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#1 vicious0812

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Posted 26 August 2005 - 07:26 PM

I want to start this is topic, because i am experiencing it in this crucial stage in my life.

for most of you guys, this is a no no. but what if you got interested in one and fell in love with. and also found out that the lady really love you. to yuo married guys this is not feasible, it can ruin your marriage. but to the unmarried and seperated ones. you have to weight the pros and cons for such a relationship. are you willing to accept the past of your loved one, can shoulder the financial burden that will be put upon you once she quits the job? or be willing to sacrifice relatives, friends or even lovers in order to have this relationship work out. pls. share your views with me as i discover her true feelings for me.
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Posted 26 August 2005 - 09:22 PM

may thread na yatang ganito...backread ka na lang bro

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Posted 26 August 2005 - 09:32 PM

why not? Tao din sila. Sarap yata sila magmahal.
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Posted 26 August 2005 - 11:09 PM

hmmmmm,, para sa akin basta nagmamahalan isat isa,, yan ang pinaka importante sa LAHAT!, dami ko na nakita na nagsasama or nagpapakasal dahil sa ibang dahilan ,, kundi pera , security, etc,, kahit ano pa nakaraan niya kung talagang totoo ang pagmamahalan ay ok,, para sa kin hirap na makahanap ng ganito,,, just my 2 cents,, :uc:

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 01:33 AM

Go watch PRETTY WOMAN.

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 02:46 AM

this is not an easy road to follow pare...
sabi nga nila...esep esep....

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 05:23 AM

for most of you guys, this is a no no. but what if you got interested in one and fell in love with. and also found out that the lady really love you. to yuo married guys this is not feasible, it can ruin your marriage. but to the unmarried and seperated ones. you have to weight the pros and cons for such a relationship. are you willing to accept the past of your loved one, can shoulder the financial burden that will be put upon you once she quits the job? or be willing to sacrifice relatives, friends or even lovers in order to have this relationship work out. pls. share your views with me as i discover her true feelings for me.

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Vicious,

First: Does she really truly love you?
Next: Is she willing to sacrifice everything & everyone else, to put you as Number 1 priority in your life?

The answers to these questions should guide you in your soul searching. Remember that you should never give up your true friends. Can you shoulder the financial strain & emotional strain. How will these factors affect your relationship as it progresses?

#8 dexterhaba

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 06:47 AM

this is not an easy road to follow pare...
sabi nga nila...esep esep....

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hmmm nag eesep esep na tuloy ako,, mukhang napasubo nga dre,,, :sick:

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 06:56 AM

how sure are you na sayo lang siya inlove eh ang dami ng lalake dumaan sa kanya, mga mpa or other girls na arkilahan kasi eh hindi pang long term partners, magisip ka mabuti nadadala ka lang ng emotion mo ngayon,magkakaalaman lang kung mahal niyo isat isa kung wala na kayo pera pero hindi pa din kayo naghihiwalay,payo ko lang just enjoy having sex with her and not think about love because in the long run ikaw ang magiging kawawa pag nag padala ka sa emotion mo ngayon

I want to start this is topic, because i am experiencing it in this crucial stage in my life.

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#10 vicious0812

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 04:23 PM

thank you all sa mga nagbigay ng payo. i am also doing some thorough thinking. i just want to hear all sides. but in the end i will be the one who will make the decision. i am still checking out all the details that will proved that she really love me. thanks to those who are giving encouragement to this relationship. and to those who gave their thoughts about this matter.

#11 DJTranz

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 05:22 PM

define first the word "Love" iho...
ano meaning sayo nito?
ano meaning nitong word nato sa MPA mo?
then you decide.

#12 aldicua

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 05:31 PM

I have a freind who went in to this type of relationship but in the end they went their seperate way. Coz everytime they went out with friend, when their friend wife start wispering nococonsious sila even thought they are not talking about them.and whenever their are green jokes about boy night out parang natatamaan siya

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 06:15 PM

ngyari na rin kasi sakin yan believe me it is really hard to invest feelings
sa isang mpa,dati naalala ko pa sinasama ko pa siya lage tuwing may occasions, tapos nalaman ko nalang sa friend niyang mpa din na may anak na pala siya at kasama pa niya yung father nung anak niya sa bahay nila,in the end i felt so betrayed parang pinag damot niya sakin lahat katotohanan tungkol sa kanya samantalang ako napaka honest ko naman sa kanya sa lahat

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Posted 27 August 2005 - 06:30 PM

ngyari na rin kasi sakin yan believe me it is really hard to invest feelings
sa isang mpa,dati naalala ko pa sinasama ko pa siya lage tuwing may occasions, tapos nalaman ko nalang sa friend niyang mpa din na may anak na pala siya at kasama pa niya yung father nung anak niya sa bahay nila,in the end i felt so betrayed parang pinag damot niya sakin lahat katotohanan tungkol sa kanya samantalang ako napaka honest ko naman sa kanya sa lahat

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sir dahil sa nangyare sayo di po dapat kupalking handle mo, bait king.... :upside:

para saken ok lang basta lab nila isat isa! :)
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Posted 27 August 2005 - 06:38 PM

hey vicious, first of all always remember that LOVE takes a great deal of time to prove that it is true. just ask yourself this question: are you willing to take the risk of investing that amount of time to prove that it is really LOVE? kung hindi, wag na lang. also, if you know you can't accept whatever the result may be, wag na lang. :(

vicious, just guessing, si EP ba to? :unsure:

good luck bro!



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Posted 28 August 2005 - 12:52 AM

Yes. Kung na-in love kayong dalawa, maswerte kayo and you should go for it (seen too many people get married for wrong reasons - same social standing, girl's expectations, etc). Hindi ko sinasabi na walang problem haharap sa inyo - but if feeling is mutual, then you should trust love.

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Posted 28 August 2005 - 01:34 AM

Yes. Kung na-in love kayong dalawa, maswerte kayo and you should go for it (seen too many people get married for wrong reasons - same social standing, girl's expectations, etc). Hindi ko sinasabi na walang problem haharap sa inyo - but if feeling is mutual, then you should trust love.

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thanks pare for the encouragement. i really want to give it a try. don't know if it turns out alright. but at least i tried. thanks a lot.

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Posted 28 August 2005 - 01:39 AM

Stick to one time policy, and uphold it even in your horniest hours........

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Posted 28 August 2005 - 06:47 AM

Watch "Ligaya ang tawag nila sa Akin" or "They call me Joy" of Rosanna Roces. Relationships like this only work if you start else where like in the US so that there won't be any prying eyes. That is if she is truly reformed and really loves you. (or if just using you,...that will never work :( )
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Posted 28 August 2005 - 07:13 AM

for most of you guys, this is a no no. but what if you got interested in one and fell in love with. and also found out that the lady really love you. to yuo married guys this is not feasible, it can ruin your marriage. but to the unmarried and seperated ones. you have to weight the pros and cons for such a relationship. are you willing to accept the past of your loved one, can shoulder the financial burden that will be put upon you once she quits the job? or be willing to sacrifice relatives, friends or even lovers in order to have this relationship work out. pls. share your views with me as i discover her true feelings for me.

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My suggestion: find out first why she got into that job in the first place.

If she is doing this to help out her family, then be prepared to support her AND her family for a looooooong time.

And be careful, make sure the girl is sincere about her feelings.




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