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good for you then. do what you think you must do. bilib ako sa commitment mo!

 

this is a topic close to my heart kasi i once made the mistake of falling in love. ginago lang ako ng girl.

up to know i still wonder if it was just all about the money. but now i see why it could have never had worked out.

1. difference in values and view point. i could never understand her pains (nor did she ever let me get close enough for me to understand her).

2. mpas / psps have needs and though the immediate need may be money, money is never the solution.

3. usually mpas/psps have a lot of scars, excess baggage to contend with. they are people with lot's of hurts. hurt people hurt people. their difficult past and lifestyle make it difficult for them to respond. they may feel unworthy and thus just reject your love.

 

but then again marami rin namang clients diyan na gago rin. you can hear lots of stories of girls na pinaasa then iniwan sa ere. this just adds to the hurt and makes having a genuine relationship difficult.

 

I'm no sociologist or psychologist so if you think that i'm just generalizing or my comments are out of line feel free to comment. but the way i see things having a relationship between a client and an mpa/psp is not impossible but it will certainly be difficult on both sides. both sides will have to put 10 times the effort for a normal relationship to make it work. odds are really against this type relationship.

 

my solid advice don't fall into this trap.

tumpak ka dyan isko.

minsan kasi nasanay na sila na ganun na lang and that they feel they don't deserve better.

so pag may busilak na pusong nag-alay ng dalisay na pagmamahal sa kanila, hindi nila alam kung papaano magre-respond.

tapos yun na nga, makakaramdam sila ng guilt kasi madaming ibinibigay sa kanila na feeling nila kailangan nilang bumawi, tapos pag sa tingin nila di sila nakaka compensate, ayun na, maghahanap ng exit criteria.

kakayamot yung ganun. mas gusto pang maging kabit ng lalakeng ang turing sa kanila ay spare tire, pasko ng dec 26, valentine's ng feb 15. samantalang meron namang nagmamahal na willing bigyan sya ng maginhawang buhay, pakasalan at ariin na parang kanya yung anak nung babae.

girl, you deserve better. do not settle.

good for you then. do what you think you must do. bilib ako sa commitment mo!

 

this is a topic close to my heart kasi i once made the mistake of falling in love. ginago lang ako ng girl.

up to know i still wonder if it was just all about the money. but now i see why it could have never had worked out.

1. difference in values and view point. i could never understand her pains (nor did she ever let me get close enough for me to understand her).

2. mpas / psps have needs and though the immediate need may be money, money is never the solution.

3. usually mpas/psps have a lot of scars, excess baggage to contend with. they are people with lot's of hurts. hurt people hurt people. their difficult past and lifestyle make it difficult for them to respond. they may feel unworthy and thus just reject your love.

 

but then again marami rin namang clients diyan na gago rin. you can hear lots of stories of girls na pinaasa then iniwan sa ere. this just adds to the hurt and makes having a genuine relationship difficult.

 

I'm no sociologist or psychologist so if you think that i'm just generalizing or my comments are out of line feel free to comment. but the way i see things having a relationship between a client and an mpa/psp is not impossible but it will certainly be difficult on both sides. both sides will have to put 10 times the effort for a normal relationship to make it work. odds are really against this type relationship.

 

my solid advice don't fall into this trap.

tumpak ka dyan isko.

minsan kasi nasanay na sila na ganun na lang and that they feel they don't deserve better.

so pag may busilak na pusong nag-alay ng dalisay na pagmamahal sa kanila, hindi nila alam kung papaano magre-respond.

tapos yun na nga, makakaramdam sila ng guilt kasi madaming ibinibigay sa kanila na feeling nila kailangan nilang bumawi, tapos pag sa tingin nila di sila nakaka compensate, ayun na, maghahanap ng exit criteria.

kakayamot yung ganun. mas gusto pang maging kabit ng lalakeng ang turing sa kanila ay spare tire, pasko ng dec 26, valentine's ng feb 15. samantalang meron namang nagmamahal na willing bigyan sya ng maginhawang buhay, pakasalan at ariin na parang kanya yung anak nung babae.

girl, you deserve better. do not settle.

maybe i was thinking about something else...at that time...maybe i simply couldn't comprehend...maybe my mind was so set about the title of the topicClients Falling in Love with MPAs/PSPs...i could have been drunk for allyou know...what's all the fuzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz anyway????

so maybe i'm not that smart...sooo what?... I REALLY DID NOT UNDERSTAND SPONBEBOBs QUESTION....but i did try to answer as honestly...as MUCH as i could...I TRIED ...AND IF I ANSWERED ALL OF THEM CORRECTLY it does not mean I WAS LYING when I SAID I DID NOT UNDERSTAND SPONGEBOBs QUESTION... HELL I couldn't even understand what he meant when he mentioned "more than just another client."...i didn't imagine he was aking about the chances for an MPA/PSP...to fall inlove w/ a client. madaldal lang siguro talaga ako...kaya kahit papano na sagot ko rin yung Q ng di ko sinasadya.

 

But you know what...If I DID understood the Q...the way I do now ( Thanks to Joie )i would have answered all his Questions with a brief "Kailangan pa bang imemorize yan?"

By God...lahat ng tao Client/PSP/MPA/Ordinay people/CEO/Magbabalut...iisa lang naman yan diba? Love is absolute...nararamdaman yan...there is nothing we can do to enhance or diminish what someone holds for us. Kahit pa maghubad ka sa harap ng lalake o magpakamatay ka pa...kung di ka kayang mahalin...di ka kayang mahalin...ganun din sa babae...kahit pa lumuha ka ng dugo o isanla mo pa bahay at lupa mo para sa kanya..kung di ka kayang mahalin...di ka kayang mahalin.

With that...binabawi ko na lahat ng sinabi ko...isa na lang ang isasagot ko pala sa Question ni SpongeBob...."SpongeBob....Kailangan pa bang imemorize yan?"

no fuzz... i'm just saying.

there is no disparaging remark with what i said.

are you always this excitable?

back to topic: nakakatuwa lang when a GRO or an MPA feels that you are giving too much money and they would try to give back some or all of it, and you can feel that they are being earnest about it. makes you feel that they care for you, or that they don't want you to jeopardize your bankroll, or that your presence is sometimes enough.

or maybe that's just me reading too much into it. :sick:

I reply to your contradicting points in a logical manner and something is wrong with ME?

 

LOL. You are hilarious.

 

At any rate, im not an MPA nor am I a PSP so im not a subject here.

 

Better get your stories straight before you post.

 

That way you can address issues rather than personalities.

iwalkalone, I agree with Joie on this one. It was a definite cop-out.

You are too smart to not have understood what spongebobby was asking.

for me.. d nlng cguro.. kc parang naukit na sa name nila un eh.. haggng kabit nlng cguro sila... isipin mu nlng ung ssbhn ng ibng tao sainyo.. bk dhil dun lalo pa kaung masira db?

bro i can't agree with you on so many levels i don't know where to begin.

naukit sa name nila? maybe if the people in her neighborhood knows what she does for a living, yun, nakaukit sa name nya. but even then, it's so easy to relocate to a place where no one knows what previous life you lead.

it's unfair din na sabihin na hanggang kabit na lang sila. they also deserve better lives, di sila dapat pumayag na kabit na lang sila. they deserve to find happiness din na pwede nilang sabihin kanila lang.

kung mas iisipin mo yung sasabihin ng ibang tao kesa sa kaligayahan nyo, probably you are not cut for this kind of relationship.

kung masisira ka naman masisira ka talaga. as long as kaya mo mahalin yung sarili mo bago ang ibang tao, at kaya mo maging masaya at wag isaalang alang ang kaligayahan mo sa ibang tao, you can live a fulfilling life.

Whew... took me around 3 hours to read this entire thread. I can’t believe there are so many guys in the same boat as me. I thought I was one of the few dumb enough to fall for an MPA. Let me share my experience…

 

I first visited her MP last September, it was actually my first time to visit a “naughty place”... I just went with my balikbayan friend who was uber horny after not getting laid for 3 years in the US. The aquarium opens and there are about 4 girls on display. Naturally, my deprived friend gets first pick and ends up choosing this white-skinned chinita beauty that I had my eye on. Oh, well. My gaze then strays to the next whitest girl in the room. I was about to pick her when my other friend tells me to choose this other girl... now this is one that wouldn’t normally catch my eye in a line-up of beauties. She was a bit dark, let’s call it morena, not exactly my type (like most guys, I prefer light-skinned girls). But she had nice eyes, and there was something about her smile. She looked eager to please. So I thought, what the hell, and went with her. To cut it short, she really wasn’t all that good. It wasn’t the amazing sex that the other guys posted they had with their MPA/PSP gf’s. Her massage wasn’t that great (me and my friend compared notes after our session), but there was something about her that I just couldn’t put my finger on. For convenience, let’s call her ‘Kim’ (not her floor name or real name).

 

Going to MP’s can be addicting, and for the next month I made the rounds. All in all I had several different MPA’s, but I found each of them lacking. I finally went back and visited Kim for the 2nd time. My plan was to become her regular. I figured I could set up an arrangement for ‘home-service’, where I could save a little by not paying for the room, but instead give her around 50% more than usual. After the 3rd visit, something clicked. I was able to take her home with me after her shift. I was pretty surprised, I mean, I wasn’t courting her through text or anything. And I guess I’m a pretty decent-looking guy, but I’m no Sam or Piolo.

 

We’ve been seeing each other for almost 3 months now. At first I was just happy because I was getting free sex, which I actually bragged about to my friends ( something I’m not very proud of ). But after awhile, she started to grow on me. At first I thought I was ok with her ‘job’. I’m a practical person, she’s the breadwinner in her family of 7, which includes her baby. I was pretty upfront with her, I make about half of what she makes in a month, so I couldn’t really support that many people if she quit her job. Now, though, I really wish I could support her so she could quit doing what she does, and go back to school. I want to be one of those rich old farts who throw money around like paper. My life used to be so simple.

It’s gotten to the point where I don’t find other girls that attractive anymore. I started sleeping with my celphone beside me, and I’d be ecstatic every time she texts or calls. I started drinking and chain-smoking by myself at home, things I thought I’d never do, thinking about her ‘guests’. Hating them, but at the same time wanting to be them. Does that make sense? She says she loves me, but there’s always that doubt lurking at the back of my mind. She seems so distant when she’s at work, but I guess that’s to be expected. Sometimes I wish I could go back to being a guest… I’d probably be spending less time and money.

 

I guess I’ll stop for now, will continue this when I get home from work. Feel free to comment.

hirap 'no bro? one of these days baka nde ko na din kayanin. parang malapit na din ako sa ganyan.

rocky balboa, pirates, transformers, spiderman3, fantastic four, rush hour 3

if only i can find the time to play again. gandan ng ravnica block saka etong time shifted cards.

haaay. ipangreregalo ko na lang sa kasal ng barkada ko yung call of the herd na set. sayang, ganda pa naman ng memories nung call of the herd na yun, brought me to 2002 nationals.