Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex

[Kimchiwarui]

Yeah, it happens. Yung times na solve ka na na nakatingin lang sa kanya or hawak kamay lang. Feeling mo everything is alright in the world. Pero sooner or later mauubos rin and the act follows. Natural relationship progression siguro, as long as ok on both parties.

[toruk makto]

I'm from another generation than most of you guys here. And I've noticed that Sex is not that important to most women nowadays and they can do without it. They don't even enjoy doing it. Is this the norm now?

I just recently got separated and just started to circulate. It's easier to get laid but the experience mostly is left wanting.

What do u guys think? Women a generation ago is a lot better than now?

[machine soul]

when you get attracted physically, we men, tend to think about sex as well.

 

but it doesn't mean we disrepect the girl already. at least in our mind, we think about it but we don't say it out loud to the woman that we want sex with her right away.

 

falling in love, due to having a lot of common interests, aspirations, and principles, are only a part of falling in love.

i guess, when you get to fall for the person and have this respect for her opinions, then it comes deeper meaning of love between partners.

 

imagine when you get older, or your partner got sick and can't perform sexual deed and you still care for him/her without thinking about your own sexual need. if any person could accept that, then you are genuinely in love.

 

on the other hand, if i'm always turned down to have sex because of any unacceptable reasons, then i guess my partner doesn't love me back and it's time for me to move on and say goodbye.

 

 

just think of the difference between key ingredient and main ingredient, then i'd say sex is a main ingredient in love, but not a key ingredient. go figure about my analyzation

 

 

[Guest Dwayne Sanchez.]

i think it won't happen to me.

[glut_func]

i call it BS. First law of attraction will always be due to libog. And that's a fact. Ang mag-deny mabaog na.

[smoothtalker]

kung babae, posible. lalake? probable, but nearly unlikely.

 

i could see it though, especially if the guy has a medical condition and he cant perform. or maybe he's kinda gay? he likes the girl as a partner, pero cant see himself having sex with her.

 

most christians reserve themselves until they get married. pero that ends on the night of the honeymoon.

 

pero as a girl, wouldnt you be offended if the guy doesnt want to sleep with you? doesnt that make you think there's something wrong with you? that your unf#&kable? pardon my french

[toruk makto]

when you fall in love sex takes a back seat and in front would be companionship. the problem is that there are no back seat in my car so both will take the front seat. meaning sex will share a seat with companionship or whatever is important to you, but sex will always be there unless your too old na.

[gwapingsz1]

I have this feeling where the love over takes the lust. However, you end up getting sex from somewhere else.

[toruk makto]

there is a group in the US that practice this. they are small group but getting bigger. some have sex once a year some are openly gay but does not have sex.

[glut_func]

possible to especially if you have great respect for your partner...especially present if you started out as great friends bago naging kayo... but then again, nasa loob lagi ang kulo

[man727ton]

Personally, I think the purest form of love is metaphysical, it goes beyond what can be seen or touched. It can only be felt by the heart.

 

I've had my share of lusts many many times in the past. I can have sex with many women, but can only fall in love with a very few.

 

I won't mix love and sex in their purest form, at least it's hard to have pure love and think of sex, nor think of pure sex and fall in love.

 

Just my own view.

[cobracobs]

positive

[dibdba]

I think it is still possible for a couple to be in love and not have sex. Rare, but possible. It doesn't mean though, that one or both are not being driven crazy by horniness.

 

It's just a question of opportunity and how sexually active their couple-friends are.

[prettyxian]

Hmmm pwede

[reyvenmartinez]

Its like water and oil for me, meron mga girls that I use to love hindi dahil labg s lust but pure intentions, meanwhile there are girls that are just for satisfying each of our needs. Well it would be better if both kudos to relationships lile that. Pure love mix with satisfying sexual needs but I opt not to have. Haha mas enjoy ko pa in my age.