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But we should always remember that we are only human. Sometimes we need to reconsider and give them a chance to change. Pero pag paulit ulit mahahalata mo naman kung gusto magbago o hindi. Ang ibig ko lng parating sa inyo mga kapatid is kung isang beses palang nya ito nagagawa sa iyo. Pero its your choice parin nmn in the end.

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when the cheater believes it is wrong. B)

otherwise we can always justify our actions, in whatever we do. case in point, there's nothing wrong with going to an establishment for a: :rolleyes:

handjob: its part of the massage, for full body relaxation. its an extra service. besides no penetration was involved.
blowjob: president clinton said: "i did not have sex with that woman," so the generation after this speech is justified (even though by definition his "sex" organ was involved) to use this defense.
sex: standard defense when caught: its just sex, not love, i wore protection. she meant nothing to me. i wanted some variety, thrill, etc. i still come home to you. i love you, and our kids. yada yada.

some of us stopped because of the consequences of getting caught. but i believe a much stronger reason, is because he wants to do what's right. you know the saying: "collect and collect, and select the best". he finally found someone to be with for the rest of his life. he wants to nurture their relationship, and even though the temptations are still available, he retires from these forums and no longer strays, because he doesn't want to do anything that would jeopardize what they have together, and is happy to explore the possibilities of being exclusive with each other, as lifetime companions. "meron forever...". :wub:

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It takes a perfect relationship and someone who can make him change for him to stop cheating.

 

For Men, sometimes its all about the partner's way of showing us how we are loved. It's sometimes all about the treatment. Men are like Women, we get bored if a woman is too fine, too conservative, someone who gives us all, and loves us unconditionally. Technically, that is how it's supposed to be, but most of us Men, we tends to get bored and whenever we find somebody who's the opposite, and when I say the opposite, it was somebody who's clingy, smarter, out goer, more adventurous, smarter, and more liberated, we tent to get pulled by the attraction. That's when we get to cheat.

 

We (most of the men), gusto namin, ung nag hahabol din kami, nag aalala, nangangamba, gusto namin ung chill lang din ung relation. Hindi mahigpit etc. sometimes it gets boring kapag sobrang palagay na ung loob namin na wla silang gagawin, na sobrang bait nila, nasa bahay lang etc.

 

I hope you get the example and the thought, sa mga nakaka relate. This is 80 percent reasons why most Men cheat.

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