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Two Days ago: Got to see someone special. What was supposed to be just a hand off of late gifts turned into a one-hour chat and catch up session.

Yesterday: Found out that I'm to be promoted, and spending some time with my thera.

 

as long as you're not hiding anything. it is what it is. its a two way street. you're trying to say its ok for guys to be polygamous but when it comes to their wives and gf's they can't do it? doesn't sound equal.

 

you can laugh all you want but i don't see anything wrong in being honest to your loved ones and being open with them. are you trying to say since this is a sex forum its ok to lie and hide?

 

the point im trying to make is you be honest to your loved ones. but you make it sound like its wrong to be honest because sex and honesty don't mix?

 

if i'm going to do something like this at least im gonna be honest about it.

 

Why don't you try being honest to your wife or gf. tell them you go to a spa? let's see how your wife/gf reacts. that is if you're really willing to do it unless there's some insecurity there and fear that she might do the same to you.

 

it sounds like men like to have other desserts while keeping their entree to themselves. doesnt sound fair to your wives/gf's doesnt it. and yet the guys here want that kind if setup. if only your wives and gf/s knew what you were doing. tsk. tsk. tsk.

 

if guys are babaeros then women should be open to other guys if the couple agrees to have no problem with it.

 

i guess there are people who have trouble grasping this concept.

 

my difference with people here is, at least she knows im doing it and she is ok with it. i have nothing to hide. it feels good to be honest.

Good for you bro. Before my ex and I became official, I confessed to her that I frequented spas before we met (and of course stopped once we were together). This enabled us to maintain a relationship for 5 years built on trust. In your case though, the question is: if you are truly an honest person, why can't you also be faithful to your partner? I'm not attacking you, but it seems like your morality is a bit selective, which is probably why a lot of GMs are digitally raising their eyebrows at you. Just my two cents.

Same from the other side.Bakit love mo c thera?

Kasi masarap sa kama.

Pwede namang malambing, masarap kausap, matalino, mabait. Although I get the discussion is about stereotypes and generalizations, which I very much abhor. I think in this industry most of us have a tendency to be cynical about things like love, and maybe for most that work to avoid unnecessary heartbreak and pain.

 

Exactly sir...that is why it is so difficult for us theras to trust a GM...yes, real love happens but unless it transcends lust, then it would never work out in the end. We are in the business of giving you tits to fondle, ass to grab and even hair to pull, why in the world would someone want to be in a relationship with a woman like that? It would take a lot of for a GM to convince me that he sees me as more than a thera. My idealistic and romantic notion keeps this door open for me, but I am also realistic enough to admit Mr. Right is a bit unlikely to come from this environment.

Hi May!

Happy New Year (again). Well I went online for a bit, and would like to say that yes, it will be hard. Most people would confuse infatuation with love, although how you can tell is an entirely different monster that would warrant a longer discussion. Once you've invested yourself in someone else, it will be hard to get out of that situation. I've told you about my situation, and I appreciate your words of wisdom on the matter, in this case I'd like to think that I saw her as more than just a pair of "tits to fondle, ass to grab and even hair to pull". On trust, as many have pointed out, it does go both ways, it's hard for a Thera to trust a GM, but GMs will also find it hard to trust a Thera, especially in terms of differentiating GFE with the real thing and the fact that she spends 8-12 hrs (or more) a day with different men per hour every day. Not to mention the thought of other men courting her or giving her gifts some of us can't afford (or if they have prior experience with a Thera who lied to them). Of course, there will always be GMs who would see you as a person and not an object of lust. And that takes a very special kind of woman, I think for most of us you would fit that description to a tee. Yes, we go to Spa's for different reasons - release, loneliness, dissatisfaction with current partners, to move on, etc. Every person is unique, and every person is special, there are just those that are more special than others to each of us, and what's to say that can't happen between a GM and a Thera.

Society will dictate certain norms and standards for each of us, sadly these said norms would always make it hard for GMs to be in a relationship with a Thera, there will always be the "How do I introduce her to everybody?" question. But when you do find someone who can see beyond that, and see you as a person, regardless of what you do, you should treasure that person, if not as a lover, then at least as a friend.

On another note, It's nice to know that you have a long-term game plan, I didn't even know you graduated with honors (maybe we can discuss that more next time I see you). I will cheer you on and, as I've said many times before, I do look forward to seeing you again.

Pacific Rim, Bourne Legacy (stating the obvious), there are others but my mind is blank right now.

Android! There is no "Walled garden" with Android, plus compatibility with a lot of apps (and APKs) - some only available for download as APK packages and not in the playstore, which are definitely not in iOS or Windows OS. You can (usually) expand your memory with SD cards and OTG drives, use it basically as a USB drive and player at the same time, and it's compatible to be paired/partnered with so many other devices from different brands but using the same OS. For someone like me who used to tinker around with my desktop, the level of accessibility and compatibility with Android is awesome. I was able to transfer my contacts and SMS records from a Xiao Mi to an HTC and eventually a Galaxy phone just by using the same app to backup and restore, I was able to continue progress with my games even when changing phones, etc.

I don't know if Hacksaw Ridge ever screened here in the PH, heard it was good. Will wait for the blu-ray nalang (or BRrip Torrent, LOL). Moana is good. And of course, who can forget Rogue One!

Last night: Eastwood - reunion with friends. Tonight: In Aruga hotel, team Christmas party/overnight. Buti nalang off ako mamaya.

Nakakainis lang nag Pre-order ako ng FFXV pero wala parin text sakin ang Datablitz, mapuntahan nga mamaya.

Sometimes you just have to explore. Pag wala ka na talagang nakikitang mangyayari pa sa inyo, explore ka lang, either ibang theras or meet new people. You need to remind yourself that there are around 3 Billion other girls out there, and one of them might be a better fit for you (maybe preferably not in this industry, but you never know). Oo medyo hugot to, and she probably thinks I'm a liar because I told her I would not visit another spa or get another thera, but I think when things end between you two, all commitments with the person go out the window. I have kept my end of the bargain nung ok pa kami. But I don't think I'm still obliged to do so anymore, especially if it helps with the healing process (kahit magastos and to the more "conservative" peeps out there, mali). Maybe in the future pwede ko pa siya makatropa, pero for now, explore muna, move on, and enjoy the holidays.

Depende sa career

You will have Superhuman patience when you're in love. You will accept anything, forgive almost everything. You will let everything slide, just to have another moment with the person you love.

I was in the US and she was back here. Had to extend my stay (para masulit) so we had to break up over the phone. I was lucky enough to be travelling at the time and that helped cope with the inevitable sadness, despite the fact na medyo matagal na naging stale ang relationship (5 years). I was able to move on without much heart break. It also helped that there was an Irish pub right beside my hotel LOL.

That I will find someone I can love as much as I loved you, and she will love me back just as much.

To wake up and not have her as the first thought in my mind.

Heaven Knows

That everybody ends up happy and at peace with everything.

When I told my friends I would choose her over a naked Ellen Adarna, Jessy Mendiola, or any celebrity. They said I was in love.

Me. For still wanting to give the benefit of the doubt despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary.

Yung weekend na at mag lalaro ako ng Diablo 3 mamaya magdamag haha

Excited ka na sa Necro bro?

Clarity. Companionship. Friendship

Swapped some games with my friend. So marathon kong tinapos ang COD: AW, AC: Unity, and just now Watchdogs na pinahiram niya sakin. He still has my Witcher 3 which I have not yet played (hindi ko pa tapos Witcher 2). Another friend lent me his Bloodborne copy so that's next *shudders* On Mobile: Pokemon Go, Final Fantasy Record Keeper, Final Fantasy Mobius, Final Fantasy Brave Exvious, COC, Total War: Kingdoms... Pero mostly the first two in the list talaga ang madalas.

 

ako rin! hahah blue hair is cool.

 

tho imposible yon, hehe. world peace sana kaso mas imposible ata yon sa pagiging super saiyan....

Super Saiyan Rose na daw ngayon ang uso hahaha

Sure, why not, especially if there's really nothing to hide. But again, this depends on the person. We just have to respect each other's preferences.

Yep, and even everywhere - but then again, if the topic is love, it applies to anything that love can be applied to, doesn't it?

 

the weird thing about it is that it's so hard to define, yet it is so definite, in a metaphysical sense. It is as real as it is intangible, a solid concept, yet in the same manner, can be abstract!

 

it can be hidden, but one can't lie about it; it will always show through.

True, however the topic is "loving someone." You got a way with words Seta. Everything we feel is real and intangible, the whole spectrum of emotions. The problem is really differentiating love with such emotions as jealousy, lust, and such.