love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[masterkamote]

ok lng ipabasa if u give her d authority. but for her to read my phone inbox on her own. thats something! kungbaga respeto nlng sa partner mo yun, for not to read his/her text messages.

[Leyna]

no problem with that...we often read our text messages together.

[cHinitababe86]

yea. open naman siya. letting me read his phone.

ako naman pinapakita ko pa. mnsan binabasa ko pa

habang magkasama kame. pag wala ka naman kasing tinatago,

hindi ka matatakot na mabuksan nya phone mo, or phone nya

[saleisha]

yep ok nman yun..kaya lang mas ayus kung walang pakialaman..

hndi naman kasi may tinatago..

pero parang its ur personal thing and respetohan lang naman ng privacy! :hypocritesmiley:

if u love him or if he loves u..may respect and trust dapat!

[86bangher]

Having partner read your personal sms without your consent? I think that's way beyond ethics!

 

Eh yung sulat ng may sulat, di nga binubuksan ng magulang ko noong buhay pa sila... partner ko pa or my spouse? Personals iyan eh. As long as there's no explicite consent, when someone did that to me... i considered them boorish.

Edited April 22, 2009 by 86bangher

[kismet13]

if i'm the one who read it first. it's OKAY

[GrandLurker]

Before, I never mind my partner reading the text messages in my cel but now its a matter of respecting the space. you must be able to resist the urge to control the life of your partner.

[Kharnall]

When i had a partner - yes . but she never understood the contents ...most of my messages are data and reports from my counterparts and my people doing fieldwork , some forwarded messages and TC qoutes from my mom and pops and relatives.

 

one time i let her borrow my cookie when she went out clubbing with her office friends, i forgot to mention that i was expecting instructions from my pops. Pops knows that someone was living with me hehehehe what a way to introduce a fubu.

 

what i dont let her read are my emails - too many confidential information .

[MS]

I will allow him.. I got nothing to hide

I can just leave my phone with him but I know he won't read it not unless maybe if I asked him to.

 

As for him, minsan he allows me, siya pa ang nagpapakita and I appreciate it, kahit pa about his business yung pinabasa nya, ang ok dun at least he shares it with me

 

But general rule, it's ok not to, so you can have a privicy as individuals even if you are partners.. you got to keep something for yourself as always.

[sajuuk]

in some cases, no but for some reasons, mas naauna pa xang magbasa sa mga txt para sakin.. grr... kaka-asar.. nawawala na ang privacy ko... gf pa nga lang, wala na.

[ink]

i dont mind if he does, but he doesnt.

i don't sneak on him either. we just trust nobody's going astray..

[^Tim^]

i dont mind if he does, but he doesnt.

i don't sneak on him either. we just trust nobody's going astray..

 

 

same thing here. never had a girlfriend who snoops on my phone and checks out text messages. Fortunately for me, though....

Am not checkin' her phone either. It won't hurt what u don't know. You know?(Pacman-sound alike? hehehe)

But if ever she's the "checking-your-text-messages" type, guess I'll let her. But not to the point of she naggin' about it all the time. That's overboard, dawg! hehehe

[bher2]

before my gf doesnt read my cp, somehow manage to sneak in to my things and grab my cp. ayun nabasa nya mga other messages ko, potek nagwala! but i manage to calm and explain to her somehow.. haay!

[bcsiy]

yep ok nman yun..kaya lang mas ayus kung walang pakialaman..

hndi naman kasi may tinatago..

pero parang its ur personal thing and respetohan lang naman ng privacy! :hypocritesmiley:

if u love him or if he loves u..may respect and trust dapat!

 

^^agree! agree! :thumbsupsmiley:

[kenichi15]

there's such a thing as privacy

ayoko pinakikialaman things ko especially my cp so i do the same..