Mang Ricky

On 6/16/2024 at 1:12 AM, MyFriend said:

I have fallen and its a sack of confusing emotions.

A few months ago gusto ko lang naman magpa massage and happy ending. It was supposed to be a one time escapade but apparently it wasn't. Naging regular client ako nya, I assume getting her services 3 times in a month is already considered as a regular client.  During the course of  1 month as a regular client, I would ask her out for a date but she would say no. I would send her gifts and give small amounts of money but still she would say no to a date. 

We chatted every day and every hour. Pag hindi ako nagpaparamdam sa chat ng more than an hour nagtatampo sya. And in the course of us chatting incessantly an attachment between us grew. We were already liking each other on the second month although of course I still send her money, larger amounts at this time. When I told her I'll book for a session the night after tomorrow. This makes it our 4th and I was surprised what she told me, magdala daw ako ng CD.

Then she now agreed to go out with me. Nagpasundo sya sa malapit sa house nya. That first time to go out wasnt really a date kasi I asked kung may gusto ba sya puntahan or kainan. She said mag takeout na lang and we can check in a motel. Shempre di na ako tumanggi kahit na hindi yun ang ineexpect ko. This happened 3 times on the 2nd month and was pretty much transactional. We go out and eat lunch or dinner then check in a motel. Afterwards I hand her the money.

Since we go out almost every week I changed my offer. Instead of giving her money every time we go out I offered to give money on a regular basis instead. She thought about it and she agreed. Para masulit ko yun money I give regularly, we would go out twice a week. Going out means having dinner or lunch then check in a motel. Even with money involved, nagkakaroon na ng feelings maybe because of the frequency of our dates. It wasnt liking her anymore but I was falling for her already and I believe she had fallen also too. She said I love you to me.

On the 4th month wala ng weekly money nor even transactional payments. She would be the one asking me if im free so we can go out without any money involved and then have sex. Then it progressed to seeing her almost everyday for lunch, dinner or even just coffee. There will always be sex at least once a week, sometimes up to thrice.

The situation seems to be a feel-good story that will have a happy movie ending. Nope kasi may complications. She has a toddler child and a jowa houseband (palamunin), and I am twice her age.

I mentioned there is a sack of confusing emotions. There are feelings of happiness, jealousy, anger, inferiority, disgust, worry. These feelings are stressing me out and is affecting my mental and physical health. So I ask ano ang gagawin nyo kung ikaw ako?

 

to be continued...

Maging satisfied ka na lang sa situation ninyo. Wag mo na isipin yon houseband at anak. Ganyan ang situation pag nag fall ka sa thera. Wag mag expect na level up pa ang relasyon. Level up ka na sa ngayon. Bihirang bihira sa mga thera ang magbigay sa GM ng ganyang klaseng kaligayahan at panahon. Malaking bagay na yan.  Isa pa, pag kayo mgkasama, wag nyo pag usapan ang houseband at anak nya. 

Ok lang. Kung my message ako na d kelangan malaman ni partner, ginagamit ko ang viber hidden chat or disappearring message.

On 8/14/2022 at 10:08 AM, theoneandonlymistressmia said:

Had a small claims case. Judge dismissed the case simply because nag tatago na yung nangutang. Despite the fact that the respondent gave an address and we deliver it to them and they refused to receive then we secured an affidavit of refusal.

Only in the Philippines ka makakakita ng ganyang klase ng judge na may ganyang klase ng mindset. 

Eto pa....

"I advise you to look for the person on your own muna. Once you found her, refile na lang"

Case dismissed. A round of applause. Kaway kaway nga pala sa judge ng Pasig.

Bulok ang sistema ng hustisya dito sa Pinas. Kung nagkataon na milyon milyon ang hinahabol mong utang, tutulungan kpa ni judge bopol.

Wag seloso sakale mag fall in love ka sa therapist mo.

Pang high school o college age lang ang MU. Pag older pa, malabo na asahan ang future nyong dalawa.

Women sa age na 35 gang cguro 50 maayos kasama...pede gf, fubu, kabit. Usually wala na arte. Pero miron din ako na kilala sa ganyan mga edad na maarte at parang dalaga na di ko maintindihan ikinikilos. HIndi ko na inaaksaya panahon sa ganyan bebot. Swertihan din na makakilala ng just right at pag ganun, tyak happy ka.

On 11/5/2023 at 11:26 AM, Kryte said:

Una mag aapologize na agad ako. marupok at assuming eh HAHAHAH . Eto, Share ko na experience ko before.

I fell for my thera before. Nagtrabaho kasi ako sa ibang bansa for 2 years.  so paguwi ko, typical na ilabas parents inom kasama mga tropa, catching up ba. Tas ayun naalala ko MTC. kaya nagbukas ako, Hanap hanap. Pm dito pm doon. Gang may tugma sa trip ko. Usap and book.

Nung una kasi naming session, parang nabigla ako na may nagcacare kasi wala naman akong jowa for a long time e. Kahit sabihin mong natural sa script yung ganyang galawan. Na enjoy ko moments kasi outcall kami after ng bakbakan, kwentuhan at tinanong ko kung what time siya aalis. wala pa naman daw siyang client after.

so niyaya ko kumain since malapit lang naman kami sa gateway. Habang naglalakad kami and papuntang gateway, may sense pala kausap. Makwento akong tao at Nalaman ko storya nya and all. Every now and then tinatanong ko baka may lakad na siya and more than free to go siya since tapos naman na session namin an hour ago. Wala pa naman daw, so tuloy lang tas niyaya ko na mag tea or kape kasi tinatamad pa ko umuwi, pero technically nageenjoy pa naman ako tinatamad tamad pa ko bumyahe pauwi non kasi pagod din. Nabanggit nya lang na baka naman daw maningil ako in terms of service 🤣 sabi ko hindi naman. Pero kung iisa pa, bakit hindi? kaya naman e. tawa lang siya sabay tanong ng weh? tara na. Hayok din dahil panay trabaho ako for the past 2 years e.

Gang nasundan naman ng outcall 3 days after. Typical deed tapos chill sa room na nga lang tas umorder nalang ng food. Kwentuhan, Hanggang sa nagsheshare na siya ng problems niya. Tas maya maya nagpart ways na kami kasi may bisita akong dadating sa bahay e.

After a week outcall ulit. Same thing, nuod naman sine naging trip after. Kaso napapansin ko na sa sarili ko na parang gusto ko lagi kausap yung tao 😩😩 Naiirita na ko pag antagal sumagot sa reply. Kaya ayun, nung nag deed talagang performance level. Tas nung naliligo na siya, kasi babalik na sa place nila. nalungkot ako. napansin niya na parang nagiba mood ko at sabi ko wala problema hehe. Kaya tinanong kung bitin daw ba ko. Sabi ko nalang oo. kaya nag oral pambawi daw.

 

Pag kauwi ko, nag mesage lang ako ng thank you for her time today. Tas di na ko nagmessage. Naghanap nalang ako libangan which is yung oto ko nga. After a few days may message na ngangamusta. From time to time nangangamusta din, kaso alam mong di dahil sa kaya mong iprovide na presence kundi dahil easy money ka sakanya. I don’t blame her ha, worth every peso yung services nya. Assuming lang talaga ako na may meaning, nagdevelop lang din ako ng feelings na alam ko namang hindi dapat in the first place. Kaya I decided to cut connections for the reasons:

1. kasi di ko mapigilan nararamdaman ko e. Nahuhulog ka para sa service lang naman.

2. I can’t change her whole situation. Temporary solution lang meron ako and wala akong pang dulo-han, atleast not yet nung time na yon (2016)

3. I don’t have it in me to build from scratch. Considering na aalis din ako from time to time  para magwork. Syempre anjan yung possibility na bumalik ng industry yan pag nabored or am I overthinking things. Ewan haha

4. I do not mean to offend or anything lalo na sa mga thera na makakabasa neto, pero what if may nameet kaming former client nya sa labas diba? ano sasabihin/irereact ko sakanya, “client mo pala dati” tas andyan na yung kung ano ano pinag gagawa nyo and I’ll go full on bad mood na sakanya kahit nakilala nya way before sakin yon and di nya naman kasalanan kasi wala naman siyang choice before dahil sa ganong industry ko siya nakilala e. 

5. Siguro kasi andami pang possibility na pwede mangyari noon and I didn’t try. Dont get me wrong ha? Masaya ako sa outcome. 

 

(P.S. Nakita ko siya, and nasa industry padin at present, 2023)

 

Natuwa lang ako sa thread na to kasi naalala ko yung moments a few years ago. HAHAHAH

pero yun na nga, most of the reasons din ng nastate ko is advices din ng iba. If there’s anything I can leave for you guys, probably 80/20 yan. medyo forgiving pa nga yang percentage ko hahah. 80 alanganin, 20 pwede pero it will be hard and tough.  ikaw na makakapagsabi kung worth it ba or hindi. Pero mostly on the losing side ka. 

 

 

Salamat sa share. Gandang experience.

You can do it, my man!

Karaniwan madali lang ang work. Ang mahirap yon makisama sa mga kasamahan sa trabaho. Andyan yon inggitero, intrigero, mapanira sa kapwa para cya lang aasenso, and so on.

Mgka iba ang concern ng science sa concern ng bible. Pareho pwede magamit ang kaalaman mula science at bible para sa ikabubuti at ikauunlad ng mundo at sangkatauhan.

bahala ka sa buhay mo

no problem

Psychology

Good teacher. Interesting subjects. Pero self motivation pa din. Tulad nun kabatch ko sa high school, pumasok sa isang kilalang university, pero na kick out.

Pede pumasok sa private sector, tas sa gobyerno. Saka ka decide kung san ka mag career.

Pabder

sleeveless shirt at boxer shorts

Levi's for maong pants.

Alam ni jowa na nagtatrabho si thera sa industry. Pero d alam ni jowa  kung anong milagro ginagawa ni thera pag on duty. Kung sakale nalaman ni jowa ang milagro sa loob ng spa o MP, nakuha niya info sa mga barkada. O kaya niyaya ng barkada si jowa na magpa "massage".

Angel Locsin. Charming pa dn kahit fat gal na.

whooper junior plant based, SM Fairview..Taste 4

Globe.

so afraid..no...conting kaba haha

Yon dati kong thera

masaya din MU feeling nakaka inspire pa