jetlag143 Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 it's hard especially if you have a partner or gf Quote Link to comment
pixel888 Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 posible lalo na pag mabaho ang partner mo. Laging may amoy dun. Quote Link to comment
migzmadrid Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon. I don't know if this is still relevant, but I guess there are quite a few steps to trying (emphasis on "trying") to solve this problem: 1. Understand that it is not a one-way problem - this has got to be a two-way issue - after all, it takes two to make a relationship work. So if one party just clams up and does not even bother to try talking about the issue, then it's already doomed from that point: 1.1 On that point, clamming up does not necessarily mean that party just doesn't want to talk - there may be reasons for this. For men, erectile dysfunction IS a reason not to talk. Assure him that you love HIM and not just the PLEASURE he brings. 1.1.1 On THIS point - ask yourself: "Do you LOVE him?" or "Are you IN LOVE with him?" There's a world of difference here. 1.2 Once you have answered THAT question beyond doubt, sit down with him and ask him how his life is: What's keeping him so busy? What's bothering him? What can you do to help him out? After all, you are TOGETHER, so he has to accept that you must share in each other's issues and challenges. Unless (and this may be a painful realization), your togetherness is based more on the "I'm IN LOVE with you" stage. 1.3 If he cannot share the challenges of his life with you, then you may have to re-think your relationship. 2. Once you have moved on and finally accepted that it takes two to make things right in a relationship (there is no relationship if it's only one-way), then there isn't much to do anymore. Why? Because by now he should know that you share everything: happiness, sadness, tirumphs and challenges. By now also, you should be able to already help him ease up on whatever it is that's keeping him hung-up. 3. From here, it should get better. When there is a stronger and deeper appreciation of each person for each person in the relationship, things become smoother, sweeter and more fulfilling. My two cents worth. Quote Link to comment
scam Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon. actually, you should be able to prove this your self base on his performance for the past 2 yrs. is he really having a hard time getting an erection;or just plain excuse. ikaw dapat makasagot nyan and i wonder bakit he need to tell you that. it does not happen overnight or not even in aspan of a month. you have to access the performance from ur first sex vs last year vs now. if his performance is deteriorating, may be but kung hindi naman,there's something going on. i have the highest doubt about being too busy. i'm damn hell as busy my self, pero when wifey get's the right moves, we go for it kahit 1 round lang.di ba masarap matulog after sex, so that's the lamest excuse for a 1 month no sex. read his other moves. para u can derive on a much better conclusion.here's one test you can do. force him for even a 1 rounder. if he don't produce so much juice, it only mean's meron other area of discharge. Quote Link to comment
lances Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 i believe sex is important in one's healthy living, it's normal that as a person aged, sex becomes occasional or rare. Quote Link to comment
formyeyesonly Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 thats just fine...what's the use having sex regularly with your partner without the love???i prefer saying it "MAKING LOVE"...as long as the feeling is still there... Quote Link to comment
Inday Posted January 20, 2009 Author Share Posted January 20, 2009 After a month of posting my problems here and you guys gave all your efforts to comfort me, I found out last week that he has another woman...that explains all... I'm sincerely thankful for all the kindest replies that I read. Quote Link to comment
chiechel Posted January 20, 2009 Share Posted January 20, 2009 After a month of posting my problems here and you guys gave all your efforts to comfort me, I found out last week that he has another woman...that explains all... I'm sincerely thankful for all the kindest replies that I read. Sad to hear that.....Cheer up young lady, there are lot of guys there more deserving of your love and company.....Be strong Quote Link to comment
scam Posted January 20, 2009 Share Posted January 20, 2009 After a month of posting my problems here and you guys gave all your efforts to comfort me, I found out last week that he has another woman...that explains all... I'm sincerely thankful for all the kindest replies that I read. i was rght then na meron other area of discharge. it now become's a private matter so it's now your call.hope that things will come out for the better for both of you. Quote Link to comment
detective kyuu Posted January 20, 2009 Share Posted January 20, 2009 more than na....waaaa... i badly need to get laid..... Quote Link to comment
mvroxas Posted January 20, 2009 Share Posted January 20, 2009 Why not change your daily routine with you significant other. That can spice it up a little bit. They say that once you get into the same routine every single day... That can account for you partner to feel boxed up in your relationship. That's only my POV. Quote Link to comment
migzmadrid Posted January 22, 2009 Share Posted January 22, 2009 I - as I am sure all others who took time to read your concern and reply to you - sure do hope that you find peace with yourself, at least now that you know he is the root of the problem. Take care. Quote Link to comment
BallBreaker Posted January 22, 2009 Share Posted January 22, 2009 I even survived years without it. that is, if there is a valid reason for abstaining. if there's none, 1 week pa lang, nagdidilim na paningin ko. Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 A month without sex??? :shocked: Just Shoot Me Quote Link to comment
yummybaby0014 Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 ahuh?! baka naman pagod lang yung husby mO?! kasi depende din naman yan sa katawan natin eh diba?! pag pagod ka talag malamang kahit anung pagplease di talagamghahard-on .. hehe ako nga 2 months na walang shag ok lang!! hehe .. Quote Link to comment
burn4me Posted January 24, 2009 Share Posted January 24, 2009 how about 1 year ..... can you beat that ? Quote Link to comment
Leira Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 why not? though some women would really feel undesirable na if that's the case Quote Link to comment
scam Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 i guess we have to chage the title of this thread to, "there's another woman, HELP!" Quote Link to comment
pinoyakook23 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 you could mitigate this by self-sex Quote Link to comment
Miss Zelda Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 oh the humanity, i'm glad i'm not the only one with the same predicament. Quote Link to comment
Inaj Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 how about 1 year ..... can you beat that ? I can... 1yr and a half na :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
yummybaby0014 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 how about 1 year ..... can you beat that ? ako kaya ko 1 yr..wala shag basta mei TOY :thumbsupsmiley: LOL's 1 Quote Link to comment
bher2 Posted January 29, 2009 Share Posted January 29, 2009 ako kaya ko 1 yr..wala shag basta mei TOY :thumbsupsmiley: LOL's nyeh! ok lng sau ang ganun mam? Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 i dont see why this should be a big deal. sexlife is not the be-all and end-all of life Quote Link to comment
Sheepshop Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 2 years na kami, simula ng magnegosyo sya, madalang na kaming mag sex, minsan once a week, naging 2x a month, ngayon 1 month na hindi pa rin kami nag sesex, nag try na kong yayain sya kaso ayaw nya, wala daw sya sa mood , sobrang aga nya matulog lagi hindi ko na sya niyaya ngayon kasi baka mapahiya lang uli ako. Madalas ko tuloy maisip na may babae sya or minsan na iinsecure na rin ako, kaya kahit gabi ng super exercise ako para maging sexy at super diet . I don't wanna experience this. (knock on wood) Quote Link to comment
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