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Feeling Rich, Looking Rich And Claiming To Be Rich


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On 5/12/2008 at 11:00 AM, augustmoon said:

This weekend, i got a comment from my sister who lives in NY that got me stumped... Sabi niya...bakit daw mga Pinoy has this NEED to establish in ANY social interaction that they are RICH..

 

Your thoughts please..

I believe that this dates back to the time of the Spaniards. Filipinos (er, Indios) were considered second class islanders or even lower. Even Mestizos (in the 60s these were know as the "mestizo de entre suelo) born in the island belonged to a lower strata when compared to a Spanish migrant. However, the process of social assimilation by the Filipino with the Mestizos and Spaniards had a pre-requisite of land and wealth. This was very evident in Rizal's novels, particularly, with Dona Victorina. Up to this day, wealth and influence became the standard of the Filipinos' acceptance in the society or community he/she revolves in, not just abroad but even locally.

The situation never improved because the Philippines never had the occasion to broaden its middle class. The landed and the hacenderos wielded power and influence during the post-Spanish rule. It got worse during Marcos' time, where only a handful of cronies benefitted. To have influence and wealth, cronies stole from that state. Corruption was a way to get rich. This carried on during Cory's, FVR's, Erap's term. Well, need I say more for GMA's term?

Filipinos are proud! Among the countries in Asia, we are one race where bowing is not customary -- Japan, China, Korea, India, Thailand etc. bowing is part of their tradition. Filipinos, they nod their heads by lifting their chin.

A false pretense from one of the poorest country in Asia!

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Any legitimately rich people would know that there's zero benefit from bragging that you're rich because:

1. Uutangan ka lang;

2. You will attract the wrong type of women, the gold diggers and

3. If you lose your wealth by some unfortunate circumstances, people have something to say.

But it's also not good to be frugal. Always live a dignified life kasi may mukha din wife and kids mo. My entire childhood, my parents were extremely frugal even though we're financially comfortable. I think girls thought I was poor kaya hindi ako sinagot ng lahat ng niligawan ko when I was still studying. 

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  • 4 months later...

Sabi nga nila, “fake it until you make it.” 😂

dati, may mga lugar akong gusto puntahan and mga bagay na gusto gawin kasi alam kong mayayaman yung tao doon and activities ng mga mayayaman yun.
aside sa magmumukha akong mayaman sa mata ng mga average kong kakilala, plus possible pa na may makilala akong potential connections. Hitting two birds in one stone ika nga. (Though hindi nangyari yung may makilala akong connection hahaha yung face card ko hindi talaga the gustuhin type, naalala ko nung thera pa ako. Bilang lang sa daliri ko yung first choice talaga ako. Mostly 2nd option pag wala yung gusto or recommendations lang ako.) Pero okay lang yon atleast narating ko yung peak ng career ko ng walang connections, no rich parents, no back ups. Ako yung back up. ♥️

 

 

 

 

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