Thomas Durnst

Short Read about Lord Tom

Learned Life and got a dose of intimate interaction at the early age of 8 and curiosity grew closer and closer till my teenage life. This also brought me to be highly matured than my age, my life's experiences was like taking the elevator rather than the stairs and moving back and forth from different countries and living there to me different cultures and life experiences at the same time. Convinced to live life to the fullest at the young age of 16 manage to do and learn business at this prime age, slept 5-6 hours a day and studied, partied, and worked at the same time. Starting young gave me the edge over life and getting laid during my teenage years was easy as 1 2 3. High School came and getting laid was like a walk in park, and In Ivy League I pushed the envelop to the edge starting to experiment and studying various types and forms of intimacy also did my research on the science behind the female physique and mentality. Post teenage days, I have Mastered the art of Seduction quickly gaining scores and becoming the first GURU that came from the Philippines (F.Y.I. in case you don't know what "SEDUCTION" means in the alternative lifestyle world go here http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/) and frequented Fetish Clubs. Post Grad and Entrepreneurship, I have quickly scored a racking 509 and finally did finish my Seduction checklist, from here on in I literally got bored, it was just like routine to the point that I mastered the control over my Urges and can prolong my peak till I want to, yes... till I want to and often rejects invites and proposals, There is a limit to everything, believe me I thought getting the knowledge and living life like a porn star was a dream come true, but this is an experience I am not proud of, in the end we are just beings longing for companionship, and to put it simply intimacy is a way of communicating our inner desires and emotions, fetishes are like our beliefs of faith, we have different beliefs and religious faith to put it simply, Fetish is like finding an intimate religion that best suites you. It is an art and a science of sex. And in the end eventually I searched for that "ONE" in my life that can share my same passions and ideals both intimately and personally.

Update of me as of 3/24/2011

As of 3/24/2011, I am in Manila. I occasionally still revisit my past and still do occasional encounters. I also speak and help others even females, to learn what life and relationship has to offer and what real and deeper intimacy is, as a part time private/ personal consultant.. Yes, I can turn Nerds into Pick- Up Seduction artists, but this is not for everyone, there are rules and even tests to see if it suites an individuals qualities and mental discipline. For if you share this knowledge with every perverted individual; it's like giving a kid dynamite. This is not for perverts, abusers, tools, assholes, and people that has no respect or regards to the intimate lifestyle, but rather this is for an individual to find and explore their peak intimate emotions and desires to enable them to learn the life lesson of social interaction and find their own intimate religion. it's a study and science of human social interactions and emotions and to condition and harness the full potential and confidence of an individual. In the process learning what you more about yourself, what you can be and who you are. After all, sexual or intimate freedom will show you the way to your full potential as a functioning human being. That is why every man's goal ,and even to some women at a young age, sexual knowledge or experience is one of their goals to accomplish. Majority of the people in the world and specially here in our country lack the knowledge and I believe that sexual frustration is a key factor in an individuals' mental growth, thank God! for the RH Bill Yes again! I did all that and then some and currently I'm just 25. I'm coming out with a Seduction Book and Auto-Bio soon and I hope to share it in this commune.

My Short Life with MTC

I started visiting MTC at the tender age of 18 and quickly getting to know and learning room older people. I met Bizman once and Invite a couple of MTC pioneers like Mamush, Knight, etc. for bowling at my family's club @ Rockwel. Then attended an MTC supported premiere of The Matrix Reloaded. Sadly, this ws the last time I will ever be with MTC , due to a lot of my work constraints and me wanting to study more I had to choose to search for my soul first and earn and finish my goal which is to earn an x amount of funds and to master my seduction and learn more about the Fetish Lifestyle. I'm kinda back in a way to share knowledge and experiences here, I owe it to the people here at MTC that made this all possible. Though we can never really bring the past back, we can only learn for what it left us. Times are changing here, but we are still young!

Tom is a and an

Free Spirited, Artist, Extrovert, Neat, Clean, D&D Free, True, Straight to The Point, Cultured, Experienced, Gentleman's Gentleman, Top Class, Young Entrepreneur, Business Minded, Sociable, Confident, Well Mannered, Matured, Educated (I hold Three Degrees), Bold, Tattooed, Deep, Spontaneous, Cool, Patient, Confident, Open Minded, Well-Versed, Respected, Loved By Most (Women) Envied by Many (Men), Hardcore, Solid, Committed, Hard to Get, and Yes, I am a God Fearing Individual.

Work Stuff & Activities

I am an Artist, Activist, Producer, MMA Fighter, Weapons Enthusiast, Surfer, Vintage Car Collector, Movie Archiving, Very Young Entrepreneur, I own Various Companies and Businesses (Realty, Brokeage Firm, Resort Shares, Food Industry, Independent Films, Service Industry, Bars & Clubs. Youngest to be featured on a local business magazine) Like I always say "Work Harder, Party Hardest!!!"

Alternative Lifestyle I Enjoy.

I'm a Real Time AAA Grade Dom Master (9 Years EXP), I Like Fem Fetish Slaves, BDSM Kittens, Into a Wider Sense of BDSM (Done Almost Everything there is to the Domination Context and have attended at least three Fetish & Pimp & Hoes Ball, Open Minded (would try anything once), Outfits (Latex, Vinyls, Corsets and such), Have done various Private Swingers, "Social Gatherings", and have started at least two Private Fetish Clubs, Last but not least, A Real Life Seduction Guru (Coming Out W/ a Book Soon) for the Sake of Seduction Brothers Out There My Score is 509 Accompanied Proof by Pics & Vids and My Own Seduction Portfolio.

My Stand On Religion and Intimacy or Sex

My parents are very devout Christians and I have studied and looked for a religion for me and to tell you this I believe in God based on proof and evidence that he existed is it is not what the religion is, but how strong one's commitment to your respective FAITH is. I have read both Catholic and KJV Bibles and here's an opinion very well said:

What Is Loving Intimacy

Loving intimacy is the social, emotional, spiritual and physical sharing of oneself with a partner in ways which create closeness, honest communications and communion. Intimacy involves the sharing of deep feeling (not necessarily verbal) through tactile (touch) and visual stimulation, using our bodies as well as spirits to comfort and pleasure one another. This intimacy has value in itself and may or may not lead to erotic activity.

Some Thoughts On Dealing With Sexual Fear and Guilt Which Inhibits Intimacy

The ideas of fear, guilt and punishment appeared several times in the examples of inhibitions we mentioned. A lot could be said about these elements, especially from a Christian point of view. Something else involved here that may be originally Christian, although it may appear in various forms in the emotional life of our culture, is the issue of forgiveness. We won't go into these ideas in terms of Christian belief except to say that it is God himself who makes us sexual and causes us to seek sexual intimacy; consequently the fear and guilt we feel is not from God. Nor is God the source of the punishment or disapproval we feel from others, whether from parents, preachers, pastors, leaders priests, popes or others.

There is no need for forgiveness if the behavior is not against the law of love that we talk about in our biblical discussions. We are not abnormal or sinful simply because we want to explore and experience non-abusive sexual expression. So, we must understand that if that kind of exploration is or has been our intent or practice, whether conscious and deliberate or subconscious (as is especially true for children and youth), then we need not worry about God's punishment and we can begin a healing process from the punishment or disapproval of parents or others.

What The Bile Teaches About Sex On My Opinion

God made us sexual (Genesis 1-2). We are to follow the law of love in sexual matters, as in all else. Romans 13:8-10: "Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. The commandments, 'You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; you shall not covet'; and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' Loves does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law."

We are not to covet or steal another person's partner (adultery). (But this has nothing to do with either having a sexual fantasy about another person's partner nor with sharing sexually with another partner with agreement and permission.)

We are not to engage in sexual practices that are harmful or abusive, physically, emotionally or spiritually, to anyone else or to ourselves i.e. we are to be loving (Romans 13 again). This, incidentally, could be called the theological basis of Liberated Christians' one rule: "No" means 'no".

What the Bible Doesn't Teach About Sex or Intimacy.

There is no prohibition on what we know as premarital sex, post-marital sex or extra-marital sex among consenting partners. There is no prohibition on adolescent or teenage sexual sharing. Here it is the responsibility of parents to properly instruct their children about how to love and how to live responsibly. There are no grounds in the Bible for teaching sexual abstinence as a unique litmus test for spiritual "purity", as traditional Christianity has done throughout the centuries. While there is, of course, such a thing as sexual sin, i.e. abusive, selfish, unloving sexual attitudes or actions, there is no special or unusual emphasis on sexual sin in the Bible as there has been in historic Christianity.

Some Conclusions On Sexuality And Intimacy

It can be reasonably concluded that the sexual ethic of traditional Christianity is an artificial, repressive and legalistic ethic which ignores both our God-given natures and the law of love. Thus, this ethic is an abusive ethic in its basic nature which hurts rather than heals people. It is also an ineffective ethic which does not even accomplish its intended purpose of sexual repression, but rather drives sexual expression underground and into the shadows of ignorance. It is an ethic which is based on misinterpretation and false application of the biblical text and on cultural and philosophical biases imported into Christian teaching from other sources. The driving of sexual expression underground by religious repression is at least part of the stimulus to the ignorance, irresponsible behavior and tease and titillation which characterize our society. It is the viewing of sexuality in these ways that has prevented the learning of true intimacy, even in partnerships which may experience great sex.

With all that said, this will be the truest I ever spoke... YES! I am taken and still living the ALT life, after all things have been said and done, in the end one will always and still look out for the one worth living for.

Feel free to hit me up with a PM for shout out's, greeting, advice, consultancy services, help, rants, death threats, debates, and what not....

Love, Sex, Intimacy, Fetish= Happiness and Freedom!!!

All the above mentioned are copyrighted and protected.