Bullying In Campus

[Edmund Dantes]

share ko 1 sa mga experience ko, i was being bullied by one of my classmate when i was on 2nd year HS. i was the tipical nerd, payat, naka salamin, likes to draw and stuff pero hindi ako maliit. pero ako yung madalas na pinagtitripan hindi ko nga alam kung bakit kasi never ako nakipag-interact sa kanila. ginagawa ni tinatago gamit ko or inaasar, ginugulo pagmay ginagawa. anyway, nung napuno na ako hinamon ko ng suntukan sa likod ng school. so hindi na bago yung magtatawag ng resbak. kahit na nerd ako i have my friends back then, so meron din ako resbak. pero kami lang nagsuntukan, before that kung ano ano pa sinasabi nya, puro trash talk. tipical. nung nagsalita ako bigla ako binigyan ng cheap shot. isang straight sa nguso. tanggal 2 ipin sa harap. pagdura ko isang ipin lang yung lumabas, na isip ko nun nalunok ko yung isa. naiyak ako sa sobrang galit. hindi ko namalayan, nagdilim na pala paningin ko. nung nahimasmasan ako, hawak ko ulo nya tapos inuuntog ko na sa gutter. and i was doing it to the pointna parang nagroll-up na yung mga mata nya. buti na lang naawat ako ng mga barkada ko noon. ayun tapos yung away, paguwi ko napalo pa ako ng tatay ko, kasi naki pag-away ako. kinabukasan, principals office ako. nagsumbong. ako pa yung mali. pero after that hindi na nya ako binubully. tapos sa class namin biglang natakot yung ibang mga classmates namin sa akin, specifically mga kasama nya minsang nang aasar. after that incident, i learned that i should control my temper and always be in my right mind. mahirap na.

 

what i can say about those experiences is that always stand-up to bullies. may mga negative and positive ako na natutunan sa mga experiences ko. like i always stood -up to the people around me pagnakikita ko na parang kinakawawa sila; tulad sa working area, there was an incident na yung isang staff porke naatasan ng responsibilidad feeling boss na at nag-popower trip pa. masakit nun yung friend ko na co-department ko pa yung kinawawa nya, e ibang department sya. ayun long story short pinakita ko kung gaano sya ka bobo para mapahiya sya, after that kinausap ko yung manager para gawan ng disciplinary actions, ayun suspended saka tinggalan ng resposibilities. yung ginawa ko nga lang e hindi maganda. pero i cant tand bullying talaga.

 

I guess you can say na somewhat similar yung experience dito. Pinagkaiba lang, ako yung nagulpi sa suntukan. Violence can only half solve the problem. I mean on one hand, next time your bully tries to pick on you, magiisip na sya kasi alam nyang lalaban ka. And though alam nyang kaya ka nya, alam nya din na makakasakit ka kahit papano. Parang kahit kaya mo yung maliit na tuta, alam mong masasaktan ka pa din pag kinagat ka.

 

Yan ang hirap noong panahon natin, walang malinaw na steps ginagawa ang mga schools para itigil itong bullying na ginagawa. They dismiss it as kids just being kids. Masama pa, komo walang physical bullying nangyayari, kapag verbal lang, wala kang grounds para magsumbong. Kasi wala naman clear penalty sa student handbook pag name-calling yung ginagawa sayo. I think its arguable that verbal bullying is 10x worse than physical bullying. Buti pa ang pilay pasa at sugat eh, gumagaling. But when you are labeled with a name in your school, you are that name everyday you come to school. And its really eating up yung self-esteem mo. Imbes na magperform ka at your best sa school, sobrang liit na liit ka sa sarili mo.

 

Magsumbong ka sa teachers, sasabihin, "o bakit nakakamatay ba yang tukso na yan?". And if teachers do not do anything to intervene the tendency is for the student to take it into their own hands. God knows kung ano pwede magawa mo. Tulad ng sayo di ba? You could have seriously injured the guy. Pero ako ha, if that would happen man, mas sisihin ko yung teachers sa inyo kesa sayo kasi syempre bata ka eh. Alam mo na ba nun ginagawa mo? Trabaho ng teachers na turuan mabuting asal mga bata. At ipagtanggol sila kung kinakailangan.

[santi101]

In grade 5 there was this bully, who as others have mentioned is physically bigger than most of us. We were having a class but this assh*le kept on teasing or something, di ko na maalala. What happened was yung seatmate ko was egging mi suntukin mo. so ayun i stood up, in the middle of the class and hit him a few times on the stomach, bahala na. Hindi naman lumaban parang yun lang ata siya nakatikim na may lumaban sa kanya. he actually cried when i hit him. puro talk lang pala. after that incident nobody dared to bully me in that school.

[santi101]

HS was a different story, was in an all boys school. it didn't help that i was a new student. was like hell sa freshmen year, but the succeeding years hindi na. i got into the basketball team and more or less smooth sailing from there.

Edited October 9, 2015 by santi101

[Edmund Dantes]

The loud mouth

 

This is my favorite anecdote about one of my bullies. You see, being bullied verbally in my opinion is always the worst. Di bale na ang pasa at galos o kahit pilay pa. Lahat yan gagaling. But when you call someone a name at a regular basis, that stays with a person a lot. And ang tukso sakin noon "abnoy". As I type this, aaminin ko me kirot pa din pag babalikan ko yan. Kasi ikaw ba naman, me pangalan ka naman. You are a normal kid lang naman like the rest. You watch cartoons, you like to be accepted just everyone else. And ako yung taong ayaw ng kaaway.

 

So anyway, nung grade 4 ata ako, yun yung pinakamahirap na phase ng elementary ko. Yun katabi ko lagi akong tinatawag na "Abno" or "Abnoy", it became so popular na the whole class called me that. That was my name. That was who I am. Everyday naririndi ka na tawagin ka nito. So much na uuwi ako after school iyak ng iyak sa nanay ko. There were really days na ayaw ko na talaga pumasok because of this guy na tawag ng tawag sakin nito. Para sakin of all the bullies I encountered he was the one who damaged me most.

 

Nagkataon nung grade 5 or 6, nakilala ko naman isang student na me cerebral palsy. And dahil yung eskwelahan namin dismissed name calling as kids being kids lang, lagi napagtritripan itong batang ito. Dun ko narealize na someone is having it worse than me. Ako nga pangalan lang, itong batang ito me sakit talaga so we became friends, and yun lalo akong naging si Abno. But eventually, nasasanay ka na tumitibay na loob mo, so sabi ok lang sige na. I just couldnt wait to graduate, get to a new school na wala ng tatawag sakin na ABNO

 

YEARS LATER

 

There was this huge scientific conference in Shangrila Cebu. It was international. All the best medical scientists in asia was gonna be there. And because it was such a huge event, malaki yung budget at lahat kaming professors sa science really wanted to join in. So I made a scientific poster, and lucky for me napili sya na isali sa conference. I was just so proud. Best of all, because of some people I was able to associate myself with over the years, libre na registration and yung hotel ko. I got to stay in Shangrila Cebu enjoying all amenities for free.

 

At the reception, all presenters were treated like VIP sa lobby pa lang. Nakasalubong na yung staff ng hotel to take care of our needs. And behold!!!!! my grade 4 classmate was there! He was one of the doormen! I could not in many years forget his face. So immediately I texted my mother since sya iniiyakan ko lagi. Sabi ng mother ko, eh di pagtripan mo, payback time. Utusan mo buhatin gamit mo at idry clean jacket mo, tapos bigyan mo ng tip, tsaka paalala mo ginawa sayo. Of course she was joking, but the thought actually crossed my mind. Finally! After all those years na naghirap ako, eto ako ayan ka!!!!

 

But I realized one thing about myself that day...... Una I am not like him.... I am not a bully. Pangalawa, I survived the toughest mentors and critics in my industry. I survived graduate school internship etc. All because of my character. And in a way being bullied made me the man I am today.

 

So I approached and we shared an awkward stare..... I knew he knew who I was at matindi sama ng loob ko noong araw.... But I didn't say a word. I just noded and smiled. Without saying anything he understood na I know what he did, but I forgive him. And he smiled back at me pero payuko naman

[Nel Horan]

hirap ng may bully.. buti nalang natuto akong lumaban kahit nung bata pa ako.. swerte na rin siguro kasi malaking bata ako.. naaawa ako sa mga kaibigan ko dati na talagang nabubuli at hndi kayang lumaban...

malaki ang epekto sa mga kaibigan ko dati na na bully nung bata..

[glut_func]

Getting bullied in school is one thing pero me, i was getting bullied even at home by my cousin and brothers, bunso kasi ako. It sucks na wala kang makampihan tapos i couldnt fight back, pag magsusumbong ka sa magulang ang sasabihin lang syo "hayaan mo na, kapatid/pinsan mo naman yan." It went on for years, kahit simpleng pang aasar at pantitrip lang could mean a whole lot as a kid. Madadala mo yun hanggang sa paglaki, umabot sa point na bumagsak ng tuluyan ang self-esteem ko bec of those incidents. Wala akong makausap na tropa kasi I was hanging out with the wrong crowd, tanging outlet ko lang back then was gaming and my only retreat was in my room.

 

Dun officially nabuo ang pagiging introvert ko pati yung wariness sa mga taong makakasalamuha ko kasi at the back of my mind iniisip ko baka mamya pagtripan lang din ako ng mga to and whatnot.

[Edmund Dantes]

Getting bullied in school is one thing pero me, i was getting bullied even at home by my cousin and brothers, bunso kasi ako. It sucks na wala kang makampihan tapos i couldnt fight back, pag magsusumbong ka sa magulang ang sasabihin lang syo "hayaan mo na, kapatid/pinsan mo naman yan." It went on for years, kahit simpleng pang aasar at pantitrip lang could mean a whole lot as a kid. Madadala mo yun hanggang sa paglaki, umabot sa point na bumagsak ng tuluyan ang self-esteem ko bec of those incidents. Wala akong makausap na tropa kasi I was hanging out with the wrong crowd, tanging outlet ko lang back then was gaming and my only retreat was in my room.

 

Dun officially nabuo ang pagiging introvert ko pati yung wariness sa mga taong makakasalamuha ko kasi at the back of my mind iniisip ko baka mamya pagtripan lang din ako ng mga to and whatnot.

 

 

Ang mahirap kasi, many people back in the days kasi dismiss it as "kids just being kids" Ganyan lang talaga kasi mga bata. So wala silang ginagawa noon, kaya useless kahit magsumbong ka. Ang hindi nila alam, pinahihirapan masyado yung bata araw araw kapag inaapi. Nagiging psychologically traumatic na sa bata pumasok sa school. Paano ka gaganahan pumasok at magaral kung lagi kang tinatawag ng kung ano ano? Kung pangit pa apilyedo mo noon, tampulan ka talaga ng tukso.

 

I remember one time kitang kita na ng teacher ko na pinipilipit braso ko, wala man lang ginawa. Di man lang umawat. Akala nagbibiruan lang kami. But the Physical assault I can take naman. Its the verbal bullying ang mahirap. For years talaga liit tingin ko sa sarili ko because I was a name and not a person.

 

Trabaho ng mga teachers at magulang pangalagaan kapakanan ng mga maliliit na estudyante. Trabaho nila ipagtanggol sa kapahamakan. Trabaho nila imold self-esteem ng bata. Higit pa dyan, trabaho nila bilang pangalawang magulang ang magturo ng tamang asal.

 

Kaya nga I support the anti-bullying act. Its about time talaga schools have clear rules to combat this

[r35gtr]

The Prom Queen

 

You know this type of bully. Every school has one. She is the prettiest girl in the block. She is the most popular. Everybody has a crush on her. Lagi syang pangbato sa mga beauty contest. Everybody treats her like a queen. Pila din ang manliligaw nya. Laging di nawawalan ng boyfriend. Everybody wants to be associated with her.

 

Of course her bullying was not physical. It was more of akala nya mas mabango t** nya. She makes others around her feel ugly kasi maitim, mataba, etc. Mahilig din maguutos ng kaklase nya na parang lahat katulong nya. Alam ko yung isa naming kaklase ang hilig hilig nyang tawagin na "bulldog" daw. Minsan napaiyak nya pa. Hirap sa babaeng yan kasi feeling nya lahat atat na atat syotain sya.

 

YEARS LATER

 

Ayun right after graduation nasarapan sa etits, nag-asawa, 3 sunod sunod na anak... and now she is fat and ugly! Like sobrang losyang losyang na. Dati sexy sya, ngayon lalaki na ng pata at braso. And she looks waaaaay older than her actual age. Malayong malayo sa Prom Queen na itsura nya dati. Ni hindi papasa as MILF.

 

I guess hindi ko naman din gusto siraan masyado yung tao as much as she was really one royal b!tch. The petals will wilt on all of us. But I guess it goes to show that things do change. The morale is, no matter how good you look do not make others around you feel ugly. Because you never know how soon you will be ugly too

 

 

look bro di naman ibig sabihin na di siya nagpa kant.t sayo ay bitch siya. may difference ang pagigiging bitter , may difference naman ang dating bully. kaibigananin mo sila you neve rknow when sila lolokohin ng bf nila

Getting bullied in school is one thing pero me, i was getting bullied even at home by my cousin and brothers, bunso kasi ako. It sucks na wala kang makampihan tapos i couldnt fight back, pag magsusumbong ka sa magulang ang sasabihin lang syo "hayaan mo na, kapatid/pinsan mo naman yan." It went on for years, kahit simpleng pang aasar at pantitrip lang could mean a whole lot as a kid. Madadala mo yun hanggang sa paglaki, umabot sa point na bumagsak ng tuluyan ang self-esteem ko bec of those incidents. Wala akong makausap na tropa kasi I was hanging out with the wrong crowd, tanging outlet ko lang back then was gaming and my only retreat was in my room.

 

Dun officially nabuo ang pagiging introvert ko pati yung wariness sa mga taong makakasalamuha ko kasi at the back of my mind iniisip ko baka mamya pagtripan lang din ako ng mga to and whatnot.

huwag ibintang sa iba kung ano kinalabasan ng buhay mo. we make our own decisions. kung nawala self esteem mo kasalanan mo iyan.

[r35gtr]

eto naman naranasan kong pangbubully sa ibang bansa. Racial Profiling.

 

Asian look kasi ako . Nung nag aral ako sa ibang bansa, 6 kaming asiano sa Room. yung apat mukhang pat pat yung isa babaeng mataba tsaka ako. May "Mathlete" contest sa school nuon ng biglaan nakita ko na ako ang pambato ng Class. Nilista ako ng Class Rep na Egoy. Sabi ko " hey why did you list me in the quadratic equation and parabola contest"' ang sagot niya " you are an Asian dude, you know math like you know pingpong" . Kasama ko sa Math team ang koreanang mataba.

 

Giannap ang contest sa Student hall and nice to say nanalo naman kami. Inasume na dahil asiano ako magaling ako sa Math!!

 

Nakalusot at nakasagot naman ako sa tanong ng contest.

pagkatapos ng ilang buwan may palaro naman ang school!!

 

 

Biglaan nagkaroon ng Inter collegiate games. Hindi ko alam nilista nila ako sa sports na Pingpong!! hindi ako marunong mag laro nuon. Nagulat na lang ako ng sinabi ng mga tsiks kong class mate "' We will cheer for you in the games" ako naman " Sure thing baby" di ko alam kung anong games games iyon. biglaan pagtingin ko sa campus announcement board sa may Law Bldg. r35gtr : College representative Table Tennis.

 

Napalunok ako, gaganapin sa Sports complex!!! di ako marunong magtable tennis!!!!

 

lahat ng mga kaklase ko sinisigaw ang pangalan ko , gusto kong mamatay!! tinanong ko sino ba naglista ng pangalan ko sagot sakin " Stacy wrote your name man, your an Asian dude, you guys know pingpong like you know math" Si Stacy ang crush ko nung nag mamasters ako, mabait siya and hindi madamot sa marijuana.

 

ayan na ang collegiate games, nasa harapan ako ng mga 500 katao. ako representative sa pingpong.... talo ako... gusto ko isumpa ang mga nag racial profiling sa akin ;(

[r35gtr]

 

 

At the reception, all presenters were treated like VIP sa lobby pa lang. Nakasalubong na yung staff ng hotel to take care of our needs. And behold!!!!! my grade 4 classmate was there! He was one of the doormen! I could not in many years forget his face. So immediately I texted my mother since sya iniiyakan ko lagi. Sabi ng mother ko, eh di pagtripan mo, payback time. Utusan mo buhatin gamit mo at idry clean jacket mo, tapos bigyan mo ng tip, tsaka paalala mo ginawa sayo. Of course she was joking, but the thought actually crossed my mind. Finally! After all those years na naghirap ako, eto ako ayan ka!!!!

 

 

 

"Do not congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either, the choices you made are half chance. so is everyone else's" -Every body is free to wear sunscreen, Buz Luhrman.

 

look the bullies talaga nakakaasar pero nakakawa naman that they turned out to be a door man. I had a bully nung grade 5. Hashimoto ang apelyido. maganda ang gamit kasi lagging pinapadalah ng tatay ng gamit from abroad. back then na Family computer pa lang tayo, naka Sega Mega Drive na siya. nung naka Nintendo na ka Super Famicom na siya. pero nung nagkalakihan kami ang sama ng nangyari sa kaniya na when he asked for help tinulungan ko agad.

 

nakaka trauma talaga ang bullys pero nakaraan na iyon. we are stronger (smarter) because of them. do not be happy na sinawimpalad sila. nung bata pa naman tayo di naman nila alam ang ginagawa nila eh

[glut_func]

 

 

Ang mahirap kasi, many people back in the days kasi dismiss it as "kids just being kids" Ganyan lang talaga kasi mga bata. So wala silang ginagawa noon, kaya useless kahit magsumbong ka. Ang hindi nila alam, pinahihirapan masyado yung bata araw araw kapag inaapi. Nagiging psychologically traumatic na sa bata pumasok sa school. Paano ka gaganahan pumasok at magaral kung lagi kang tinatawag ng kung ano ano? Kung pangit pa apilyedo mo noon, tampulan ka talaga ng tukso.

 

I remember one time kitang kita na ng teacher ko na pinipilipit braso ko, wala man lang ginawa. Di man lang umawat. Akala nagbibiruan lang kami. But the Physical assault I can take naman. Its the verbal bullying ang mahirap. For years talaga liit tingin ko sa sarili ko because I was a name and not a person.

 

Trabaho ng mga teachers at magulang pangalagaan kapakanan ng mga maliliit na estudyante. Trabaho nila ipagtanggol sa kapahamakan. Trabaho nila imold self-esteem ng bata. Higit pa dyan, trabaho nila bilang pangalawang magulang ang magturo ng tamang asal.

 

Kaya nga I support the anti-bullying act. Its about time talaga schools have clear rules to combat this

 

tapos pag pinalagan mo ikaw pa ang lalabas na masama. If there is one thing that getting bullied taught me was not really to physically fight back but more on learning to adjust and act accordingly. Yung tipong imbes na magwala ako at makipagsapakan ako na lang mismo lalayo tapos dedmahin na lang ng tuluyan yung taong yun. Ginawa ko yun sa mga bumabangga sa kin ang naging effective naman - walang gulo at naka focus pa ko sa dapat kong pagtuunan ng pansin.

[Edmund Dantes]

 

 

look bro di naman ibig sabihin na di siya nagpa kant.t sayo ay bitch siya. may difference ang pagigiging bitter , may difference naman ang dating bully. kaibigananin mo sila you neve rknow when sila lolokohin ng bf nila

huwag ibintang sa iba kung ano kinalabasan ng buhay mo. we make our own decisions. kung nawala self esteem mo kasalanan mo iyan.

 

Bro basahin mo ng mabuti yung sinabi ko. Wala naman akong sinabi na gusto ko sya kantutin. Hindi rin ako bitter. Kung tutuusin wala akong dahilang maging bitter dahil unang una hindi naman sya naging dyosa panghabangbuhay. Pangalawa, hindi nga ako yung masyado nyang pinaginitan. Kundi yung kapwa nya din babae. There is someone like this siguro in highschool. Ang morale lang naman ng aking kwento ay hindi para manlibak ng tao. Ang sinasabi ko lang, huwag masyadong maangas komo lang me itsura ka, kasi pagdating ng panahon eh baka pumangit ka din. Sabi nga nila, the petals wilt for everyone. Kahit anong bello o calayan gamitin mo, kukulubot balat mo at papangit ka din. Kaya habang nasa iyo pa yung looks mo maging mabuti sa iba

 

 

"Do not congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either, the choices you made are half chance. so is everyone else's" -Every body is free to wear sunscreen, Buz Luhrman.

 

look the bullies talaga nakakaasar pero nakakawa naman that they turned out to be a door man. I had a bully nung grade 5. Hashimoto ang apelyido. maganda ang gamit kasi lagging pinapadalah ng tatay ng gamit from abroad. back then na Family computer pa lang tayo, naka Sega Mega Drive na siya. nung naka Nintendo na ka Super Famicom na siya. pero nung nagkalakihan kami ang sama ng nangyari sa kaniya na when he asked for help tinulungan ko agad.

 

nakaka trauma talaga ang bullys pero nakaraan na iyon. we are stronger (smarter) because of them. do not be happy na sinawimpalad sila. nung bata pa naman tayo di naman nila alam ang ginagawa nila eh

 

 

Mukha yatang hindi mo binasa yung tapos ng kwento. Hindi ko naman sya hiniya di ba? I never even said a word to him. I nodded, and I smiled and he got it na I forgive him. Basahin mo kasi mabuti bago mo kainisan ako at sabihing nagaangat lang ako ng bangko ko. In fact, pwera pangaasar nagpasalamat pa nga ako. Kasi dahil sa kanya, kahit papano tumibay yung character ko. Lahat ng sermon mo dito, matagal ko ng sinabi.

 

Eto in case hindi mo natapos yun kwento

 

But I realized one thing about myself that day...... Una I am not like him.... I am not a bully. Pangalawa, I survived the toughest mentors and critics in my industry. I survived graduate school internship etc. All because of my character. And in a way being bullied made me the man I am today.

 

So I approached and we shared an awkward stare..... I knew he knew who I was at matindi sama ng loob ko noong araw.... But I didn't say a word. I just noded and smiled. Without saying anything he understood na I know what he did, but I forgive him. And he smiled back at me pero payuko naman

 

So ayan. I am not bitter. I will admit syempre when you go back to the times when you felt like such a loser, me kurot ng konti. Tao lang naman ako. Pero that does not mean I am bitter. In fact, I ended the story acknowledging na because I survived that I am a stronger person.

Edited October 13, 2015 by Edmund Dantes

[Edmund Dantes]

huwag ibintang sa iba kung ano kinalabasan ng buhay mo. we make our own decisions. kung nawala self esteem mo kasalanan mo iyan.

 

I see your point.

 

But at the same time, you can't completely waive off the responsibility on the part of the bullies and those na hinahayaan lang itong mangyari.

 

Sabi ko nga, trabaho ng magulang o ng mga teacher na unang una turuan mabuting asal ang mga bata. Trabaho din nila pangalagaan at protektahan yung mga naapi na. Siguro naman its a given na kapag ang isang bata di pinangangaralan ng tama, hindi nagiging maayos ang paglaki. Yes it is still his responsibility what he becomes later on in life, pero it sure would help kung me gumagabay sayo ng tama di ba?

 

Kaya ko ito nasabi, kasi marami dyan yung hindi maayos ang pamilya na inuuwian. Ako maswerte kahit papano mahal ako ng nanay ko. Meron akong mga kilala na di nga maayos bahay nila, pagdatin pa sa school tutuksuhin pa, kung hindi matakbuhan mga teachers, eh pano na?

[Edmund Dantes]

 

tapos pag pinalagan mo ikaw pa ang lalabas na masama. If there is one thing that getting bullied taught me was not really to physically fight back but more on learning to adjust and act accordingly. Yung tipong imbes na magwala ako at makipagsapakan ako na lang mismo lalayo tapos dedmahin na lang ng tuluyan yung taong yun. Ginawa ko yun sa mga bumabangga sa kin ang naging effective naman - walang gulo at naka focus pa ko sa dapat kong pagtuunan ng pansin.

 

Violence is not a good way to solve the problem of bullying. Baka nga dahil dyan mapariwara pa buhay mo lalo. Kasi mangyayari nyan, you can end up seriously injuring someone. I know na in a street fight, the one who is more determined to hurt not caring of the consequence usually wins lol. But there are consequences. Kung di ikaw mabugbug, ikaw bubugbugin

 

Noon kasing HS ako, usong uso yung mga Frat noon which is a euphemistic way of saying these are gangs. So yun iba para huwag apihin, para me resbak, sumasali sa mga gang. And dahil nga hindi magagandang character yung kasama dun sa gang, ayun natututo magbisyo at kung ano ano.

 

Dapat kasi alam ng mga bata na its ok na magsumbong. Walang problema dun. Kung me matanda na mamagitan, pwede ayusin na lang yung problema. Kesa magkasakitan pa

[r35gtr]

The Prom Queen

 

You know this type of bully. Every school has one. She is the prettiest girl in the block. She is the most popular. Everybody has a crush on her.

 

Of course her bullying was not physical. It was more of akala nya mas mabango t** nya.

 

 

Errr.. Paano mo nalaman na tingin niya mas mabango ebak niya? parang may pinanghuhugatan, di ka naman pala niya inaano eh bakit mo siya naisip? and kung maganda siya chances are she never interacted with you so what gives? why react if you are not bitter?