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It's how you'll carry it when you part ways.

 

Nowadays, for some, when we say "I love you" to someone, we expect something back, like an "I love you too". It's more like an insurance rather than an assurance really. We check even from time to time if it has changed or has it lessened. Again, in a manner of insurance, instead of assurance.

 

True feelings are felt and needs no assurance. But of course, it brightens and saddens us to know what the real score is. But if what you have for the other party is true, you don't have to be together to be assured. You don't have to hear to be assured. Distance doesn't even become a hindrance. It can extend as far as you want.

 

Idealistic huh?

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It's how you'll carry it when you part ways.

 

Nowadays, for some, when we say "I love you" to someone, we expect something back, like an "I love you too". It's more like an insurance rather than an assurance really. We check even from time to time if it has changed or has it lessened. Again, in a manner of insurance, instead of assurance.

 

True feelings are felt and needs no assurance. But of course, it brightens and saddens us to know what the real score is. But if what you have for the other party is true, you don't have to be together to be assured. You don't have to hear to be assured. Distance doesn't even become a hindrance. It can extend as far as you want.

 

Idealistic huh?

 

Idealistic Maybe? But more of a gluton for pain... Not even morphine can numb the agony of un-requited love or one that is simply not meant to be .

We throw caution to the wind when love bites and as we succumb to it we fall head first and hard. Even when reason says nay the heart goes all the way. Most definitley ...In love, fools we all are. Peace! :)

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Idealistic Maybe? But more of a gluton for pain... Not even morphine can numb the agony of un-requited love or one that is simply not meant to be .

We throw caution to the wind when love bites and as we succumb to it we fall head first and hard. Even when reason says nay the heart goes all the way. Most definitley ...In love, fools we all are. Peace! :)

 

It is indeed a challenge undergoing that pain. As hard as it may seem, a weak heart can easily let go; but a strong and willed heart will go on taking in the pain and making it a part of one's self.

 

Funny coz we don't wanna be called fools.. but we do allow ourselves to become one when we're under that love spell, loving it even.

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It is indeed a challenge undergoing that pain. As hard as it may seem, a weak heart can easily let go; but a strong and willed heart will go on taking in the pain and making it a part of one's self.

 

Funny coz we don't wanna be called fools.. but we do allow ourselves to become one when we're under that love spell, loving it even.

 

Indeed, when one gets aflicted by true love, no medicine, therapy, or antidote can rid you of the malaise... You simply give in hoping that it takes you to happiness and contentment if not total ruin. Whatever the outcome, Love is what living in this world is all about.

There's no truer words than ... "It's better to have loved and lost than not loved at all" ... It is what makes us human.:)

 

Cheers!

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nilet go ko na nagtry xa kausapin ako yoko na makipag-usap papahirapan lan niya ko.. pag naggoodbye na wag na magHELLO ulet pahirap lan eh..

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Indeed, when one gets aflicted by true love, no medicine, therapy, or antidote can rid you of the malaise... You simply give in hoping that it takes you to happiness and contentment if not total ruin. Whatever the outcome, Love is what living in this world is all about.

There's no truer words than ... "It's better to have loved and lost than not loved at all" ... It is what makes us human.:)

 

Cheers!

 

 

 

Even if I'm not drinking, I'll raise a glass to that. Cheers!

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If I love her, then her highest good, not mine will be preeminent.

 

Therefore, since I can never be the best for her because I am already married, I will break the relationship.

 

How do I stay away? Physically and electronically.

 

Its a decision one must do for the greater good.. mahirap pero nararapat.. masakit pero kailangan. indeed. no more call, text, email, fb, tweeter, ym as in cut the communication and get busy doing other things.. I'm going through the same senario right now.. I've cut the communication for 1 month now.. this is with a thinking.. since I am married and I have a family.. I owe her a good life with someone who can really love her w/o reservation.. someone who will be there regardless.. its painful but thats true love... (not selfish) once day.. she will thank you for it im sure.. (setting her free)

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Even if I'm not drinking, I'll raise a glass to that. Cheers!

 

 

"...We drank a toast to innocence we drank a toast to time

We're living in our eloquence, another old lang syne

The beers were empty and our tongues grew tired

and running out of things to say

She gave a kiss to me as I got out

and I watched her drive away

Just for a moment I was back in school

And felt that old familiar pain

And as I turned to make my way back home

the snow turned into rain "

 

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" my dear... A feeling most if not all of us knew to well... Cheers!
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siguro based on my opinion, mahirap talaga patagalin ang mga ganitong affairs.

sa una, pareho niyong habol physical terms lang which is sex.

you both enjoy it (since alam niyo pareho how to satisfy each other very well)

sa tagal ng panahon, mas sasarap pa. mas maghahanap ka. ung minsanan,

napapadalas. ang masama non, hindi lang naman puro sex.

normally you go out, talk, and make lots of kulitan. (which i think hindi maganda)

kasi doon nagsstart madevelop ang mga feelings na HINDI dapat kasali

o hindi dapat mangyari o matuloy. in the end, its either

u both get hurt or one gets hurt dahil mafafall. and i must admit, mahirap

saken pumasok sa mga ganitong bagay. lalo na hindi ko mate-take na sumama

dun sa tao ng purely sex lang. parang bato. :P

so i'd rather get out of my way slowly, para hindi na lumaki ung pahamak na mangyayari.

afterall, naniniwala lang naman ako na maganda na isa lang dahil madaming sakit

sa panahon ngayon. pero hindi ko rin maaafford na il fall inlove eventually

samantalang alam ko naman ano lang ung nasa agreement. which is the mind blowing sex.

saws. B)

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