MACKYGL Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 its not all looks, its the attitude and manner we all look for. Quote Link to comment
chubCHINITAforHIRE Posted January 27, 2007 Share Posted January 27, 2007 i want to mit real men.. un ndi panay LIBIDO.. gets?? i dont like handsum guys na ala naman breeding!! sna u know wt i min... un tpong ni-huhurt nila emotions ng isang gurl.. dts bad!! i usually go 4 d attitude and not on d looks... bsta if am happy wd him, then il b alryt.. and il feel contnted na rin.. its normal to fall for sum1 na ndi gwapo kc nwawala dn naman un eh... ngfafade as d yrs go by.. pro un d way he cares 4u, andun un... ndi mwawala un kht ano pa manyari... wen i was a child, i used to think and dream big abt meetin a pocble mate na ganito , gnito, gnito mga qualities (mjo physical looking p nga me eh..) pro wen im growing up na, i realized na God gives us d oposite of what we wish for... and loving is learning also.... sbra dami ko ngng realization .... and i didnt expect na may mga tao na bnbgay c God na tlgng good and trustworthy.. sbi nga nila 'evryting has its own purpose.....' and i agree.... :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
Oregon Waffle Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Maybe because of the personality or financial status. Also pag pangit, hindi habulin syempre. Less competitionand more security for the girl. Quote Link to comment
compadrei Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 Maybe because of the personality or financial status. Also pag pangit, hindi habulin syempre. Less competitionand more security for the girl. more security for the girl? hmmm what can you say about this?... ladies? Quote Link to comment
big_D Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 on looks being secondary -i think one has to reach a certain level of maturity to appreciate the totality of the person. there's a phase in our lives that we put a high premium on the physical aspect - looks above all things. but then again, this varies from one person to another. it's the total package. the looks is equally as important as the person's attitude. As to the looks being equally important as the person's attitude.... It is relative. Yes it may be very important to some but again looks is relative...some may see one as having good looks yet some may see him otherwise. Some may see it very important, others may not. While it is true that looks are important , it does not however ends there...one has to go to the next level...the person behind that looks.. For me, insofar as physical look is concerned, I go for the "X" factor instead. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 (edited) yes the charm. heck i have this bf once that i can't ever show him to my girlfriends because they may doubt it. because they know my taste "gorgeous men with gorgeuos cars" but then this bf is really nice, he treats me like GOD and master, so what can i say? be careful though...ganun lang kase talaga sila at first...that's how they compensate for their lack of "looks".... but i tell you..they're the worst kinds...kase eventually lalabas din yung true colors nila..magbabago din at mawawala yung pinakikita nya sayong treatment ( he treats you like a goddess...and all) pag alam na nyang he owes (OWES?!? hahaha! OWNS! bobah! ) you na talaga at ang matitira na lang ay ang pangit nyang itsura... magsisisi ka promise.... ( sorry to be so harsh guys ...i'm just saying what i think is true...from past experiences...) What is "Beautiful"? What is "Ugly"? I believe this topic is refering to Physical Aspects ... ( particularly the Face of a person)Beautiful ---people w/ pretty faces ( breath taking...stunning...may x factor..masarap tingnan...proud ka pag kasama mo sila...halimbawa...kamukha ni Natalie Portman...yan beautiful yan... )Ugly --- not very pleasing to look at ...di ka ma aatract man lang pag nakita mo sila...minsan nakakainis pa face nila...minsan naman nakakatawa rin yung mukha nila ( halimbawa: Allan K. ...sino magsasabing beautiful yun? ) Para di OT:Beautiful women fall for ugly men...because of the wrong notion ...that ugly men tend to be more faithful...mas mabait...mas iingatan sila...mas takot sa kanila. Edited February 4, 2007 by iwalkalone Quote Link to comment
big_D Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 be careful though...ganun lang kase talaga sila at first...that's how they compensate for their lack of "looks".... but i tell you..they're the worst kinds...kase eventually lalabas din yung true colors nila..magbabago din at mawawala yung pinakikita nya sayong treatment ( he treats you like a goddess...and all) pag alam na nyang he owes you na talaga at ang matitira na lang ay ang pangit nyang itsura... magsisisi ka promise.... ( sorry to be so harsh guys ...i'm just saying what i think is true...from past experiences...)I believe this topic is refering to Physical Aspects ... ( particularly the Face of a person)Beautiful ---people w/ pretty faces ( breath taking...stunning...may x factor..masarap tingnan...proud ka pag kasama mo sila...halimbawa...kamukha ni Natalie Portman...yan beautiful yan... )Ugly --- not very pleasing to look at ...di ka ma aatract man lang pag nakita mo sila...minsan nakakainis pa face nila...minsan naman nakakatawa rin yung mukha nila ( halimbawa: Allan K. ...sino magsasabing beautiful yun? )Para di OT:Beautiful women fall for ugly men...because of the wrong notion ...that ugly men tend to be more faithful...mas mabait...mas iingatan sila...mas takot sa kanila. I beg to disagree. Are you saying that women are that dumb to have the notion that uglymen are more faithful???? Again, Physical look is only one aspect. Yes, you may or may not be attracted but the next level is whether he is ugly or handsome, women still has to discern & not judge based on face value. The face value has nothing to do with the deeper values & attitude of a person. One cannot conclude that the face value has something to do with breeding, attitude, fidelity or infidelity. Unless there is a concrete study that will prove this to be true. At the end of the day, women should discern for themselves the real person behind that face, whether ugly or handsome. Perhaps they should not be carried away by the face value or even by the good things being shown by the person. She has to undersand the motive & intention. This may require sometime though unless you can honestly discern the person behind that looks. But nevertheless, whatever decision, one makes, is her/his responsibility & we should learn from the experience without necessarily co-relating it with looks. For all you know, it may be coincidental. Sometimes, kasi because of our excitement or perhaps adverse experience, we generalize people. Each person was created by GOD in His own way & uniqueness. The challenge is to find out the real person behind the looks & decide whether we are taking unecessary risk or whether its just a matter of luck or perhaps our own doing of not able to discern the right person for us. Yes, it is tough but that's where we grow & mature & keep moving forward despite some unfortunate experiences. Please dont get me wrong. Just my two cents of sharing again. Quote Link to comment
Gestanon Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 simple lang ang kasagutan dyan, 'Men loves women while women loves love'...kahit mukhang sapatos ang lalake fall in love agad si woman kapag puro loving loving and attention ang pinapakita ni mr. sapatos Quote Link to comment
mismo Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 wala sa itsura yan, nasa kalooban yan. When a woman see the sincerity of a man kahit walng looks, maaakit siya ng guy. Once the inside of him is revealed through serious of conversation, the beauty inside hiom will over power his looks and maaatracted yung babae. I am speaking from experience. Quote Link to comment
BABYhard29 Posted February 2, 2007 Share Posted February 2, 2007 kasi may feeling secured ang girls kapag di gnun ka good looking bf nila. walang kaagaw. at gagawin ka pang diosa kasi magnda ka.. wahehehehehe Quote Link to comment
immortal Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 kasi may feeling secured ang girls kapag di gnun ka good looking bf nila. walang kaagaw. at gagawin ka pang diosa kasi magnda ka.. wahehehehehe Ganun ba yun? Paano na lang ang iilang di tulad nila??? Quote Link to comment
heightdeprived Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 be careful though...ganun lang kase talaga sila at first...that's how they compensate for their lack of "looks".... but i tell you..they're the worst kinds...kase eventually lalabas din yung true colors nila..magbabago din at mawawala yung pinakikita nya sayong treatment ( he treats you like a goddess...and all) pag alam na nyang he owes you na talaga at ang matitira na lang ay ang pangit nyang itsura... magsisisi ka promise.... ( sorry to be so harsh guys ...i'm just saying what i think is true...from past experiences...)I believe this topic is refering to Physical Aspects ... ( particularly the Face of a person)Beautiful ---people w/ pretty faces ( breath taking...stunning...may x factor..masarap tingnan...proud ka pag kasama mo sila...halimbawa...kamukha ni Natalie Portman...yan beautiful yan... )Ugly --- not very pleasing to look at ...di ka ma aatract man lang pag nakita mo sila...minsan nakakainis pa face nila...minsan naman nakakatawa rin yung mukha nila ( halimbawa: Allan K. ...sino magsasabing beautiful yun? )Para di OT:Beautiful women fall for ugly men...because of the wrong notion ...that ugly men tend to be more faithful...mas mabait...mas iingatan sila...mas takot sa kanila. actually that's one thing that turn's off my prospect with regards to being in a relationship, because of the deterioration of the attitude of guys to the girls as the relationship goes on, she also told me the same story with her pretty sister wherein the guy became not-so nice than the way he used to pero I think it happens talaga in general, one thing though, what's left with the good looking guy is that he still has his good looks... Quote Link to comment
MRyoso Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 i was riding the fx from novaliches to blumentritt kanina may nakita akong girl (matangkad, bata, makinis, may itsura) na may kasma na kala ko tatay niya mukha naman ghindi mayaman yung lalake para maging sila kaya napaisip ako, may tinaatamaan talaga kahit ano pang itsura ng partner mo e nakakaita ng pogi yung babae (ako ), kaya baka magbago na ng isip yun Quote Link to comment
meepooktah Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 ..they can efficiently pretend that they are the most sincere compared to good looking guys.... who wouldn't believe if they say "kaw lang ang mahal ko, sa itsura kong ito may magkakainterest pa ba sken?"...... Quote Link to comment
THUG Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 its because their goodlooking bf just run away with another chick in tow, or did not treated them well... its not about the looks really..initially it is.. but afterwards, it is the compability, character, attitude of the guy that counts.. -- kaya don't lose hope guys.. may pag asa pa tayong mga panget! lets just hope the handsome guys make the same old mistakes..hehehe.. Quote Link to comment
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