How can a cheater stop cheating

[Grafos]

Mahirap talaga if you rely on self-control only. Ika nga ng researchers, it's an exhaustible resource. Enter Chip & Dan Heath:

 

Why Change is So Hard (4-minute video)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpiDWeRN4UA

 

Framework: How to Make a Switch

https://heathbrothers.com/download/switch-framework.pdf

[borhe123]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. That is the hard truth. There's no second or third chance, once trust is broken it can never be undone. One can never stop cheating once started - they will always find an excuse to cheat.

[Toogood2bewithyou]

Some point in time! but once a cheater always a cheater . . .

[B.C.]

You can't. Nasa sa kanila kung ititigil na nila ang pagiging babaero nila.

 

It's a cycle, kung nagawa nya sa una, di malabong gawin nya sa pangalawa hanggang sa namatay na lang sya di pa sya tapos magbilang kung ilang beses na syang nangaliwa at nagloko.

[The Janitor]

People don't change. You just suppress your true self para makipag compromise, etc pero pag na corner ka, that true side of yours will claw its way back out. Sa iba parang coping mechanism na. E.g. papasok sa isang seryosong relationship. Sa iba marriage pa. Magkaka problema, mag aaway, may makikitang pagkukulang sa partner, di alam panu gaganti. So gagawin nyang piece ung current partner sa game with another person, na di rin alam na they're being cheated on as well.

 

If you're a perennial cheater, then that's your true self. Wag na itago. Embrace it. Just know that there will always be consequences to your decisions.

[Cathlebas]

Tsk tsk...

[mikebustos]

Feed them with insecticide. Cheating dies, so does the cheater.

[sirdalandan]

Mag jakol makalipas ang isang oras every after meal.

[8crypt0n1nja8]

get out of the relationship immediately once you discover your partner is cheating on you...take it from my several experiences with them...they will never change...they take pleasure from it

[SergioG]

They will never change tapos sila pa yung parang asong ulol na mag hahabol pqg naka hanap na ng mas better sakanila. For example this guy who works at a government "employee" nakuha pang mambabae di muna ayusin sariling pamilya does not even live center of metro manila.

[Ms. V]

Once a cheater always a cheater khit tumanda pa at hanggang mamatay

[moan13]

Mukang wla ng chance may kasabihan nga "Once a cheater always a cheater ".

[SergioG]

Mahirap they have low self esteem lalo na yung mga 30's above na bago nag cheat. They need this to make them feel better about themselves. Yun yung mga walang love life nung younger years or sila lagi nag hahabol. They want to feel wanted kasi. Pansinin nyo usually na serial cheater are those ugly or average looking ones pa.

 

I know a lot of above average looking peeps who did cheat when they were younger (can't help it maraming choices e) pero gets tired din, in the end we all wanted something stable na.

[The Janitor]

People. Don't. Change.

[riceboy18]

There is always 2 sides of the story. Baka naman my pagkukulang si girl kaya si guy hinahanap sa iba.

 

A perfect example is myself. I love my wife and we are in our 40s. When you get to this age and stage, the romance is somewhat not there anymore. I try so hard to be sweet but she tends to show that she just gets irritated. Ruining the mood. Sex becomes more of an obligation than passionate. If and do we have sex, when she cums already, she tells me to come na din so we can go to sleep. No more fun like before. So I go around looking for someone to fill that passion that I still want to feel which I can not anymore get from my wife.

 

So to the women in this chatroom, take care of your men so that they do not do what I do.