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Guest takenbyjo

I used to a lot ... pero I've learned not to na rin ... minsan na lang ... he reads my phone when he thinks I won't catch him ... :lol:

 

Okay lang naman kasi one and only ko sya e ... wala syang makikita doon na ndi dapat

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Guest romantico888
Wala pang nakaisip nito, but this happens very often sa mga existing relationships, jealousy over a text message.

 

Its a crisis when jealousy starts because of a simple text message, the question is: Is it right to let your bf/gf/husband/wife read text message from your phone? Or is it just paranoia? Comments and suggestions please. :)

 

 

bat ka naman magtetext kapag kasama mo na sya? ciempre diskarte mo na yun, dapat alam nung other party kung what time kayo magkasama. ^_^ Kidding aside pre, di na kailangan yun. TRUST her/him na lang. invasion of privacy yun. wag naman masyadong mahigpit/sinasakal na.

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wala namang hassle kun mabasa niya an mga messages s cp ko... it actually measures the level of trust that both partners apply in a relationship. i myself can be an example, kpag magkasama kmi syempre hawak ko cp ko but indoors iniiwan lang namin siya sa isang lugar... madalas pa nga na kapag may nagtext sa amin eh nauutusan pa namin ang isa't isa ng "paki-tingnan nga kun sino ang nag-txt at kun ano sabi".. me and my baby makes sure dat our level of trust is always at its highest peak ksi naman u cannot truly love someone if u dont involve trust in it, di ba.... nagiging confidential lang kapag ibang tao na ang nakialam and u know wat i mean by dat... B)

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I can leave my phone lying around without any fear he might snoop and read them, and even if he does, it's ok. I sometimes read my messages with him. As for the other way around, I respect his need for privacy. I don't need to go snooping to see what is inside his inbox. Besides, he readily gives me his phone when I need to text someone using his. Sometimes, even with the sight of his inbox line up without any care at all since there is nothing to hide. When I see something questionable, I ask and he answers. Vice versa. It's easier to erase the contact number of a person who means nothing rather than to lose the trust of the person who means everything. Personally, when I am already legally committed, I don't want to use my privacy to give me an excuse to give in to the temptation that I can hide something. I recall an incident of a guy texting me messages that might mean nothing to me but I told him about anyway. It was bothering na pala for him even though I thought that the messages were a bit over friendly lang and not flirting which it was already. I simply made the habit of showing him his subsequent messages and when he thought it was way out of line na and was leaning towards what we suspected, one text from him with my consent and it's all over. Had I not be open about it, I might have been committing emotional infidelity unconsciously already. What's funny is how the guy asked me how come he knows he is texting me those messages. Duh? I don't think corrupting my principles for him is justifiable.

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