Bugatti Veyron Posted July 10, 2013 Share Posted July 10, 2013 Have you ever been in more than one relationship at the same time? If so, how did you handle this without getting caught? Quote Link to comment
Mister.Jay Posted July 10, 2013 Share Posted July 10, 2013 Though short lived, I had two relationships going on at one time back in college (does this still count?). Funny thing was they were both from the same university. It's just that the student populace was so huge that it is not rare that people don't know each other. Anyway, at first everything went well, 2 phones, meticulous schedule fixing lang talaga katapat. But, I admit, I became sloppy with this. I started using 1 phone to text them both, kaya ayun. Huli na. Quote Link to comment
oscartamaguchiblackface Posted July 11, 2013 Share Posted July 11, 2013 Though short lived, I had two relationships going on at one time back in college (does this still count?). Funny thing was they were both from the same university. It's just that the student populace was so huge that it is not rare that people don't know each other. Anyway, at first everything went well, 2 phones, meticulous schedule fixing lang talaga katapat. But, I admit, I became sloppy with this. I started using 1 phone to text them both, kaya ayun. Huli na.The odds are your multiple relationships will be discovered if you become sloppy. And the longer your relationships are, the odds of getting sloppy increases as well. Quote Link to comment
Mister.Jay Posted July 11, 2013 Share Posted July 11, 2013 The odds are your multiple relationships will be discovered if you become sloppy. And the longer your relationships are, the odds of getting sloppy increases as well. No truer words have been said, sir! And I guess I was young at that time kaya kulang pa sa diskarte. Quote Link to comment
Mister.Jay Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 Nagliparan na naman ang spam bots. Quote Link to comment
sonnyt111 Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 Juggling several relationships over a period of time is extremely difficult if not impossible.. It just takes one relative or friend of one of your gfs who spots you in the company of another woman without you even realizing that you've been spotted to bring everything crashing down. Â The only way this will work is if you're truthful and tell each of your gfs that you have other gf's on the side. Most likely many of these gf's will want to break off with you. But there may be some women who are ok with you maintaining other women though these are a very small minority I would imagine. Ours is still a conservative society. Â And of course, if you want to be in several relationships at the same time, be prepared to spend a whole lot of money. Quote Link to comment
pusype Posted July 13, 2013 Share Posted July 13, 2013 I think, you will come to the correct decision. Quote Link to comment
vondopsy Posted July 13, 2013 Share Posted July 13, 2013 You are not right. I am assured. Let's discuss it. Write to me in PM, we will communicate. Quote Link to comment
Kelfliff Posted July 14, 2013 Share Posted July 14, 2013 .. Seldom.. It is possible to tell, this exception to the rules Quote Link to comment
sOin2you Posted July 14, 2013 Share Posted July 14, 2013 It can really be complicated. It's adding up something to manage other than the regular stuff happening in your daily life. It gets harder to manage at times especially when your emotion's starting to weigh more for the other, finding him more significant than the other, and spending more time with him. I agree, the longer you have it, the sloppier it may become. One day you'll just have to let go of the other. It's as simple as you really can't have it all. Quote Link to comment
oscartamaguchiblackface Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 It's usually the young and inexperienced who easily get caught juggling more than one partner. As one gets older, one gets to learn from their earlier mistakes. Yet that's still not an assurance that they will be able to keep their numerous affairs a secret. It just takes one tiny mistake for the cards to come crashing down. Quote Link to comment
Bugatti Veyron Posted August 19, 2013 Author Share Posted August 19, 2013 It will definitely develop ninja moves into an art form. Quote Link to comment
ladyboy Posted September 3, 2013 Share Posted September 3, 2013 yes been now mahirap na masaya hirap kasi mangiwan Quote Link to comment
prince-charming Posted September 3, 2013 Share Posted September 3, 2013 Proper scheduling does the job.....hahahaha I miss my haydays.... Quote Link to comment
LordJaden Posted September 3, 2013 Share Posted September 3, 2013 it would be much easier if you are more serious on one and just playing with the other. in which case, it's better that the other one knows the real score so she can also help in hiding the relationship. in my case, even from the start i always tell the prospective fling the real score so there would be no hurt feelings later on. if she likes the arrangement, well and good. if not, then move on. Quote Link to comment
Bugatti Veyron Posted September 4, 2013 Author Share Posted September 4, 2013 it would be much easier if you are more serious on one and just playing with the other. in which case, it's better that the other one knows the real score so she can also help in hiding the relationship. in my case, even from the start i always tell the prospective fling the real score so there would be no hurt feelings later on. if she likes the arrangement, well and good. if not, then move on.Unless the prospective fling becomes possessive and decides she wants you all to herself. Even willing to inject herself into your relationship with your girl, hoping that your girl will dump you once she finds out that you're seeing another woman. Quote Link to comment
LordJaden Posted September 6, 2013 Share Posted September 6, 2013 Unless the prospective fling becomes possessive and decides she wants you all to herself. Even willing to inject herself into your relationship with your girl, hoping that your girl will dump you once she finds out that you're seeing another woman.  Been there too, told her that the agreement was clear from the start. Then i ever so slowly faaaaade away from her life.  Just to be clear, i dont give my real name and of course address to my flings. Only those who already gained my complete trust gets to know my real name hehe.. Quote Link to comment
oscartamaguchiblackface Posted September 7, 2013 Share Posted September 7, 2013 Been there too, told her that the agreement was clear from the start. Then i ever so slowly faaaaade away from her life.  Just to be clear, i dont give my real name and of course address to my flings. Only those who already gained my complete trust gets to know my real name hehe.. He he he. And I though I was the only one who did this. Quote Link to comment
filibustero Posted September 8, 2013 Share Posted September 8, 2013 Basta ako hindi magpapahuli ng buhay... Quote Link to comment
neville Posted September 9, 2013 Share Posted September 9, 2013 Basta ako hindi magpapahuli ng buhay... Â Kahit caught in the act na? :-P Quote Link to comment
neville Posted September 9, 2013 Share Posted September 9, 2013 Mahuli man o Hindi, deny pa rin. Hwehweh Ano yan, 11th commandment? Haha Quote Link to comment
nakadashi Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 mas maganda sana kung payag silang dalawa (o tatlo) no? para wala nang tago tago bwahahaha! kagulo Quote Link to comment
BudzOrg Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 Try to be honest to both, just in case it's possible Quote Link to comment
gwapingsz1 Posted July 22, 2015 Share Posted July 22, 2015 Set proper expectations with your 2nd and third that you have to manage your time hahaha. Quote Link to comment
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