quotes from Sex in the City...

 

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

 

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

 

3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.

 

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

 

5. Stop changing yourself for a relationship

 

6. Don't force an attraction.

 

7. Slower is better.

 

8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

 

9. If a relationship ends because the man was not

treating you as you deserve then heck no you

can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

 

10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,

but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.

 

11. Don't settle.

 

12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

 

13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that?

 

14. Don't stay because you think "it will get

better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for

staying when things are not better.

 

15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.

 

16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

 

17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.

 

18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a

bunch of different women. He didn't marry them

when he got them pregnant, why would he treat

you any differently?

 

19. You really have to kiss a few frogs before finding your prince

 

20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.

 

21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

 

22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If

something bothers you , speak up.

 

23. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.

 

24. Be honest and upfront.

 

25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.

 

26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on)

 

27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will

treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his

family (not just mom).

 

28. There's more than physical abuse, there's

emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of

them...flee.

 

29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.

 

30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not

willing to follow himself -- double-standard.

 

31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more

important than you are...even if he has more

education or in a better job.

 

32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a

man, nothing more nothing less.

 

33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you!

 

34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see

 

35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.

Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go.

 

36. Actions speak louder than words.

 

37. Never let a man define who you are.

 

38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to

yourself for that.

 

39. Never borrow someone else's man.

 

40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

 

41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't

mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean

that you are meant to be with him.

 

42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time.

 

43. Know that you deserve to be the number one

person in the life of the #1person in your life.

 

44. Love is a verb ...

 

45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to

make someone unavailable-available, someone

ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.

 

46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

 

47. All men are NOT dogs.

 

48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two

way street.

 

49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.

 

50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.

 

51. You need time to heal between

relationships...there is nothing cute about

baggage ...deal with your issues before pursuing a

new relationship.

 

52. You should never look for someone to

COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two

WHOLE individuals...look for someone

complementary...not supplementary.

 

53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

 

54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.

 

55. Never become your man's "therapist".

 

56. When actions and words conflict, believe the

actions. Respond to the actions.

 

57. A real healthy relationship requires two

people. One person can end it - but it takes two to

make it work.

 

58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (WITHIN REASON) that he wouldn't do for you

 

59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man

always know where you are,

and you're always readily available to him he

takes it for granted.

 

60. Give him his space...let him go out with his

boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you,

You cant force a man to hang out with you.

 

61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't.

 

62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

 

63. Never move into his mother's house.

 

64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone.

 

65. Ne ver co-sign for a man.

 

66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.

 

67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.

 

68. Never let a man mess up your credit.

 

69. When it's time to let go; let go.

 

70. Good men should be treated like good men.

 

71. Don't play games.

 

72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

 

73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

 

74. Compatibility in terms of educational

attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career

goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.

 

75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.

amen.

[Sports 888]

Loving someone entails a great deal of patience and a higher level of understanding and patience believing that the same will eventually be reciprocated.

[Sports 888]

IN terms of some futuristic concerns, love will also encourage the lover to be more creative to make romance more intimate and exciting towards the building up of a family where members are close to each other.

[U.P. AdMU2008]

Love is always unpredictable!

[BrightestStar]

You cannot control love itself.

[Guest simply_tinA]

Don't let someone become your everything, because when they're gone you have nothing!

-Kenya Mitchell

[SaintPeter5858]

Patience is very important in dealing with your loved one