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pepesok

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  1. One of the best quotes I've heard because it applies to me. I am in this situation now. But I'd rather not complicate things. I just take things one day at a time and let things take their course. I am not rushing to anything.

     

    When life sucks, when you want to feel good again, its easy to look blindly at love. For me, loving should be coupled with heavy thoughts. In my life, I have learned that one should always try to love him/herself first, because getting hurt because of love can happen. Protecting oneself is key to move on. Magtira ka ng kahit kaunti para sa sarili mo. And you will always be able to fall back on something.

     

    I have also learned to control myself. Who would not fall for someone who is beautiful, full of life and a person that we think needs our help because of her work. One should not mistake this from the Messiah Complex. But if you think its true love, think twice before immersing yourself too much on her. I've talked to an MPA who I believe I am falling for. And she has admitted that she does miss me, and she is fighting her feelings because she doesn't wanna get hurt. I feel the same way. Its just that this has happened to me before (with a KTV girl), and honestly I dunno if that was love, because right now I felt na ginusto ko lang yung kilig na hindi maibigay ng ex ko. And this is why I frequent this thread.

     

    To continue, she said that she does not want to stop working in the MP scene coz its easy money and its big money. Ayaw daw niya umasa sa isang tao na mahal niya. Ayaw niyang maging user, dahil kung mahal niya, siyempre ayaw daw niya ng ganun. Tama din di ba? Correct ethics. Although, if one loves her, I think you just have to accept those facts. I don't think I would be able to live with that kind of a relationship, so I control myself, and just visit her once a week. Love her when I see her, ika nga. Alam ko hindi pare-pareho ang mga tao, but that is how I try to control myself. Ayoko ng masaktan. Inevitable sa ganitong sitwasyon eh.

     

    In the first, wala din naman akong mai-o-offer. Definitely not marriage (because I am married - hiwalay nga lang sa ngayon), or kahit magsama kami (papaano ang daughter ko?! - na nasa akin - at parents ko?!). Its too complicated. Kaya control is key. IMO, kasi, ang babae madami yan, we just sometimes mistake love for pity, kilig, sex and even the Messiah Complex. Kaya sa ngayon, tama na muna ang set-up na guest/MPA relationship with "some" love on the side when we do meet up. I just hope I could take her out sometime as a token of appreciation because she has made me happy at the time when I am at my loneliest.

    Nice one bro... Same situation here i think and feel that i'm starting to fall for this girl working as a GRO. Surely will follow your thoughts on this kind of situation, like you i'm married but separated, have a daughter and am living with my parents. Will try to take it one day at a time. Thanks for the input nice one again bro!!!

  2. i'm a newby here can anybody help me I'm having problems with my Help and Support link in my Start menu when I click it a pointer and an hour glass appears and then nothing happens papano kaya ito mga bros marami na rin ako na visit na site pero wala ko mahanap na solution Help please Thanks in advance

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