This thread is so much fun. I love it I can't stop scrolling.. That's why we are called therapist if that does make sense literal na thera na nga, providing you your validation, pleasure, and others that you seek in filling the void. Same lang in exchange aside from the money from the service that we give, we are validated and we feel feminine again, when u made us feel loved, beautiful, being provided, and cared for, there's a big chance that we fall too. Nakaka adik din for us na ma cherish kaya hirap yung iba kumalas kasi instant na ang pera at validation, gratification, kung gaano kasarap ka at kaganda. But then, we suppress that feelings and avoid falling too oftentimes because just like you, we also have a void and doubt on our worthiness because of the industry we choose to be in and yes may chance mag bago if matured, well guided and supported or kapag may goal si thera, pero kapag immature pa, don't expect na she will get into your level of commitment. We feel and think musculine na by working and providing, we get insecure and comes the other theory kuha nalang ng katulong houseband na more on feminine side, na tatanggap samin ng walang sumbat for poorer, sickness, and death do us part, sila nalang ang piliin kaysa magdusa sa pwedeng maungkat na past or isusumbat we have ego and dignity too, sadyang dala lang ng circumstances and iba ibang reasons show some grace lang din. Medyo crucial ang eksena natin dito but goes both ways. Mas mabigat lang for the theras to carry everything kasi lalo lalo kung may anak, nabuntis, iniwan marami binubuhay with no other option in career/ hindi maparaan to change. Not talking on my behalf, but on behalf of most theras. Kaya I admire the maturity and understanding of those gents na genuine, lalo kapag na fall vice versa. Either charge to experience or charge to acceptance. Yung mga theory niyo may point because those might be the foundations. That explains it. Happy Dcks and Happy Pps, everyone! ππ I Love mtc.