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A few minutes ago

When you're about to fall asleep and the love of your life takes off your glasses and then kisses your lips. Thinking that you're already asleep

Late night chats with my girl. Refreshing to have someone who you know loves you wholeheartedly and would even fight for you.

Usually, spa habitues have multiple regulars. The "go-to" therapists. I am not speaking in the context of falling. I am speaking in the context of "value-for-money", hence, I said that I digressed.

 

On that end I agree. Haha

Kakaaliw naman mga love stories, especially the ones involving heartbreak.

 

I read a post here that that poster does not get a therapist he fell for anymore. It is better to have a regular because you know that when you get her, it's a sure ball, a fail safe. Getting different therapists every time involves a financial risk. However, if you studied a therapist thoroughly by reading FRs, then you lessen that risk. I digressed but it is really better to have a regular.

 

True, riskier siya, but if you're the type to get attached easily, better to just ESplore everytime. Or maybe alternate "regulars" in different spas/KTVs/PSPs/MPAs (once you've established kung sino ang ok sayo in terms of attitude, looks, mileage, etc). At least pag lumabo isa, andami mo pang options. If you think about it, Theras are kinda forced into that, andaming pumupuntang lalake sa kanila, so they always options pag hindi na bumalik ang isa, so why shouldn't we be the same? Again, this is only in the context of avoiding the pitfalls of falling for a thera. If you're in love with one and the feeling is mutual, then all the best to you.

Reconnected with a hot chick chatmate. Ended up Sexting out of nowhere. Actual deed to follow lol.

I'm not in love with you,

But my mind wanders to thoughts of you,

And my eyes long for the sight of you,

And body trembles when I'm beside you,

 

I'm not in love you with you,

But my hands itch to touch you,

And my lips miss the taste of you,

And my ears long for your voice too,

 

I'm not in love with you,

But my heart skips a beat when I hear from you,

And I wish I was more important to you,

Yet I am no more than just a friend to you,

 

I'm not in love with you,

But it's torture knowing that I don't have you,

So no, I'm not in love with you,

But that's just because you asked me not to.

A rendezvouz this Friday

This is the first and last poem I’ll write for you,

I made the choice once, and will do so again,

What is it worth, if nothing you say is true?

When false was every moment we shared back then,

 

I let my guard down, I opened my heart,

Thinking that perhaps this may be worthwhile,

You chose to play with it and you tore it apart,

You left it a smoldering and useless pile,

 

I looked past your faults, your issues, your lies,

I saw you as someone worth more than all that,

But I never saw the wolf, in sheep’s disguise,

To whom I was but nothing more than a gnat,

 

I used to think I could never let go,

That you were someone that was worth to keep,

There was so much then that I didn’t know,

The wounds you left were simply too deep,

 

This is goodbye, and it is for good,

I will soon learn to stop thinking of you,

Never again will you darken my mood,

Never again will I chase after you,

 

Wherever life deems to bring me next,

I no longer wish for you to be there,

I honestly wish you all of the best,

For after today, I will no longer care.

Hmm...everytime I visit this thread it seems a lot gets said...Lol

 

Just remember boys, you ventured into the situation completely aware of the environment. You know our jobs. You are aware of the extent of the physical intimacy we spend with clients on a daily basis. You also have an idea why we have to do this. We are not your regular girl next door type of women. We work in the flesh trade where we literally give ownership of our bodies to GMs during the time we spend inside the cubicle. If you cannot accept the reality of things, then I suggest not to make the attempt to court a thera. This is not for the faint of heart nor the close-minded.

 

Good evening to all.

 

True. It's a reality of the situation. I guess one main issue here is when the Thera plays the collect and select game with multiple GMs when it comes to relationships, in other words, nagpaasa ng madami. I think most would agree that some GMs can take the reality that theras have to do ES to multiple guys in a day. Yung mga nasasaktan sa pagbabasa ng FR, yun yung mga hirap tanggapin ang situation (no offense to anyone here). For others though, given it's your job, they just don't think about it too much and look forward ro the next time they see you or talk to you. But there will still be that nagging fear that a better looking, more successful, smarter, or all-of-the-above GM will walk into your cubicle and sweep you off your feet. Then again that also applies to the Theras: There are a lot of spas and a wide selection of theras they can always visit if they so wish. It truly is a complicated scenario. See you soon May!

 

PS. As much as I agree with some of the GMs here. I think it might be better to lay off the name dropping. It might drive off some potential guests from the Thera in question. And we all agree that this is their livelihood. Goodnight peeps.

I think once is enough na.. ayos na yun maexperience mo.. but im still thankful for that experience.. bad thing sh*t happens..

Ok lang yan bro. Malalampasan din yan.

Mga theras na nagpost din dito. I think marami sa posts ay para kay Mavic. The spark girl.

 

Sa libog nagsimula tapos nadevelop sa malasakit at pagmamahal. Proof is kahit walang ES, masaya pa rin si GM.

 

Look in the mirror GM if you have the charm to attract or make a thera fall for you. The married ones have different reasons why they still fall for a thera. I had my reasons and happy that It's over. I'm free from the spell of the spark. I'm back to regular programming of availing a thera every other week, contended whether I get the standard or the full mileage. Cheers to the GMs and the theras that adds more color to our lives.

Grabe may laglag na laglag talaga dito. So mabuti ba na once ko lang siya kinuha at hindi nako umulit? On the second point, ganun na nga kahit magkita lang kayo at mag-usap at walang mangyari masaya ka na.

Very big no lol

Just to clarify, I'm recommending that you don't let your guard down AT ALL when dealing with anyone in this. Sorry, but from experience, I think that's the nature of all this.

Exactly what I said. But most especially in this setting.

Thanks for playing the devil's advocate Jake.

 

But, for me personally, a spa is not a tool to sharpen my charms or sexy moves or what not. It's like what Johnny says. Its a way for me to pamper myself. Hehe I don't think I need to elaborate on how exactly I want/need to be pampered.

 

 

Anyway, to be on the topic, we can't really force others to be practical or smart just because we tell them. They have to come into that "realization" themselves. Like what was said in the Matrix, you have a choice the red pill or the blue pill.

 

I think that is also the reason why this thread has nearly 500 pages. People can't help themselves, they cum to places like this to be naughty and do "the nasty" hehe (for most of us), but the people you call "marupok/virginal" can't help themselves that they develop a "crush/feelings" for a thera. It may be the 1st of the 100th thera they encountered, they can't help it.

 

Even if you (or other amazing and tenure/mature GMs) say, it's GFE or they are being tricked or taken for a ride. At the end of the day, they paid the admission fee and they may have gotten more than they expected. So, if they are happy or sad about the experience they had, I personally, don't see anything wrong if they post it here. After all, that is what this thread was created for.

 

In conclusion, you have a right to post your opinion and I can even forgive your name calling for people like us (hehe included ako kasi may crush akong thera eh), but, I don't see anything wrong with the "marupok/virginal" people posting here. THIS IS THE THREAD FOR THAT! Where else can they post? If not here? If you are getting tired with reading their posts, then don't. Haha! No one is forcing anyone to read other people's post. So long as they do not troll or attack others, I don't see anything wrong if they want to share their feelings/ thoughts.

 

Anyway, just me sharing my thoughts and opinion about this. Keep posting. I like this thread and I hope this remains active.

 

Agree. You can enter into this with the right mindset but can still develop feelings for someone. I've been exposed to this for more than 10 years (albeit had a 4-year hiatus because I had a GF). Yes other theras add me on FB or give me their numbers, but I never fell for them. It was just the one I shared about. I guess when you see something different about someone in this industry, something you can really respect and admire about this person, you start seeing them in a different light, and maybe even develop feelings for them . I agree as well with Hadouken99 though. You shouldn't let your guard down that easily. With anyone, especially in this industry. In a way, the girls here may have to do more to prove to men that they are genuine. That may be one of the burdens of being a thera in this industry. And a lesson learned as well for me.

Parang kilala ko ang thera na namention mo at di lang ata ikaw ang may ganyang story sa thera na yun

 

Anyway, thanks for sharing your story bro...sa ngayon, sana mamasyal at marami ka pa makilalang thera. enjoy mo na lng nga muna yun ESploration..

 

Hehe anyway, natatawa ako sa pagbackread ko.. andami happenings...

Like I said in my story. MAY nahanap making babalikbalikan. Haha salamat Solaryan. Fire and Blood bro!

"Believe in the good in people"

 

Maybe what you need is a spiritual/religious support group.

 

You're looking for that in a spa?

 

To be honest, the peeps who have been replying to you probably try their best not to be blunt.

 

Not that I wanna act preachy, but really?

I don't think you get it. What I meant is that I don't assume people are bad unless proven otherwise. Of course in certain places you have to be more cautious about who to trust. It's just my nature as a person.

Once a GM fall in love sa thera. Especially the GM told her everything about his life he is genuine and true to the thera. Not because you two met in this f*cking industry for me trust should not be an issue if you both like each other. I will always repeat this, if the GM is willing to understand your situation regarding your job they are sincere to you. Dont think that the cannot love the way you want to be loved. Mas seryoso pa sa inaakala niyo.. sana lang din sa mga thera konti unawa din kasi kaya naming unawain ang trabaho niyo.

I guess it's a defense mechanism for them bro. Isipin mo nalang ano iisipin mo sa GM na may GF of asawa but still partake off your services. You'll be guarded for sure. Kung kaya niya gawin yun sa partner niya, pano pa sayo. At least that's how I see it.

It's a good thing she never used you for money. At least, that is a consolation that could assuage your wounded feelings.

 

Yeah. That's the worst. I know some details about her history. I think mostly she's looking for validation. That's usually the thing with women who were cheated on. Especially the single moms. Honestly she doesn't need that. She's an attractive and smart woman. I've experienced that with someone years ago. A woman who felt like she needed to feel attractive because her husband cheated on her.

Ako naman, ayaw ko muna magpaligaw sa mga Guest ko.

 

That's a good mindset naman. Mahirap nga naman pag na-fall sayo lahat ng client mo but it's a risk for giving a good GFE talaga.

Cheers bro. Hope you find the right one. Wishing this for most of the other people in this thread as well

We have the same go to term. "Cheers" to you as well mate. Yes that would be best.

Unfortunately bro, I know your thera quite well, and I happen to know this entire thing. Sad about what happened, despite her good intentions for you. But sadly, and I can confirm this, you got played pretty hard, and it's even worse if you actually found out the rest of the story. Hope you're doing better now though.

 

I'm getting by. Life goes on.

Your story has all the indications that you got played.

 

Maybe sir, maybe not. I like to believe in the good in people, and as much as possible I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt on this, even until now. She never used me for money (sometimes she would shoulder the dinner or drinks), she tried to fix things with me when I tried to end it, which I think shows that she at the very least cares about the friendship. Maybe I was just looking for something she really couldn't give, and I guess this can be a learning opportunity to some of our GMs here who might start falling for Theras as well. Or a lesson for everyone who chooses to love in general.

Personally I thank you for sharing, that's what this thread's for. There are people who will come to our lives that will just pass by and there are those who we keep for life. It's up to us to decide which ones they are. I believe anyone who has truly felt love is lucky, sure some may end in heart break but I think if you can turn back time you'll do it over again albeit the pain it caused you, I know I would. I maybe wrong, it's just how I see it. But again I appreciate your story Sir.

 

Thank you sir. I don't want to give an update on the situation para walang gulo. I do appreciate your words. Unrequited love is a bitch indeed, and the L word is not something I give out easily. So it was devastating that it didn't work out. Although we don't really know what the future holds for everyone. Yes, it definitely added so much color in my life, and perhaps that was worth the pain.

I've always wanted to share my own experience here but always held back, but here goes:

 

I fell for a Thera once, I already found her attractive and fun from the first session, but as a GM (albeit not very experienced), I know that it was just part of the package. However, she gave me her contact details and we began chatting almost daily. On my 3rd time getting her, she admitted that she likes me and we went out for dinner and I drove her home. We even went out for drinks on a separate occasion. Mahirap magsched ng meet up dahil sa sched niya at sched ko, so mostly we communicate thru text or messenger. I was on cloud 9. I didn't get her again for quite a while as I saw her as more than just a thera, I saw the person underneath. Honestly we never slept together and I felt I didn't need that as long as I had her heart (yes, at the time I assumed that maybe I did). I eventually told her that I loved her. Sadly, I found out she was actually in-love with someone else. But everytime I would not message her she would look for me. She eventually told me that friendship is all she can give. I got her one last time on her last call, no massage nor ES, just talking and then going out after to eat and go places, and I stopped going to ESpa's after because she didn't want me to, not even as her guest.

 

Eventually things got so strained (I got frustrated that I would sometimes get seenzoned, but on other times would get sweet messages and then I found out that she was lying to me about who she was with, etc.) that she told me to forget about her. Twice. But for some reason she would send me a text a few days after. My heart would jump at seeing those messages, but the second time she asked me to forget her, I gave her a piece of my mind and cut off all contact with her, ignoring her messages afterwards. I started going back to other spas and met a thera who I would regularly go back to and who I really value as a friend and a person. Still, after a few months, the thera I fell for and I started talking again, this time as friends.

 

I admit, those moments with her, the messages, were possibly my best moments of last year. Yet, the pain that went along with the whole experience were the worst parts of my year (and I told her as much last New Year). Luckily my work didn't get affected and I recently got a promotion. Sometimes I wonder if it's a blessing to have her in my life, or if it would have been better to have never met her. Who knows where this goes from here, she's a significant part of my life that I don't want to lose, but she also did cause me a lot of pain.

 

I summarized a long story spanning 3-4 months short and just wrote mostly the gist of things. I'm also not going to give details about the thera out of respect for her. I know this probably doesn't compare to most of the stories here, maybe you can even say it's pathetic compared to what some of you experienced with your respective Thera-loves, but it's a story I'd like to contribute here. Falling for a thera can be the best thing that can happen to you if it works out, as it is with love. but it can also be your undoing if it doesn't. I guess it really depends on the GM and the Thera. Happy Sunday guys.

Not knowing if you're being lied to... Again and again. Or if the person even cares for you at all.