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#161 mai0789

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Posted 21 April 2019 - 01:00 PM

It works, I've been in one for 5 years now. Constant communication and Trust lang talaga :)

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Posted 21 April 2019 - 04:30 PM

To keep the long distance relationship alive you have to keep the communication both side .

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Posted 23 April 2019 - 06:38 PM

Trust , communication, dont entertain others ..

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Posted 29 April 2019 - 03:01 PM

Generally mahirap talaga ldr lalo na if we are talking years.

If once a year lang nagkikita, masakit din for me sabihin pero mas magiging good for both parties na cool off muna. It will let both of you grow as a person and character to meet and learn from other people and culture. And if you are really meant together, love will find a way sa huli. Of course, Im referring to 2 people with the most sincere of intention and trust with each other.

Now if you feel na you've grown enough and that you can already see her/him as your future hudband/wife, then by all means do everything you can to be with her. Lay out a plan. After 1,2,3 years nakadecide na kung paano kayo magsasama ulit.

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Posted 29 April 2019 - 10:58 PM

Ldr relatioship
Trust
Communication

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Posted 11 July 2019 - 08:29 PM

This will work if and only if both of you wanted it to happen regardless of how far you are apart. 



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Posted 13 July 2019 - 05:50 PM

This will work if and only if both of you wanted it to happen regardless of how far you are apart. 

I agree

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Posted 15 July 2019 - 08:37 AM

Statistics show that 90% of LDRs end up failing. After all, proximity plays a huge role in nurturing relationships. For the 10% that were successful, both parties actively found ways to communicate with each other on a consistent basis.

#169 Hannabi

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Posted 09 August 2019 - 11:34 AM

LDR okay lang yan basta ang mahalaga di kayo nawawalan ng time s bawat isa,Yun kase ang pinagmumulan ng iilan nating mga LDR relationship kung bakit naghahanap ang ilan ng iba,Everytime n pde kang mag chat or mag call gawin mo iparamdam mo n kahit busy ako di ako nawawalanng oras sayo kase nga andu ang love.Ipagpapatuloy mo yang gngwa mo hanggang s makauwe kana or hanggang s huli kase s oras n magbago ka maraming pumapasok s isip ng tao kaya kapag sinimulan mong gawin panindigan mo hanggang s huli,..Suggestion ko lng nmn yan s mga LDR.

#170 Ms_Bianca❤️

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Posted 22 August 2019 - 05:09 PM

long distance yong tiponh di kayo mawawalan ng oras sa isat isa

#171 Brian214

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Posted 23 August 2019 - 08:21 AM

LD relations don't work. For some it only lasts because of lies, deceit and cover ups. Now to be clear this is applicable to those who don't see each other at least twice a month. For the rest, you may want to stop fooling yourself so you could avoid wasting your time for something that has a higher chance of failing. End it and move on as soon as you can.
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#172 Creepy Knight (CK)

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Posted 18 October 2020 - 06:57 PM

It actually depends on both parties, its a case to case basis i would say. 


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Posted 29 October 2020 - 01:42 PM

Will never work...me maximum shelf life lang kasi ng 7 years average...then the 70/30 principle kicks in and takes care of the rest for either you or the other person... :D



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Posted 29 October 2020 - 03:48 PM

Will never work...me maximum shelf life lang kasi ng 7 years average...then the 70/30 principle kicks in and takes care of the rest for either you or the other person... :D

 

what is the 70/30 principle sir??? if i may ask....

 

just to be on topic.....maybe 5-10% lang nag survive sa ganito...my cousin learned this the hard way...2 years lang siyang nawala nag break sila nung GF niya.....considering 8 years na sila then mag aasawa na pinsan ko after just meeting the girl less than 2 years....



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Posted 30 October 2020 - 02:44 PM

brother...walang 100% na tao ever...habang tumatagal and relasyon natin max out to 70% efficiency individually (maybe 80% at most) palaging complimentary to 100% both ways...kapag BF/GF lang darating yung 70% constant ceiling point at 30% discontentment point...kaya bro or babes man palaging "naghahanap" o "tumitingin sa iba"...kasi nagiging napaka predictable, dependable at boring ng 70-80%...yung 20-30% excitement e nakakabuhay naman talaga ng dugo...kaso vicious cycle nga lang palitan mo man yung 70-80% na "investment" mo...yung bago mong 20-30% well mag max out din eventually to 70-80% until mag-commit na kayo till death do you part...then your pieces are made whole... so eto yung secret sauce kung bakit di nagtatagal talaga ang mga long distance relationship...either time and boredom gets you or fear overtakes you...kaya maniwala kayo ke Queen Bee...put a damn ring on it if you think it's really worth it (for all genders itong abiso na ito)...

#176 KURYO

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Posted 30 October 2020 - 03:36 PM

Tawagan mo siya ng tawagan long distance ng matagal para singil din siya ng singil sa iyo-may continuity and you will always stay on her mind.

Edited by KURYO, 30 October 2020 - 03:37 PM.


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Posted 02 November 2020 - 09:45 AM

I've had 3 long-term LDRs in my life and the current one is still going strong. All I can say is that mas madali na mag-alaga ng LDR nowadays kesa noon. Make use of technology. Pero what really keeps an LDR strong is communication, trust and effort. 


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Posted 12 November 2020 - 11:01 PM

LDR Cuisine
Dahil nasabi na yung mga Major Ingredients (Communication, Trust & Technology) + google study on LDR

Dito ako sa Add ons hindi naging successful para tumagal yung LDR ko.

Add ons:
Spice: Maintain attraction. Attraction grows in space. LDR means lot of space. Kaya nga avoid routines & predictability.
Condiments: Stirs Mystery. Iba pa rin pag may sawsawan it gives mix emotions due to unpredictability at surprises na nag iiwan ng kakaibang sensation sa mind at panlasa.

Lessons learned: Next time if im going again into LDR i see to it to strike a balance utilizing the “Spice” and “Condiments” a very important add ons sa isang LDR.
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