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Poll: Giving Another Chance

Would you give another chance to your high school ex knowing you are both single?

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#1 Hellmarch

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 10:32 AM


Hi guys and girls

I once had an ex for over 5years we were really just highschool sweet hearts we didn't have an officially "we are over" kinda separation

She went on to be a celebrity in valiente and I went to college we never see each other

It's been almost 18 years I just checked FB and since I know her complete name I searched for her and to my delight she is a single mom

Still very active in the show biz industry

I was hesitant at first but I PmMd her anyway and she remembers me we chatted for 3 hours

Now my dilemma is this if given a chance would you do it or not?


Thanks mod :)


Edited by FleurDeLune, 15 April 2019 - 10:50 AM.


#2 Hellmarch

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 10:59 AM

Thanks mod just to add cellphone wasn't a really a thing during 1990's so it was just landline most of the time when she became a celebrity they moved houses we never really had a good bye

We just happen to have different priorities

But now we are just on the getting to know each other phase again

I'm assuming you're looking for a long term relationship...
what considerations are running through your thoughts right now?
what are your "non-compromise"?
i think if there is nothing that cannot meet your non-compromise (eg religion)
go for it ü


Well to start off I have more baggage but the thing is she didn't even mention that
It's just that maybe I don't have that confidence anymore because the situation is different

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 11:04 AM

I just added a poll for any one who wants to cast their vote on the 'issue' at hand.



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Posted 15 April 2019 - 11:06 AM

Reason why I ask this to be created to also other members of the community if they had the same experience and would love to hear how was it at this point I still don't know my confidence was shot just 7 months ago

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 11:51 AM

Well let's just say am still technically married and she isn't so that's a start :)

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 12:03 PM

Given the scenario, its not a good idea to rekindle an old flame unless you are either legally separated or annulled. Otherwise, there would be complications not unless you wanted to have a relationship with her in secret.

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 12:16 PM

Well at this point am still hesitant because of a lot of factors I want to make sure if I enter into another relationship no more shenanigans what do ever

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 12:58 PM

what do you want with her anyway?
what chance are you talking about?

friends?
fubu?
relationship?
additional baby?

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 01:07 PM

At this point again I don't know I am not that sure if I want a relationship . And specially not a fubu

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 07:54 PM

At this point again I don't know I am not that sure if I want a relationship . And specially not a fubu

 

 

IMHO, you have some things you have to straighten out

 

straighten those out first, then pursue if you must



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Posted 15 April 2019 - 07:59 PM

We have 4 yes votes care to share your thoughts or experience regarding the same scenario

IMHO, you have some things you have to straighten out
 
straighten those out first, then pursue if you must


Yes am on the process of doing that plus she is a celebrity am just me so when we were in highschool I was hmmmm a writer in school's journal she was always alone mataray sya but had the guts to talk to her my confidence was oozing because I believe in myself now though it's more of finding myself first

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 08:02 PM

We have 4 yes votes care to share your thoughts or experience regarding the same scenario


Yes am on the process of doing that plus she is a celebrity am just me so when we were in highschool I was hmmmm a writer in school's journal she was always alone mataray sya but had the guts to talk to her my confidence was oozing because I believe in myself now though it's more of finding myself first

 

 

her being a celebrity kinda complicates things, but it should not be a hindrance to get to know her, and pursue

 

after all, who you are pursuing is not the celeb, but the person

 

good luck, Hellmarch



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Posted 15 April 2019 - 08:05 PM

her being a celebrity kinda complicates things, but it should not be a hindrance to get to know her, and pursue
 
after all, who you are pursuing is not the celeb, but the person
 
good luck, Hellmarch


Thanks for dropping by panda I really appreciate it well all I have is her messenger I didn't even add her or ask for her number she told me about what happened and she is very happy now but she never got married

It was just probably a friendly chat I didn't led her in she didn't initiate anything either
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Posted 15 April 2019 - 08:31 PM

Yes .. everyone deserves another chance

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Posted 15 April 2019 - 08:59 PM

Thanks for dropping by panda I really appreciate it well all I have is her messenger I didn't even add her or ask for her number she told me about what happened and she is very happy now but she never got married

It was just probably a friendly chat I didn't led her in she didn't initiate anything either

 

 

that's good then, just let the flow take you where you will



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Posted 17 April 2019 - 04:02 PM

Thank you MTC. Thank you that my husband left his old phone. Being the the pakielamera wife(havent checked hubby's phone for a long time now, when I did Booommm!) I saw MTC in his browser.
Then boom.. saw his inquiries.
I wasnt sure if that acct was his.. it has a code name. I was stupid enough to ask.. if that acct was his. Then while browsing, suddenly I got kicked out of his acct, bec he changed his password. Change the email acct was associated with, changed display name. I am good in hacking so I was still able to read all his FRs
He went home right away after knowing that I found out his dirty secrets. He left work and went home trying to appease me. Then he slowly tell me the truth. Even the excruciating details I had to dig it in. It was a month of digging and digging.
My heart is broken..
I feel like I am the ugliest woman in the world.
He has been asking for forgiveness.. doing his best to court me. We even tried to enroll in marriage encounters. He is doing his best.. but am totally hurting.
Tell me...why should I give another chance to a guy who has been to spakol for 5 times?
His visits were
1. Nuru
2 and 3. BJ/NPD/Shower together
4. HJ
5. BJ/NPD/**DATY**/B2B/Shower together




How long have youve been together is this your final decision do you have kids?

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Posted 17 April 2019 - 04:50 PM

I am very sorry. I think I shouldn't have posted here... hehe I back read the topic sorry to override.
I just really want to understand guys who go to places like this. I want to understand their motivation deeper, so I can understand my husband.
If this is the final decision, I am still confused if I want to give him a chance or not.
I am trying to be as open minded as possible.
Pero mashaket talaga hehe :P
How long we've been together?
13yrs(7yrs bf/gf + 6yrs living together), with 1 beautiful kid.
Thank you for your reply. Heheh



Talk communication is key doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore

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Posted 17 April 2019 - 11:36 PM

Hi guys and girls
I once had an ex for over 5years we were really just highschool sweet hearts we didn't have an officially "we are over" kinda separation
She went on to be a celebrity in valiente and I went to college we never see each other
It's been almost 18 years I just checked FB and since I know her complete name I searched for her and to my delight she is a single mom
Still very active in the show biz industry
I was hesitant at first but I PmMd her anyway and she remembers me we chatted for 3 hours
Now my dilemma is this if given a chance would you do it or not?
Thanks mod :)

I read your profile thread and I should call you tatay. Tay, it's better if you will focus on your children than another woman with sons and daughters, unless both of you evolved from a dog.

As you can see, our canine friends are like that. A male dog gets a female which already bore puppies. In fact, that stud is also a father to some little doggies as well, hehe. In return, that bitch still chooses Bruno or Bantay as a partner.

Maybe, your pwet is kinikilig or you still want to feel the term "LOVE?" 🤔


Thank you MTC. Thank you that my husband left his old phone. Being the the pakielamera wife(havent checked hubby's phone for a long time now, when I did Booommm!) I saw MTC in his browser.
Then boom.. saw his inquiries.
I wasnt sure if that acct was his.. it has a code name. I was stupid enough to ask.. if that acct was his. Then while browsing, suddenly I got kicked out of his acct, bec he changed his password. Change the email acct was associated with, changed display name. I am good in hacking so I was still able to read all his FRs
He went home right away after knowing that I found out his dirty secrets. He left work and went home trying to appease me. Then he slowly tell me the truth. Even the excruciating details I had to dig it in. It was a month of digging and digging.
My heart is broken..
I feel like I am the ugliest woman in the world.
He has been asking for forgiveness.. doing his best to court me. We even tried to enroll in marriage encounters. He is doing his best.. but am totally hurting.
Tell me...why should I give another chance to a guy who has been to spakol for 5 times?
His visits were
1. Nuru
2 and 3. BJ/NPD/Shower together
4. HJ
5. BJ/NPD/**DATY**/B2B/Shower together

Not to give a chance or else, the f**ker will do it again 😅

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Posted 18 April 2019 - 02:38 PM

Thank you MTC. Thank you that my husband left his old phone. Being the the pakielamera wife(havent checked hubby's phone for a long time now, when I did Booommm!) I saw MTC in his browser.
Then boom.. saw his inquiries.
I wasnt sure if that acct was his.. it has a code name. I was stupid enough to ask.. if that acct was his. Then while browsing, suddenly I got kicked out of his acct, bec he changed his password. Change the email acct was associated with, changed display name. I am good in hacking so I was still able to read all his FRs
He went home right away after knowing that I found out his dirty secrets. He left work and went home trying to appease me. Then he slowly tell me the truth. Even the excruciating details I had to dig it in. It was a month of digging and digging.
My heart is broken..
I feel like I am the ugliest woman in the world.
He has been asking for forgiveness.. doing his best to court me. We even tried to enroll in marriage encounters. He is doing his best.. but am totally hurting.
Tell me...why should I give another chance to a guy who has been to spakol for 5 times?
His visits were
1. Nuru
2 and 3. BJ/NPD/Shower together
4. HJ
5. BJ/NPD/**DATY**/B2B/Shower together



well we have the same story! hahaha.
good thing he was sorry! mine wasnt! he still do it and i dont mind anymore.
i dont sleep with him anymore and i now a have a gentleman fubu .

dont give the f**ker a chance to hurt you again. He will do it again and again

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Posted 19 April 2019 - 02:09 AM

well we have the same story! hahaha.
good thing he was sorry! mine wasnt! he still do it and i dont mind anymore.
i dont sleep with him anymore and i now a have a gentleman fubu .
dont give the f**ker a chance to hurt you again. He will do it again and again



Wow talk about getting even

As for me I am afraid to enter into another relationship because I might lose again that I may not bear it anymore




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