slyG28

good thing i haven't had a partner who's suicidal. psycho oo hahah!

yes. sex is important in a relationship but it isn't all that.

eyebags! lmao!

oo seloso ako pero nilulugar ko kumporme sa sitwasyon. maliban na lang kung talagang di puwedeng ibalewala.

tagpuan - moira dela torre

goodbyes are the hardest for me

user and cheater na girls

agreed. kaya yan.

face then eyes. then everything else .

had it once, but shortlived. things became awkward for both of us, especially with the office gossip... but still managed to go through with it in the long run. office romance indeed isn't for everyone imo.

no. we value each other's privacy plus trust is there.

no biggie.

wish ko lang na sana siya na talaga (gf) ko dahil gusto ko rin mag settle down at maging kuntento na sa buhay.

hard

Mundo - IV of Spades

New sa MTC but I didn't expect na I would be actually looking for a thread like this. I must say na since eto yung isa sa mga pinakapopular na i-check dito is the spa section, sobrang timely ng nagbukas ng thread na to. Kudos sa nagumpisa nito.

 

I have mixed feelings with this considering na part ng service ng thera is GFE. In my experience, some are good pero there was one that really stood out. Naging loyalist na ko and I never looked back. Yung parang iwiwish mo narin na sana you met at a different circumstance because she lived up to the GFE service.

 

I found myself just enjoying her company. Nung first time ko siya mameet, I was hooked. I won't be a hypocrite, syempre unang napansin ko is the looks pero madali kasi mawalan ng value sakin yun pag nakausap ko na tas wala palang sense or mababaw siya. What made me stay was the way she conversed. She was very engaging and knows how to manage interests, madali lang naman kasi sabihing "oo gusto ko rin yun" para lang magkaroon ng false sense of connection, but this girl/lady/woman, she was just really confident with herself.

 

I ended up doing crazy things just to be with her pero I'll mention only one. I had an out-of-the-country trip ako for work that was supposed to last for a week, I ended up sneaking one of my work days para bumalik sa Pinas just to see her then umalis ng Pinas right after. Di ko naman masabi na libog lang umiral because for one thing, I had the budget to spend for it where I was at that time, pero I chose na bumalik dito and chose her specifically. She was surprised because she knew I wasn't going back anytime soon. Ended up just having a really good time and out of all the hassle, it felt worth it.

 

In our most recent encounter, halos natulog lang siya the time I was with her habang cinucuddle ko siya. She was very tired and nakaka-antok daw nung hinahaplos ko siya sa ulo, LOL. I wasn't even mad, sobrang pinagmasdan ko lang siya habang tulog siya. I ended up needing to wake her up dahil lang matatapos na oras namin.

 

Ina-acknowledge ko naman yung possibility na it's just part of how good she is with GFE. And I'll admit that I grew to like her? Love kasi, I don't want to use the term, loosely kasi hindi yun mababaw sakin pero sobrang nasa borderline na ko sa transition.

 

Naiitindihan ko naman yung current circumstances namin parehas, and I've being weighing the pros and cons constantly. It hurts na I know she has to do it because it's her job and whatever her reasons may be for going into that line of work, I know I can't judge her for it. Pero sobrang sana kaya ko nalang tugunan lahat ng yun for her so I can have her exclusively.

 

Still, andun parin yung respect ko sa kanya as a person, as a woman. Who knew that in the oddest of places, such a person exists. I can only hope na there was truth in how she made me feel and if I have to wait for her, I'd be willing.

 

Sorry sa lengthy post at salamat narin sa mga nagtyagang basahin.

 

Cheers.

nice post, bro!

Pag toxic na ba, kelangan bumitaw na?

well, preferably or should i say with common sense you should let go. however this is just my opinion. whatever floats your boat...or if it still makes you happy despite the toxicity, it's up to you on how long you should keep holding on. just know your limits.

expectations. we unwittingly set expectations to our partners and expected too much. expectations not met...kaya may kanya-kanyang dahilan like infidelity, mistrust, money, broken promises, etc. etc.

doesn't matter for me.

nah. what comes around goes around. karma's a b*tch.

nah. what comes around goes around. karma is a bitch.

Mundo by IV Of Spades

met my current gf at her work. been together for more than a year. praying that our relationship gets stronger despite the trials that we both faced and trials that we're about to face.

mahirap talaga ma-fall sa isang therapist, pero hindi imposible. been there before. been together for 3yrs. ayun lang di rin naging kami. at least kahit ganun it gave me hope to meet someone better. not a therapist. never again lol. hopefully ito na yung huli ko at panghabangbuhay. if i can, any of you guys can. basta tamang mindset lang.

yes. some women engage in sex without love for various reasons. most commonly noted are for the money and sex itself.