Have You Ever Been.....

[kissandfondle]

Yes I was so gaga over him.He occupies my time and I was so consumed by desire for him. Until I found out the real him na drug addict pala . mama's boy and hot tempered. But it was all too late.

[villamd]

yes, she is my wife now.

[X-23]

I only do whatever the guy does times 3. I am not crazy though. At least in my mind I would feel that I am crazy in love but you know, I still love myself more of course. So konting kainis, ayoko na agad. Hehe. So, obsessed? Never!

[courtesanhunter]

naranasan ko na dati na may naobsess sa akin na mas bata kesa sa akin. parang siya yung nanligaw sa akin. laging nagsesend ng mga sweet messages sa text man o sa sulat. madalas na binibigyan ako ng kung ano anong regalo o pagkain. after niyang malaman yung tungkol sa totoo kong feelings. na ang nagugustuhan kong babae ay yung mismong bestfriend niya. nasira ko siya ng husto at nagpabaya siya sa kanyang pagaaral. napatawag pa yung parents niya sa campus dahil nga sa biglang pagbagsak ng mga grades niya. so sa tingin ko ang isa sa mga characteristics ng obsession ay yung nakakulong ka sa fantasy na lahat ng ginagawa mo sa ngalan ng pagmamahal ay sumasangayon sa mga gusto mo lang na mangyari. nandun din yung pakiramdam na hirap kang pakawalan ang mga bagay na hindi naman talaga naging sayo.

[Mayumilee]

Goodeve

[neilgayuman]

Yes, I used to be that way in college. Like lagi ko silang naiisip, and I kept imagining unrealistic future scenarios with them. But I never had the balls to act on these obsessions, lol. Glad I grew out of it. 

[accountnamin]

not much difference

[VivaForever2005]

Happened many times

[HimuraButosay]

On 5/29/2024 at 10:11 AM, neilgayuman said:

Yes, I used to be that way in college. Like lagi ko silang naiisip, and I kept imagining unrealistic future scenarios with them. But I never had the balls to act on these obsessions, lol. Glad I grew out of it. 

Yep.. same here.

 

Obsession; not really good.

It should always be the right kind of love & in the right amount... hwag sobra-sobra at hwag rin kulang.  😉

[Miss Zelda]

When I was a young person - I had my first experience with a co-worker and it was utter madness. It was an exhilirating experience like your eye sockets would fold neatly under your eyelids with hot sweat and tears! With that being said that despite the co-worker was married with 3 young children - I didn't give a F. I've tormented this man to come to my apartment ( I lived near the office) and do the deed every lunchtime almost everyday for years. It was natural as sleeping and drinking water. I was deeply infatuated with him until his wife came to see me. He told her that it was all on me and that I was the initiator of it among other things and i told her that i'm not going to see him anymore. I changed jobs and moved on and he apparently left his wife for somebody else. 

I'll never forget him, I haven't had an org a s m since.

Edited September 12 by Miss Zelda

[Netflix007]

On 9/12/2025 at 10:16 PM, Miss Zelda said:

When I was a young person - I had my first experience with a co-worker and it was utter madness. It was an exhilirating experience like your eye sockets would fold neatly under your eyelids with hot sweat and tears! With that being said that despite the co-worker was married with 3 young children - I didn't give a F. I've tormented this man to come to my apartment ( I lived near the office) and do the deed every lunchtime almost everyday for years. It was natural as sleeping and drinking water. I was deeply infatuated with him until his wife came to see me. He told her that it was all on me and that I was the initiator of it among other things and i told her that i'm not going to see him anymore. I changed jobs and moved on and he apparently left his wife for somebody else. 

I'll never forget him, I haven't had an org a s m since.

Your post reminds me of mine but in a different way!

[Netflix007]

I was on my first overseas posting. She was my direct report.

It started with a fight over a work.issue and one day she asked me to meet after the office to discuss. She drove me around and started kissing me at every red light. We started making out almost everyday in office. Man.. she was mother of 2 but I haven't met anyone as creative and hot like her yet. Sometimes, we will go to.drive in and make out in evenings. She had this unsatisfied hunger and on our drive in rodeos she will.make me come 3-5 times before we go home. The most exciting one was sucking me with ice in her mouth and using her nails on balls and anus to.wake that one up.

She became obsessed and when she can't handle any more told her husband. We never committed and i never said that we will marry. I think, she went to the point that to.tell.him that my tool is better than his. The guy started chasing me but couldn't go to HR. Seems he still loved her. Finally, took transfer out to new location. She continued for a year in the same company but we never met after I left. No more in touch with her but memories of our escapades are still so fresh.

 

Anyway, lesson learnt. Never crap on your own backyard. Those were the days, Corporate were still tolerate ... now a days, you just get fired.