topsykretts

competitive

if it's not broken, don't fix it.

holds true for work and relationships.

met my wife in a music training-workshop.

sweat in the gym, hit a big bag to de stress. sleep.

mtc gives you that space to be yourself

would it make relationships simpler if people can have open relationships, in and out of marriage? "cheating" and "playing around" are arbitrary labels used in a typical relationship where sense of ownership of the partner dominates. this is especially true for "trophy partners". yung mga pinag hirapang ligawan, suyuin, crush ng bayan, etc. besides, in this society, the dominant male seems to get away with "playing around" while all hell will break lose if women do so.

problem with most relationships is that individuality ceases to exist once you're into it. we seem to forget that there was "me" and "you" before "us". that shouldn't change. open relationships require a paradigm shift though, which most of us aren't willing to risk.

To some extent, I subscribe to the option for divorce as a lot of couples marry for the wrong reasons. When your gf gets pregnant, marriage is not the solution. Giving birth and being responsible for your actions are more than enough. Some marry for wealth (yes, wealth!). When marriage turns sour beyond salvation, couples hurt each other emotionally, psychologically or most often physically. Wonder why there's a lot of wife battering cases? Even if the wife turns black and blue more frequently than a regular boxer, she will stay on because its sacred and their bound to it. Blame church and society for instilling such a myopic understanding? There should be a way out.

If your partner "cheats" on you, there's something wrong with your relationship and you're a party to it somehow. There's a recourse though to such a marital problem: polyamorphy. Why hide it if you can have it with consent? It's not for everyone though. Society frowns on the deviants.

kiss my wife and kids and see what's for dinner. typical.

listen to good music, go to the gym, hit a big bag (not necessarily in that order).