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both, obviously. sex is what makes you choose the most attractive partner. and love is what makes you stay.

think of it like a cellphone. every year theres a new cellphone model, and its always better and more more beautiful than the old model.

but some people get attached to their phone. and even if its an old model, they love it because it has served them well or it has sentimental value.

so love and sex work kinda the same way.

sexual attraction is what makes you choose the best partner. if youre buying a new phone you will always choose the best phone.

you will never get a cherry mobile if you can get an iphone.

love is what makes you stay. its like having a sentimental attachment to your old phone.

if you dont love your old phone then you would be upgrading your phone every year.

so in a relationship you would also be changing partners alot, because theres always someone younger, prettier, or sexier.

and thats why you really need both love and sex in order to make a relationship work.

falling in love is a choice. many people say you fall in love at first sight. sorry but thats stupid. you are attracted at first sight, thats not love. you cant love someone you dont know. and to know someone you have to get close. and getting close is a choice, therefore love is a choice.

falling in love is like fcking. you see a super hot girl, your dcik might get instantly hard, and thats not your fault. but if you wana fcuk her then you have to decide to take pants off. she has to decide to slide her panties down. theres no such thing as oh siht i tripped and accidentally inserted my dcik into your psusy. fcking is no accident, just like falling in love is not an accident. love is a decision, its a choice.

if youre already married, then you should stay the fcuk away from girls that attract you. you are an idiot if you dont.

anyway sige if nandyan ka na, in love ka na... its not too late. just stay away. avoid her like she has the plague. dont see her, dont contact her, and dont answer if she contacts you. no messages, texts, calls, smoke signals, nothing. just completely ignore her as if she doesnt exist. stay away. eventually the feeling will die.

the feeling will die faster if you look for someone else. but i dont recommend you do that, because youre not in the right mind, and you will likely jump from one bad relationship to another bad relationship.

if you both want to settle down and are looking for a serious relationship, then i think its okay.

from my observation, the office romances that tend to go horribly wrong are the non serious relationships.

naka kulot ng daliring paa when i explode in my girl's mouth and she still keeps sucking, licking, and wont let go

if she has cough or fever. baka covid na yan

sure. why not?

to me, any woman who isn't married is fair game.

if she's married, then it depends. I would keep my distance. but if she approaches me, then she's also fair game.

I am not irresistible, and i never force anyone, not even when they're drunk. if she doesn't like me she is free to walk away.

all you jealous boyfriends and husbands, let that sink in for a moment. if she cheats on you, that's not the fault of the 3rd party.

anyone who tells you to follow your passion is giving you bad advice. you should make a career out of something you are good at, not passionate about.

if you are both passionate and good at something, then that's perfect, but thats rare. usually its one or the other, not both.

often you are passionate about something, but not good at it. if you dont believe me just watch the elimination rounds of american idol.

the contestants are so passionate about singing and they are super confident in their ability... then you hear them sing and its awful.

they get crushed when the judges tell them the truth. some contestants even get angry because they are so deluded they dont believe what the judge is saying.

Got a disc bulge in my LE lumbar L3-5 according sa MRI result. Im now 27 yr old. May pag asa paba bumalik sa dating healthy disc?

with therapy and strengthening, you can stop bulge from getting worse. but bulge will never go back.

jarius bondoc

12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan B. Peterson

you want to solve the traffic problem within 1 month? its easy.

just remove ALL the special privileges of politicians and their families. walang vip treatment. make them go through life like the rest of us ordinary citizens.

make them wait through hours and hours of gridlocked traffic.

make them line up at LTO to renew their license, line up to get their nbi clearance, line up at DFA to get their passports,

line up at city hall to get business permits, line up to NSO to get birth certificates, and so on....

politicians dont know and dont care because they dont have to suffer like we do.

make them experience our pain and i guarantee you, solve lahat ng problems natin within 1 month.

if you are happy with what you are doing, then that makes it right.

I used to have a gf in my work but one time we just fell out of love.

We decided to give space to each other while we assess our feelings.

However, she moved on very fast and soon had a new lover.

 

I knew I still love her but I am quite sure she doesn't feel the same way to me anymore, so I had to let go.

I started having panic attacks whenever I see her and my work was slowly getting affected.

 

I decided to seek help from a professional/therapist about my anxiety.

She really helped me a lot to get back on track and soon I am back on my feet.

She is in her mid 30s, single mom, and quite pretty and well-maintened body.

I started to feel attraction to her but I am trying to fight it as I know it's unethical.

I still visit her from time to time.

For now, I just enjoy her company whenever I have the chance and let things fall to where it should fall.

this is super super common. it happens when a person is starved of attention, they overestimate the feelings of anyone who gives it to them. like if you haven't eaten in days, the first food you eat even if its just ordinary food, will feel like the best cuisine in the world. they already have a name for it in psychiatry, its called transference and countertransference.

if your therapist is any good, she should immediately recognize this and nip it at the bud. yes it is unethical, but regardless of the ethics, its a stupid idea and should be avoided.

its also the same reason many rebound relationships fail. coming out of a bad relationship, a person's judgement compass is damaged. so what tends to happen is the person jumps from one bad relationship to another.

and by the way... of course your therapist is giving you attention, you are paying her to do it! if you want to test if feelings are real, its very easy. just stop paying her and see in a few months if she still treats you the same way.

 

Sabihin mo yan kay Bam Aquino - yung author ng Free Tuition Law.

no need to tell Bam. he knows this.

according to wikipedia: "Bam Aquino graduated summa cum laude with a Bachelor of Science degree in Management Engineering [at Ateneo de Manila university]. He took an Executive Education Program on Leadership and Public Policy, at the Kennedy School of Government in the Harvard University."

ateneo na, harvard pa.

the big question is... do the voters and taxpayers know this?

you dont need an advanced degree to understand "free" tuition. you just need common sense.

nothing is free. teachers need to be paid. suppliers of school materials need to be paid. electricity and water need to be paid.

free tuition only means the students dont pay for it, someone else will pay it for them. who will pay? the government will pay. where will the government get the money?

eh di siyempre from taxpayers.

this is a funny topic because nothing is free. Teachers dont work for free, teaching materials are not free, lights, electric fan, water, etc.

if you dont pay tuition, who is going to pay for all this? obviously its going to come from tax payers. in other words, lahat ng akala mo free babalik parin sa iyo (or sa parents mo). if the government borrows money to finance expenses, then damay pati your children and grandchildren. in the end, you are gona pay for it. nothing is free.

the answer is obvious. she compensates in other ways. maybe she's super smart, funny, kind, or rich.

physically she can also compensate. more skills, more daring, nicer pu$$y, or bigger b00bs.

i had an ex gf who was ugly. as in really panget. i would rate her 1 or 2 out 10 in looks.

but she had the nicest pu$$y ever and her blowjobs would make my toes curl...its freakin' epic.

even when the relationship wasnt working out anymore, it was so hard to let go (pun intended).

confident, smart, willing, and available. thats all you really need if you know how to use it.

how safe is body to body service in SPA? can u get HIV or other diseases through that kind of act?

hiv no. but you can get hpv and herpes by skin contact.

men are easy. alot of good sex and good food.

baka naman may way para matarget lang ang specific areas where to lose fat?

sa alam ko wala. where you tend to store fat is genetic, same is true when you burn fat. targeted exercises benefit the muscle in that area, but not fat. for example if you do lots of crunches, you will tone your abs. but you wont see that 8 pack if its covered with fat, so you also need to do a fat burning exercise in addition to crunches to reveal the 8 pack underneath.

 

Get pregnant. The best natural way of enhancing your mammary glands.

but that way is temporary. when you stop breast feeding your boobs will shrink back to normal. its gona look a bit bigger from ptosis (sagging) due to loss of elasticity. but you didnt really make it bigger, you just changed the shape.

I know this is about breast but I cant help but ask if the same is true for penis enlargement med/cream

admins, feel free to delete if bawal.

 

 

breast or penis enlargement meds are scams. they dont work. only way is surgery. but surgery is not a good idea. its better to be happy with what you have.

ive done it already so many times. why not? i am not irresistible. she is an adult and she is free to decide. i cannot take her if she doesnt want to be taken. common sense lang di ba?

di na ulitin, i promise

soulmate no. i think your key can open many locks (or your lock can be opened by many keys hehe). it just depends on the timing, when you are ready and who you meet.

huwag ka torpe, para walang what if. if you like a girl, go for it. if busted ka, eh di busted, at least you tried. or you went for it and got her, but it didnt work out. but if you dont try, then youll never know, and thats when you feel regret later.

don't think, just follow your heart