love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[ChemALi]

Wala pang nakaisip nito, but this happens very often sa mga existing relationships, jealousy over a text message.

 

Its a crisis when jealousy starts because of a simple text message, the question is: Is it right to let your bf/gf/husband/wife read text message from your phone? Or is it just paranoia? Comments and suggestions please.

 

 

Okay lang sa akin na ipabasa sa kanya ang aking mga sms....

 

If I would refuse, It means away nato....

[whitenaughty]

yup i guess okay lang. for me ano, kasi kung wala naman akong itinatago diba?

 

 

although siguro, merong mga bagay na nakakahiya or whatever na gustong itago or whatever. intindihan na lang siguro. pero kung sakin lang din, sige lang, nakakatuwa pa nga pag kinakalkal yung phone ko eh. feeling ko binabantayan ako. haha. =)

[leoncb]

sometimes she borrows my cellphone para kalikutin nya and sometimes para mag games. she sometimes also read my text messages. pinapayagan ko nlng para di mag hinala. hehe minsan binabasa ko din text messages nya para quits! hehe

 

basta i make sure na burahin ko na yung mga text messages na hindi nya dapat makita. hehe

[simpatiko]

aKO CURIOUS LANG. hEHEHEHE

[gandararugu]

yes...

[daclown]

i respect one's privacy..but I broke this code once, when I had a hunch my ex was seeing someone else. It was very awkward for me to read my ex's inbox but apparently my hunch was correct.

 

suspicion is very complex to deal with.

[wildsexyangel]

If the messages are from friendlies-- barkada, friends, officemates, family, your partner is entitled to his own privacy and you might as well mind your own business since you've got nothing to do with it.

 

But if there's cheating involved na, and you're a major part of it, because nagkakalokohan na pala eh, di ka pa kikilos. You have every right to know, kasi foul na at below the belt yang ganyang patext text ng i love you at miss you sa kabit. BS yun. Patayin mo na silang dalawa.

[BallBreaker]

if there's no cause to feel doubtful, I wouldn't dare touch his phone as respect to his privacy.

 

... but if something smells fishy, I'd first ask him. Men who aren't guilty would be happy to show you their messages anyway. If he gets all defensive and wouldn't want to show you their inbox, I'd still have that doubt until it gets resolved.

 

As for him seeing what's on my inbox? all he have to do is ask.

[jype]

yes... pag ngkikita kami, kinukuha nya agad cp ko

[jorexha28]

yep...

 

"go ahead, be my guest"...

[Maxx]

Mas magduda pag binawalan kasi at lalong halungkatin pag iniwan. Just be careful to erase 'em always he he he

[ghost_in_you]

anytime, anyday. so it wont look like one is just paranaoid. its has always been better to share things...yep, even text messages. unless...

[bher2]

yes i do!

[jojobata]

i have nothing to hide

[whitenaughty]

Mas magduda pag binawalan kasi at lalong halungkatin pag iniwan. Just be careful to erase 'em always he he he

 

mabubugbog ko yung ganitong boyfriend. hahaha! =p

[jakeyjunkie]

This topic reminds me of my ex-girlfriend.

 

Pa'no ba naman, kapag magkasama kami ALWAYS na siya lagi ang unang makakabasa ng mga messages sa phone ko kapag nag-message alert. Rakenrol.

[reachard]

I don't check her fone when it beeps...cause I trust her

But every time my fone beeps..she goes "Sino yan?"

 

I have a daily inspection

kaya bura bura lagi

[gardoverzosa]

Foul yata yan di ba.

Parang below the belt na pag inuusisa yung cell mo.

[syrcu]

Seloso ako eh... :evil:

 

Pero sa akin bawal syang tumingin kasi good boy naman ako :hypocritesmiley:

[maxgreg]

I do if she asks for permission. I feel bad if she will just open it for the sake of checking it. I don't do it so I expect her not to. But if she asks for it, I'll let her....and pray that everything doubtful has been erased para walang gulo or further questions.

[phaulgas]

YUP... nothing to hide, pero sya kung ayaw nya edi wagm, i respect her privacy...wag lang sya papahuli kung may iba sya

[rgx621d]

nakakainis pag gusto basahin messages mo kasi ibig sabihin nun may trust issue na kayo. pero para hindi lumaki ang gulo at lalong mag duda, pinauubaya ko na lang.

[mypen15]

she has no business looking at my text messages. she can use the cell to call or send a text but she can't read the previous messages.

[poip0i]

mahirap mag work ang isang relationship pag wla kyong trust sa isa't isa.. checking d cp once in a while is ok. pero wg nman plagi.. para knang warden at sha ung preso nyan.. hehe

[cadbury007]

Sorry but I dont allow anyone to read my messages on my phone. I do adhere to every aspect of privacy.