grayle

I'm a person who loves creativity. I love coming up with great ideas and I love seeing people come up with it. I'm a laid back person that enjoys the occasional debate on current events, politics, or the environment. I'm not perfect, nor do I expect anyone else to be. I'm very abrasive and edgy to anyone I don't know well, but people who know me know what a softy I am. I can be very hard to convince once I have an idea in my head, specially if I came up with the idea myself.

I don't believe in love at first sight. I'd like to though. It's just that I've never experienced it. I'm protective of my family, but being the only child I am also fiercely independent. I can be a loose cannon, and it takes a special girl with the right blend of courage, perseverance, and understanding to keep me in check. I am a very warm and affectionate guy, and some women (and men, don't ask) have accused me of being uncomfortably touchy.

I believe that physical intimacy is an important part of a relationship, but it is only a part. There are many other things that I consider important to me, especially when looking for that special girl that I plan to spend the rest of my life with. Do I have high standards? Only as high as the standards I put on myself. I believe in the sanctity of marriage. I promised myself, my family, and God that if I did get married, it would be for keeps, and I intend to follow through on that.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being single, some of my close friends think I enjoy it too much. In my opinion, it's better to make all the mistakes when your single or even if your just in a relationship, rather than making them when your married and hurting not just the wife but the kids as well. I know myself and I know what I am worth, if this scares you and you think your not going to meet my standards, then you probably wont.

In everything and anything, I respect honesty and integrity over all.