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Shizuka

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  1. if it's a pleasant date but it doesnt warrant a part two, a modest kiss on the cheek may warrant it.

     

    if it's a reaaaally enjoyable date and a part two is in the making, a kiss on the lips will sweetly seal the lovely night.

     

    if a meteor zapped thru, earth and sky shook, then, by heavens! it's a full on french!

  2. Argh! R u sure u wanna taste experimental cooking??

     

    Heee hee. Newbie on the block. Few weeks old. No can do without a cook book. Estimates minsan palpak. I dread the time na matalsikan ako ng kumukulong mantika. Preparation Time: 2 hours minimum. Pero edible din naman :lol:

  3. hI Sunflowr!

     

    Nice! I really appreciate ur horoscope outcasts. :)

     

    This latest one fits me to a T!

     

    M currently experimenting with cooking and some other things ;)

     

    And I am trying to head my career in a vertical but almost similar direction.

     

    Positive and enduring outcome...sounds promising!

  4. hey! wonder of wonders! you have a way with words pala.

     

    apparently, your growing up with these strong figures influenced you on your choices.

     

    anyway, they say that what we look for in people are qualities that we hope to have for ourselves...

    said another way, the person you are with complements you...

    to take it further, we choose our partners because they make us look and feel good...

     

    but whatever the reason is, what is important is the space where we, ourselves, are coming from...

    to say that someone is better, is to accept that one is inferior..

    now i don't think that's what you meant, as you said, it must be that these are admirable traits that you see and appreciate in others...

    but to appreciate it in others is to see also that such things reside in us, albeit they may be dormant..

    still, it is within, all it needs is a little nudge, a little nurturance, and voila... a perfect flower coming into full bloom...

     

    kaya naman pag sinabi sa iyong "you're too good for me" -- alam mo na that it's a cop out...

    and that the relationship is over....

     

     

    Amen. Kampai!

  5. Hey thanks for the feedback people.

     

    Your observations could be true.

     

    When i say better, that means I perceive they have any or all these characteristics: They are smarter, more attuned to the ways of the world, more mature in their decisions, more attractive, occupy the higher positions (in the workplace), and generally those who are already worth their beans.

     

    I have been surrounded by dominant, sensible, intelligent men and equally strong, highly opinionated women (it runs in my father's side of the family). Being in my early 20s and one of the youngest of the tribe, these domineering personalities have shaped my preferences, standards, and prejudices.

     

    I have dealt with younger men, men the same as my age, and older men (three to ten years older). All have their good, redeeming qualities. I am actually looking for someone a little better than me, for democracy's sake. But if utopian ideals are concerned, men who are my mirror image (almost or same level as mine) are peppery but not tabasco hot. It might be instinctively evolutionary. An improvement of (my) race. Or just plain admiration for successful people.

  6. I'm on the other side of the coin.

     

    I usually fall for men which I perceive to be better, much better than me. So in most cases I recognize it as another case of unrequited love/admiration/desire. Altho there are times that my generalities prove me wrong ^_^

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