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Joshua Clottey!!! No need to explain.

Wilderness hehehehe!

This is during college days, went to my GF's house to invite her to watch TITANIC, but instead of going out with me, she told me " Break Na tayo!!!!! " So guess what I did after the break up? - Went alone to watch titanic!!! Naka isang baldeng luha yata ako sa sinehan, not because of the bereak up - Nakaka iyak pala ang titanic hehehehehe.

Meron ba dito o kakilala nyo who has a very successful relationship with an MPA, GRO and the likes? I mean they got married, got children, live a normal life after the girl's pasts or anything that ends on a positive note ... Just want to know kasi most of the posts here (if not all) always ends as a traumatic experience if not tragic... Maybe you can change my perspective mga Igan or at least give some hope to those who are planning to dive into this "wonderful affairs"

tanong ko lang mga GM's bakit kelangan pang ibigay sa tin pero in the end d din naman pwede, bakit ba hindi ako mauntog untog at kalimutan sya, dahil siguro mahal na mahal ko sya pero everything is getting complicated na, i dont wanna hurt her pero she's always the one hurting me, lagi na lang nya ko pinapalayo dahil daw me asawa nako, in the first place bakit pa sya na in love sakin dba, ngayon im so lost I LOVE HER SO MUCH I dont wanna let her go, we even plan to go to SG to work there eh pero pabagobago isip nya, nagseselos na sya ke esmi ngayon,pero she doesnt want me dahil me asawa nko, before ok lang sa kanya she once said nga na ok sya as my 2nd wife dahil alam nya naman na mas mahal ko sya eh dko alam please help me

Let me guess bro... The relationship maybe is less than a year? During these period it is understandable that both your emotions are really that strong... Lilipas din yan! after all the hassles, the humps and bumps... ask your self is she really worth all the hassles that you are about to endure, ngayon pa nga lang magulo na di ba? good sex? Madami nyan, its different from finding somebody who will stick with you (like your wife) even through the darkest part of your life... Just enjoy it bro, don't be too emotional, sometimes if not most of the time- it blurs our judgement and it maybe too late before you know it!

As I was back reading some of the posts I've noticed that there are those who are manifesting from what we call "postbreak syndrome" – Mas magandang malagyan natin ng pangalan ito mga bro so wecan address it more specifically.

Now what are the symptoms?

• The depression is usually combined with obsessional thinking. Every song you hear on the radio may remind you of your ex, for example. You may also find yourself going over the relationship over and over again, trying to figure out what went wrong, in spite of the fact that it is already over.
• Some people become very withdrawn for a period of time, while others attempt to immerse themselves in the company of others. Some withdraw from dating altogether for a time, while other people like to sleep around. Some blame their partner, while others blame themselves, or see the breakup as inevitable in retrospect.
• Stages of grief

1. Denial - The person tries to shut out theexperience, pretend it was no big deal or even deny it happened.

2. Anger - Can involve behaviors like blaming theother person, writing nasty letters or being furious with yourself over the endof the relationship.

3. Bargaining - Can actually involve trying to getthe ex back, or it can be more abstract. For example, someone in the bargainingstage might think that if they change, the other person will want them again.Depression can be numbness or very active, vivid misery.

4. Depression - can be numbness or very active,vivid misery.

5. Finally,in acceptance the sufferer learns to accept the breakup, and move on.

"You have to identify where your current stage is"

TIP

• When you are going through any sort of traumatic event, it is important to keep things in perspective. It may feel like you are suffering more acutely than anyone has ever suffered before, that you can never love again and that your life is meaningless without your ex, but these are just feelings. In reality, you are going through something pretty much everyone goes through, and you will get over it, love again and live the rest of your life.

Warning signs:

The most important factor is how much the condition affects your life.If you find yourself dealing with a serious depression where you can't get outof bed, engaging in self-destructive behaviors – Call your nearest psychiatrist!

Trivia: The ratio of male to female is 3:7 and some male prefers males also - There's alot of girls for everyone!

Monday... Well everybody hates it..

If you had a million dollars to give, who would get it? ... and Why...

Hi, hows the road going to sagada? di na ba rough road? how many hours from baguio? when is the best month to go there? Thanks in advance!

I recommend Mandaya hotel, pay less comparing it to apo hotel, rooms are much better than apo ( Smells old na apo) Then night spot of course the famous Aquarium.. Nice place friendly good looking gals..

"Its not you... its me.." (classic break-up)

"Don't call us, we'll call you!" (Classic na di ka natanggap sa trabaho)

Do you have ducati scalpel or juliet? How much? ty

If that happens... men ill make sure she will regret every moment of her succeeding days, hours, minutes! hehehe... just kidding!.. Break up na lang siguro and wish her all the worst este... all the best in life.

or pwedeng you stick with her for awhile and pretend every thing is back to normal and let her feel all the guilt every time she looks into your eyes... (Tingin nyo? - Sadista?)

Well said bro....

The opinion is not generalizing all those wonderful gals; there are those I knew who really fell for their "guests" with "genuine affection", the question is what's next?

For quite sometimes the relationship is like sunbathing in Cancun, we feel an exceptional bliss, our machismo is fulfilled, ego is fed by friends who envy us for having this hot, nice chick ready to be banged as we please, then suddenly the tides has changed, you can no longer submit to her demands, she does not return your calls or even dared to ask how's your day honey? She doesn'twant to see you unless you "pay" a visit to her work.

It's all because these wonderful gals has their expectations that needsto be fulfilled, and along the way they look forward that somehow their genuineaffection will be reciprocated by alleviating their plight; Fair enough 'coz that's the mainreason why they work there.

The next question is… are we ready to go on to a relationship like this? Are you ready to carry her excess baggage, her hang ups? To step up to her obligation… To forget and accept her colorful past… The everyday paranoia of both facts and imagined circumstances…

If the answer isyes! Great … If not, then it becomes a catastrophe waiting to happen…

The topic isfalling in love with these gals… The thrills, excitement, the bliss are all unexplainable! For me once you are into this stage it doesn't matter how you play your cards, what matters is how you lay down your cards and how well she has accepted it.

Cheers bro!

"Don't let yoursource of inspiration becomes your well of frustrations"

Falling in love to those wonderful girls is like playing baccarat in a casino – the odds of winning are very slim and most of the time you will lose! We cannot blame those gals who took us for a ride because we allowed ourselves to be dragged intoa fantasy of boy meets girl and they lived happily ever after, a fallacy maybe.

Weare fully aware why they are into that kind of business, where they have to block their emotions, fake their reactions, submit to our satisfaction and pleasures, makes us the center of their world for about 1 ½ hour (heheheh…if you are that lucky) ,and of course the brutal truth is those interactions are scripted (Ouch!)… But for most of us the authenticity of illusion is sometimes enough (ouch again!)

In their eyes we are predators and they are our prey and they knew that they'll be ok as long as they submit themselves to our demands. The scenario is drastically overturned once our emotion eventually over powered us; the predatornow becomes the prey and its payback time!

Then why still go to those places? For me, I will say that it came with no strings attached and just pure pleasure, with not much talk and no pretense of phony love and courting and the likes.

stick to the plan...