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CommissarYardick

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  1. i should really

    face

    up to the fact that you never let me

    down

    even when im a complete

    ass

    and you never give

    up

    on me but dont think

    that's

    all i want to say by

    the way

    something which you know

    i like to

    tell you a lot is that i love you, and i dont give a

    f#&k

    what anyone else may think

     

    :lol::ninja:

  2. Tip lang bro. As you get on with the relationship, never ever put her on a guilt trip about her work. Walang sumbatan ika nga.

     

    If you want sex and she says no. Never say any of these:

    Bakit ayaw mo? Dahil ba walang bayad?

    Or bakit ayaw mo? Diba sanay ka naman humawak niyan araw-araw?

    Or bakit dahil ba walang tip? Eh di magti-tip ako!

     

    This is a scenario I've heard over the years from therapists whose partners are aware of their work. No matter how many times I hear this story, it always breaks my heart. :(

     

    Thanks for the tips sir dibs, thankfully i never bring up her work whenever were together, we only ever talk about it if she initiates with a conversation about it. Also with regards to sex, its never the first thing on my agenda, if i get lucky, then im lucky lol. Luckily, i think her libido is stronger than mine haha :P . I make it a point that even though she works in this industry, i treat her with the respect ahe deserves.

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  3. for me, its hard to fall in love with a spakol therapist. i want my girlfriend to be only mine and not share it with others wink.gifwink.gif

     

    honestly, it doesnt matter to me whether shes a therapist or a teacher or what have you. hell some guys think they have their girlfriends all to themselves when in fact shes even more used than a public restroom. ive already thought about and understood most of the implications and problems that ill be having coming into this, if it doesnt work out then, ill just charge this one to experience. but for the meantime ill just keep on keeping on. these ladies deserve to be loved too, i understand some of them have already been broken in the past that's why theyre in this industry, what bothers me is just how ironic it must be to find love from unfaithful men such as us. (whoever says otherwise needs to look at himself in the mirror) :mellow:

  4. As some of the guys pointed out, there's a similar thread with lots of insights on your situation.

     

    Just keep in mind that there is one undeniable thing: as long as your girl is in the industry, she will have to deal with a lot of men, most of them strangers. Is this something you are open-minded enough to accept?

     

    If you are unwilling or unable to get her off the industry, it will be a source of tension between you two. Even if she says it's just a job, you know there will be some intimate moments with others, limited only by the spa's promos and her self-imposed limits.

     

    And what do you do if you read an FR about her, exaggerated or not? Do you confront her? Or do you suffer privately?

     

    You are in a difficult situation bro, one in which I can relate. Good luck. :)

     

    Thanks for the feedback sir dibs, trust me ive thought about everything you mentioned heavily. Im probably open minded enough already to accept that she is working in this industry, hell i met her within the four walls of the spa. Im not hypocritical enough to ask her to immediately ask her to stop working there. I understand that shes working there for a reason and i know for a fact that given the opportunity shed much rather work somewhere else.

     

    regarding the FRs, its all good with me since its part of the industry already, i even wrote an FR for her. What i find kind of awkward is when GMs pm me for pics or details on the services she offers :wacko:. I try not to think about it so much, but its hard not to lose some sleep over it at the same time.

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  5. The thing is, i only went to her workplace once, all our interaction occurs outside the cubicle, i treat her like how you'd treat your girl normally, i actually find it awkward just thinking that if i do avail of her services at her workplace do i have to hand her a tip? It just doesn't sit well with me. So i try to avoid going to her workplace. And sometimes i dont know if theres anything wrong with me cause im willing to wait almost 3 hours outside just for her to finish with some guests so we can go out for dinner. Its just that im really happy being with her, guess ill just go along while it lasts.

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