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Unless the situation of the BF changes (annulment), i think in time the sponsor eventually wins out. As time goes by, the thought of being just the BFs #2 and his inability to fully provide will eventually erode whatever feelings the woman has. Jus my 2 cents.

Update: I reached out to her before Christmas. One time as I was cleaning my phonebook, my heart skipped a beat when I reached her name in my entries. Should I delete or should I try to see if she still has the same digits? I chose the latter and dialled her work number, it was already unreachable. Then, i tried her personal line, it rang. When she picked up the phone, all I could say was "Hi". I did not expect her reaction, she immediately recognized my voice and blurted out my 1st name twice. Me:"How did you know it was me? Iba # gamit ko ngaun". Her:"How can i forget? kmsta kna?" We began to catch up on our personal lives. She totally quit the industry after paying of her families debts brought about by her sisters sickness and eventual passing. Her family sold their house and paid in full a condo unit in Pasig to be their new home. She went back to her corporate career she put on pause when she became a walker. Then I asked the question I have been meaning to ask: Me:"Are you with someone now?" Her:"Yes, I am...You?" Me:"Yes, there is someone as well." Silence. Dead silence. It took awhile before I finally spoke: Me:"I hope you are happy?" Her:" I am. He doesnt know my past. Perhaps, thats for the best." Me:"Good, thats all I wanted to hear. You deserv to be happy after what you have been through." We have been speaking for 30 minutes or so but the convo was getting awkward when this topic came up. I was about to say goodbye and wish her well but she spoke first before I can do so: Her:" Maybe we can meet sometime, coffee or lunch...would be nice to see you again." Me:"Yes, maybe we can do that." Afterwhich, i ended the convo. I havent contacted her since for a couple of reasons, one she said she was happy and I did not want to complicate that. Second, I wanted to giv her a chance to completely leave her past behind. I was a remnant of a stage in her life she would rather forget, and I feel her seeing me would remind her of what she had done.

Haizt, c Lebron pa dn MVP. LOL

Friends are friends. It doesnt really matter if they are theras or not, if they show me kindness, then most likely I will reciprocate how they treat me. I started my red light hobby early 2000s and yes, some theras, walkers I met then have remained to be friends/acquaintances up to now. Of course, karamihan ng nakilala ko then, retired na sa industry, may kanya2x na life but the friendships remained. Last week, I had cofee wid a former stag momma and her legit work colleague. Nsa real estate na cya and long retired from her walker days. Those that demean theras and think of them as nothing else but leeches that dont deserv to be treated as something more, the most likley scenario is they have emotional scars. Either nabasted ng thera or napaasa, thinking that they have bought a theras love but apparently nde pala. Theras are people. Beyond the facade, they are women with real emotions. They get hurt, they appreciate kindness and they value people who see them as more than sex objects. As one GM said above, kindness is free. Try showing it sa theras, who knows, that might go a long way.

Hahaha...dna pala pde magpalit username noh? Sa dating MTC kc pde. Naalala ko lng lagi nasweep ang Lakers everytym I open MTC.

Well, it never reached a relationship stage since I walked away. But we were very close for more or less 2 years before she admitted her feelings for me. To be fair, I wasnt exclusively just f@#cking her. I was active sexually with other women (paid and freebies) as well. But she became my sort of default companion (and I was hers) if I want to catch a Marvel movie, spend the weekend out of town, hav foodtrips or any little activity that I want to have someone with me.

Haha hopefully Im not too late and there is already someone else.

Thanks bros! Because of the posts here, im suddenly feeling the need to drop her a note. Kmstahan muna and see where the conversation goes.

Bka iba yan bro. Her direct family had no politicians.

Hahaha...iba kc tong babaeng to. She is really smart, psychology graduate. Madaming maganda but hanggang dun lng. This ones a complete package. In fact, b4 she ventured sa walk business, she was a frequent contestant sa pageants, pagdating ng Q&A, she really stands out. Also, our connection was deeeep. Nagstart aming chemistry when napunta usapan namin sa fantasy authors. Then she said she loves to write on her free time. I was surprised, it was also something I did. She made me prove to her na hindi ako puro hanging lang and she made me write a love letter on the spot. I wrote her a letter 10 paragraphs long, she said it was the best she ever received from anyone. So aun, more than the intercourse, we connected on a personality and intellectual level. Sa dami ng natira kong thera, i still hav not found anyone close to her level.

Thanks sir. Yes, I still know how to reach her. From tym to tym I ask our common friends how she is. Apparently, she already restarted her corporate career. So good for her...Maybe I will get in touch. Maybe.

Its very easy for some people to say, dont fall in love with a thera or walker. Bottomline is, you cannot predict these things. It just happens. Here is my story. I got involved with a high end walker, someone who has appeared in the pages of FHM and has done some minor sexy movie roles. I started off as a client, 1st tym we met, we hit it off right away, the chemistry was off the charts.Hence, she became a regular of mine and we began to spend time together. Now, this is where things usually turn, the moment the GM sees the walker as something more than a sex object. I got to know her story and how she ended up in the industry. Her family was not indigent as is the case with most theras/walkers. They had a decent house, a couple of cars and a few water refilling branches in her home city. Her family was living a good and satisfactory life. She herself was a psychology graduate and was already starting her corporate career.All of this changed when her younger sister was diagnosed with cancer. This bled their finances dry, they had to sell their refilling stations and cars one by one. Eventually they had to utilize their home as collateral for a bank loan. Even then it was not enough and they still needed more. Thus, she eventually found herself in the walk industry, her going rate was 20K for 3 Hours, meeting at least 2 clients a day. She was able to finance her sister's medical needs and kept her family afloat. Eventually her sister passed away, but she remained in the flesh business to clear off her family's debts. Going back to us, i genuinely felt our connection was more than just a GM and a courtesan. We went out of town, watched movies in malls, had nice dinners and we even spent nights in each others homes. The sex became a combination of both paid services and no-charge instantaneous engagements. On her birthday, she asked me if we can meet privately after her night out with family and friends. Once we were together, after a drinks but still very much sober, our conversation went like this: Her: "I had been wanting to tell you something but dko alam pano." Me:" You know you can tell me anything. Malalim na dn pinagsamahan natin." Her: "Actually, I am in love you. I was afraid pag cnbi ko sau lalayo ka." Silence...Dead silence. I could not react. Deep inside i felt the same, but how could I hav a relationship with her when I know what she does for a living? So I just hugged her, and she began to cry. Her: "I know we could not be together but gus2 ko lng malaman mo how I felt. One day, pag nkaalis nko d2 sa work na to and ok na family ko, hanapin kta and hopfully, you can already open your heart to me." We spent the night in each others arms. Savoring the moment because we both knew it would be the last time we will be together. When morning came, I woke her up, kissed her goodbye and I walked away. I spent the next several weeks debating with my feelings. Was I wrong to deny my emotions? How can I fault her for doing everything, including selling her body, to save her sister? Am I a coward? Haizt...Yes I loved her. But I was too afraid of what other people might say. At that point in time, i did not have the courage to be with her. I was younger then, not as seasoned as I am now. Perhaps, if fate gave us a 2nd chance, I will be more of a man and be true to what I feel.