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I suggest na don't force yourself to get over it in a week or in a month nang ganun-ganun lang. It's not easy, specially if the cut was too deep. Let yourself hurt. Cry if it hurts. Keep on crying and letting it out. One day mapapagod ka din nang kakaiyak at kakaisip ng mga gusto mo itanong or malaman pa. Kasi when you start healing, you'll just wake up and feel nothing at all. Or it doesn't hurt as hell anymore. Yung hindi na yun ang una mong maiisip. Walang pattern or tamang timeline sa healing. Mahirap din kasi na pilitin mo sarili mo magheal, when in reality hindi pa pala talaga OK. You'll end up fooling yourself. And don't do rebounds... You'll only drag another person into your trauma or still existing pain. Do not close your doors, but don't try to use other people din. I remember yung isang ex ko nun, took me 4 years. There's this guy I've been seeing. We were physically into each other, and he kept on asking if "kami na ba?" And I keep saying na hindi pa ako OK to jump into one. Then one day, I woke up na OK na ako. Na hindi na ako affected by any of that past. Naaalala ko, yes, but it didn't hurt like it used to. Actually there was no pain na, not even a single tear. So I accepted the new guy na.
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Someone who is INSENSITIVE. I guess this one covers quite a lot of grounds. It's not manning up to your own words. It's not being respectful of other at all.
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Pattern after magsorry, 1 week edition.
First 3 days, de-sundo.
Next naman na 2 days, meet halfway.
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And I just sent him teasing pics and vids... I don't normally do it, but I could go on spoiling him with it.
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Write A Note To Your Younger Self
sOin2you replied to chipmaker's topic in Religion, Philosophy & Personal Reflection
There's one part of my life that I would have changed, given the chance. Yes, I regret it. And I'd say to my younger self not to have entertained that one person. -
In some cases... When you ask the guy kung wife-material or girlfriend-material ba ang hanap nya, kadalasan ang sagot wife-material. Pero kapag ayun na and wife-material mode, aatras. Biglang may commitment issue sya. Kasi ang totoo, wife-material ang gusto nya, pero yung kaya nyang icommit is hanggang girlfriend-material mode lang. Tendency magloloko or maghahanap ng iba.
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For me, parang all of the above ang Love Language ko. A lot on act of service, like pinagluluto and inaalagaan talaga. Next would be touchy. Mahilig ako amuyin yung likod and neck, kahit pa pawis na pawis.
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Ang sakit kapag alam naman nya yung makakasakit sayo or magpapaiyak sayo, pero ginagawa pa din nya.
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Who / What Made You Smile Today?
sOin2you replied to clandestinecuddles's topic in Matters of the heart
The pros and cons of letting your guy watch reruns of Sex and the City. -
We can't always reason out that men are polygamous. We can't, coz we don't want to normalize it. I hope it stays at the back as a joke, rather than a reason to justify why there's another party involved. Another is that, kung sana hindi alam nung another party na in a relationship pala or married yung naka-involve nya, pwede mo pa sana isipin na victim lang sya. Nadamay sa kalokohan. Pero kapag alam nya na hands-off na, pero tinuloy pa din, ibang usapan na yun. Tapos maiinis pa sya kasi chinecheck out daw yung profile nya, blah blah blah. Pero sya naman pala unang nagpakilala at pinaalam na sya yun. Hindi na nga tinanong kung sino sya, kaya lang naglike pa sya kasi dun sa isang photo na walang ibang naglike, kahit pa kaibigan nga nung nagpost. So isn't that a way ng pagpapakilala? Sa kanya ka magmakaawa kasi sya ang pumili na bitiwan ka.
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Bago ka pa tanungin or iconfront ng babae, nagresearch na yan at may sapat na evidence. Kaya nga sabi nila, umamin ka na lang.Â
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5 Breakups and A Romance .. A movie that you'd think na mababaw or that alam mo na yung flow. Pero ang totoo, ayaw mo syang panoorin kasi either tatamaan ka or iuuntog ka.
Kung gago ka, pero ayaw mo mawala partner mo sayo, hindi mo gugustuhin na mapanood nya yung parts nito na uuntog sa kanya.
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Date Schedule for the Love Month:
February 13, para sa mga illegal jowa. (At least nauna syang i-date, hindi nga lang sakto ng Feb 14).
February 14, para sa legal na jowa. (Syempre papahalata ka ba na may illegal?)
February 15 onwards, para sa ibang illegal na jowa.
Kapag nagreklamo si illegal jowa dahil hindi sya nai-date, sagot na lang is, "I hope you understand." 😅
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Remind lang hah .. Valentine's Day ngayon, hindi New Year's Eve .. Hinay-hinay sa paputok 🤫
