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  • 2 months later...

huhh...!!! so complicated...!!! : unsure.gifcrying.gifcrying.gif

but f m d wyf though, i will surely feel f there's smtng bothering my

husband's mind, and so, m gna ask him wats wrong, heart to heart talk.

f i've learned that he has another girl but he wants 2 leave it already, m gna

exert sme effort 2 help him, maybe i'l b the one 2 talk 2 the girl f he find hard times in doing that... but...

if i've learned that he rreally love that girl, though the pain will surely k*ll me, i will change our relationship from being partners to bestfriends. wats d use of kipng him f his heart's not n me? besides, i love him that much that i dont want him to be

confused all the time, m gonna give him all the time he's needed to figure out

what he's really up to.

on the other hand, f m d mistress, i wouldn't make further complications, as long as were happy whenever were together, i wouldn't drag the time he has for his family. i love him that much that m willing to sacrifice however painful ts 4 me., nwy, ts d thoughts that counts, so even f were not together as long as we love each other, we dont nid 2 hurt other people, i'll always go for quality over quantity.

one morre thing, f i really love him that much, i will never let his relation to his family be destroy just because of me. i know if it happen, he will be shattered and i don't want it to be happen 2 him, i really love him that much.

 

 

gus2 k nang maiyak s topic n to, can we start a thread about the MISTRESS' AGONY?

 

GOSH, my pieces of related emotions just gushing out.

 

as for you lian, take your tym, be vocal to both of them, whoever wishes ur happiness and not theirs will be the ryt choice. i dnt say u have to take what's good for u first, but this would be a good parameter of whom u should have to choose.

 

Lastly, take time to pray. u've asked each and evryone of us about your problem but did u already talk 2 HIM and ask d same question u've asked us?

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oh, my...so baby...so innocent & gullible then:)...

but her principles hadn't change..the NO "me first" thingy attitude still defines her..:)

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For the context of not allowed/can not and or prohibited because of whatever reasons.

 

I'll keep it for myself. Love sustains happiness and the feeling of security. I'd not drag her into a situation where we both can not be happy all throughout and eventually have to face the inevitable end, for love is not selfish.

 

We can be friends or best of friends perhaps and just have myself endure the pain until it doesn't hurt anymore. After all, we are still humans, capable to adapt and carry on.

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  • 4 months later...

I have a guy friend since 2010 officemate ko siya before, and we have this thing na we know we both love each other we already admitted it s isat isa but...

We also treasure our friendship.. so ang exsenasince madalas kami mapag kamalang in a relationship ng mga tao we both agreed na whatever it is na nakikita ngbmga tao or yung sweettreatment namin sa isat isa we will not gonna label it... we are just close friends nothing more nothing less...we cannot see each other personally if in a relationship isa samin.. he had his girlfriends na ex na ngaun i had mine na ex na din.. we saw each other again last year sa birthday ko and damn the love is still here same to him then again we saw each other last week, he introduces me to his family sa mother side but syempre as a friend pa din, even his cousin are teasing us na ayaw nila maniwala na di nga kami 😂 so pinaintindi namin bakit ayun kinantyawan kami na #FRIENDZONE his courting a girl now and for the first time nakaramdam ako ng selos and is a pa ang chararat ni girl di sila bagay.. sabi ko nga eh never ako nakialam sa mga prev relationships niya but this one i obviously disagree.. napapaisip din tuloy siya kasi oo nga di ako nakialalam sa mga past pero apektado ako dito sa isa i told him di maganda kutob ko sa girl 😐..well i still dont know the uodates kasi mukhang wala nananmna sa systema friend ko 😬 and i hate it na nag seselos ako

 

We love each other but avoided to be labeled as in a relationship, para di dumating yung araw na magkasakitan kami at tuluyang mag hiwalay.. and we both cannot let that happen.... isa pa pareho naming di alam ang gusto pa namain..

 

 

But no matter what, even if the time comes na marealize niya na we should end this craziness of ours i will continue loving him..even if his not really mine😥😳😛😶

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