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Kinds of Flirts para sa lahat

 

1. Physical flirts

 

These flirts are great at conveying interest through physicality and non-verbal behaviors. They have no problem reaching out and touching someone playfully. Their relationships tend to be intense but short-lived.

 

They're most successful at: Bars or clubs! They're the only type of flirt who will go out to clubs by themselves. The loud music allows them an opportunity to showcase their non-verbal skills.

2. Polite flirts

 

This is someone who conveys attraction by showing respect and minding their Ps and Qs. They're well-mannered and careful. Polite flirts have long-enduring relationships based on companionship and friendship. They take the longest to get into a relationship and will have known their partner for a long time. They tend to be on the older side - this kind of flirting is often employed by people over 40.

 

They're most successful at: Places where they've already had an opportunity to find common ground with a potential partner. They'd likely have good luck at finding someone at a church or synagogue, or a group dedicated to a cause.

3. Traditional flirts

This person believes that men should be the pursuers and women should be passive and yielding. Women should be damsels in distress. The traditional flirting style is based on the idea of gender roles: Women who are this kind of flirt say they'd be very comfortable being a trophy wife, and that's often precisely what the men often want.

 

They're most successful at: College, and other places where people are in their early 20s.

4. Sincere flirts

 

They're more pursuant than the polite flirt, but they do it through self-disclosure and conversation. They think talking about intellectual ideas is sexy.

 

They're most successful at: First dates. They'll be great on a date, because they're adept at learning more about people and making conversation.

 

5. Playful flirts

 

This person flirts for fun. They love a self-esteem boost or free drink, or a way to get out of a parking ticket. They enjoy playing games and teasing people. They view flirting as being about the gamesmanship, and they think flirting is worth doing for its own sake. If you've ever been in a friends-with-benefits situation, you're probably a playful flirt.

 

They're most successful: On vacation, or, in college, on spring break. They're great with people they're not going to see for a prolonged period and are able to enjoy the early stages of relationships without getting too attached.

 

 

I consider myself Polite Flirt but at least I'm sincere if I may ask about it :blush:

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Polite flirt laugh.gif

 

Kinds of Flirts para sa lahat

 

1. Physical flirts

 

These flirts are great at conveying interest through physicality and non-verbal behaviors. They have no problem reaching out and touching someone playfully. Their relationships tend to be intense but short-lived.

 

They're most successful at: Bars or clubs! They're the only type of flirt who will go out to clubs by themselves. The loud music allows them an opportunity to showcase their non-verbal skills.

2. Polite flirts

 

This is someone who conveys attraction by showing respect and minding their Ps and Qs. They're well-mannered and careful. Polite flirts have long-enduring relationships based on companionship and friendship. They take the longest to get into a relationship and will have known their partner for a long time. They tend to be on the older side - this kind of flirting is often employed by people over 40.

 

They're most successful at: Places where they've already had an opportunity to find common ground with a potential partner. They'd likely have good luck at finding someone at a church or synagogue, or a group dedicated to a cause.

3. Traditional flirts

This person believes that men should be the pursuers and women should be passive and yielding. Women should be damsels in distress. The traditional flirting style is based on the idea of gender roles: Women who are this kind of flirt say they'd be very comfortable being a trophy wife, and that's often precisely what the men often want.

 

They're most successful at: College, and other places where people are in their early 20s.

4. Sincere flirts

 

They're more pursuant than the polite flirt, but they do it through self-disclosure and conversation. They think talking about intellectual ideas is sexy.

 

They're most successful at: First dates. They'll be great on a date, because they're adept at learning more about people and making conversation.

 

5. Playful flirts

 

This person flirts for fun. They love a self-esteem boost or free drink, or a way to get out of a parking ticket. They enjoy playing games and teasing people. They view flirting as being about the gamesmanship, and they think flirting is worth doing for its own sake. If you've ever been in a friends-with-benefits situation, you're probably a playful flirt.

 

They're most successful: On vacation, or, in college, on spring break. They're great with people they're not going to see for a prolonged period and are able to enjoy the early stages of relationships without getting too attached.

 

I'm a combination of polite, sincere and traditional. More often than not, when I really like someone, I tend to ignore the person instead of minding him. Pero minsan pag nagkakalakasan ng loob, I try to make friends, start a conversation and prety much try to focus the conversation to the guy, to his interests, likes and dislikes and try to connect by trying to find any common ground. I often do this also to make friends. Sometimes, people tend to gain other's rapport by making them feel that you're interested in what they do. I like the fun of chase. The less the physical contact made, the more signals get mixed up sent to the guy which will also make him wonder if you're interested or you're just being friendly. In the end, I often find myself exchanging numbers with the guy initated by him, of course.. :P

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