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  • 3 weeks later...
Iniisip ko lang kasi yung time and effort then. Why other men got what they want by spending time and effort and ako..well always back to the drawing boards palagi.

 

Well siguro nga ur ryt. I am not really into her. Maganda lang kasi nging samahan namin as friends and we start to build our own world tlga. Pero when you try to take it to the next level, wala tlga she doesn't respond that well although she's giving quite obvious signs normal to women. And the signs are to hard to ignore. Parang she's treating you as her boyfriend. Parang may commitment cya pero in principle di pala commitment yun (e.g. cancelling everything just for me, going out with me kahit alanganin, intro to parents, asikaso pag date, etc). Tapos when you start opening up, "ayyy friends lang tlga kayo". Iniisip ko na she misses her boyfriend so much na ako napagbubuntungan :) I just want to end it na ren pero she keeps on coming back. Our friendship is becoming a vicious cycle na ren. I tried to stay away...she comes back...then when i make some effort to show her i love her...then i propose...wala ren back to square one...then again and again..di ko tlga maintindihan! ang gulo!!! Di ko n alam san ako lalagay. I've always wanted her but I don't have the answers if she wants me in her life or not.

 

Rebound na relasyon? no prob saken kasi when you are getting into a second relationship, kahit gano kahaba ung lag time between your first and second partner, its still a rebound am i ryt? Its just called 'moving forward' ika nga. I don't feel to be second stringer lang kasi at least you have her di ba?

 

Salamat for your reply. :thumbsupsmiley:

 

i think you should try to control your feelings and just be there for her as a friend, if di mo kaya na friends lang kayo then i suggest you avoid her or stay away from her......

 

but who knows in the near future paps, just don't lose hope paps, i am in the same predicament as you pero mas magulo yung sa akin, hahahaha

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Guest biancaanne

Sometimes, one party is misinterpreted simply because he or she is trying to compensate and let go of his/her feelings that cannot be reciprocated.

 

Minsan, napagkakamalang flirt si lalake or babae dahil maraming ka-kulitan. Pero ang totoo niyan, nagpapakitang tao lang yan kasi nga di mo siya type.

 

It's call "adapting" to the situation.

 

Pero sa totoo lang, baka pareho lang kayo ng nararamdaman, di lang magkaaminan dahil mas nakakatakot masira ang friendship. :cry:

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  • 2 weeks later...
I am 'dating' this girl right now who recently broked-up with her boyfriend for 8 years. We are friends for nearly 6 years already pero paputol-putol because nag-abroad ako. Now we are going out when I came back from abroad. I am in love with her already but she said na hindi cya available for commitment right now. Pero she likes my company at minsan cya tlga nagyaya..we both like food kaya we go to restaurants na minsan libre nya ko or libre ko cya...we go out as friends lang...

 

Question: Di ba lugi ako nito considering na may feelings ako sa kanya pero cya gusto nya friends lang kasi nga she's recovering from someone? Di ba dapat kami na kasi single pa cya at single ako? Nasaktan dn ang ego ko kasi 'mahina' ako. Should I say no or not ask her anymore the next time na yayain nya ko kasi nga we are not in the same page anymore? And I feel na parang unfair kasi di nya pinapansin ung efforts ko for her? Feeling ko nabasted na ko?

 

Salamat po..

 

know what bro im in the same page. i very much love this gurl. pero shes engage already to her current partner. masakit man isipin mhal ko tlga sya. pg mgksma kmi wel no dull moments tlga sobrang saya. pero kaibigan lng kmi pra s knya. pero lam mo recently ko lng nlaman from her pa. n its better this way kc khit anong mangyari ndi k pwdng mwla s knya even ndi kyo masyado nguusap she knows ur always at her side. ung guy n current bf nya mgaway cla or mgkalabuan pwdng mgbreak sila tpos wla n. atleast ikaw mgaway man kyo or mgkasamaan man kyo ng loob ur still frends. i can love her for eternity khit nsa tabi nya lng ako. ok n skin un wag lng sya mawala s tabi ko.

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^ EMO

 

but delivered right

 

love is like religion.. masalimuot pag pinagtalunan

 

 

masasabi ko lang na if ok na sayo na friends kayo then GO

 

go find other girls (the deserving ones please) and give them the love you kept for that girl

 

may mas deserving naman siguro sayo malay mo..

 

 

i admire your strength really..

 

salute

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yeah i admire that guy also, kudos to you sir...

 

as for me, i will hang on to RT for as long as i can and show her how much i love her and just accept the role as a special friend and not as someone very special......we both have complicated relationships so we cannot be together AT THE MOMENT...but in the near future, who knows????

 

:)

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^ EMO

 

but delivered right

 

love is like religion.. masalimuot pag pinagtalunan

 

 

masasabi ko lang na if ok na sayo na friends kayo then GO

 

go find other girls (the deserving ones please) and give them the love you kept for that girl

 

may mas deserving naman siguro sayo malay mo..

 

 

i admire your strength really..

 

salute

 

 

for now maybe ndi p ko pwd humanap ng ibang gurl kwawa nmn bka maging rebound lng sya. wel sna nga mkahanap ako ng gurl n pwd kong mhalin 2lad nya.

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